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NymphWriter
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 56
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STUPID! STUPID! STUPID! And whoever the fuck you were listening to just cost you so much! I'd ask what the fuck you were thinking but I know that's pointless as you clearly were NOT thinking! All I can fucking hope is you learned from you fucking stupid ass mistake! However... knowing you as well as I do... I'm not holding out a lot of hope.
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My same complaint, the blocking system.. If I cant see them in the forums , why can they see me and talk crap? If I block someone, it should be a complete block, not a partial. Sorry you asked.


I totally agree... but at least the block is a hell of a lot better than what we had before... which was nothing (well... practically nothing) & it extends to the timelines.
A dear friend who isn't afraid to put it all out on paper or a computer screen. It's why she's such an amazing writer.
Such a naughty Lushie... but she knows how to brighten my day and on occasion... she makes me laugh.
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Update:

a_chica 4,872

naughtyannie 3,534

shortnsassyone 3,500

jonathans_fantasies 2,591

Papergirl 2,410

submissivemom72 2,196

briana_lovesit 2,174

edlangston 2,107

msdirtylittlesecret 1,872


Way to go Annie!!! 2nd place!!!
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Thanks GAV and Crew...

(It can be a SERIOUS heartache when one is AFRAID to come on site for fear of calumny and bullying... This goes some way to solving that problem. But not ALL the way... We continue to live in hope.)

xx Steve


Wonderful to see you back Steve! You were missed.

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Now I'd like to be able to delete offensive and redundant posting from my timeline page.


Well... while I agree with the deleting shit off our timelines... I will say that the block does extend to the timeline. So if you have someone blocked, no matter how many times they quote you... it won't clog up your timeline whatsoever.

This bonus feature has made the block that much more awesome and in my opinion, has helped reduce the drama.
Never hide what is truly bothering you. My husband and I talk openly about everything... though most of what we talk about is financial or employment issues. He's my sounding board and I am his.
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Can someone please explain to me what it is about this specific cartoon that is so offensive? Is it the mere mention of autism in a joke or is it something else, like people are still buying into the 'vaccines cause autism' story?


I'll try.

The cartoon is trying to make light of a very serious issue. While you are correct that the myth that vaccines has been debunked, it still doesn't stop some parents from not vaccinating their child(ren) and putting other children at risk for diseases like measles, whooping cough, mumps, etc. Sadly, I've met a parent of an autistic child who swears up and down his vaccines were the cause of his autism (despite what the research has said.) I hope one day the "cause" of autism can be found.

Making a joke about autism is in the same category of poor taste as making a joke about someone who is retarded or suffers from other disabilities.

While I'm not a parent of an autistic child... I have 6 autistic students in my classes this school year. They struggle everyday to pick up simple social cues and struggle with figurative language. Some will stem or fixate on an item, others will burst into tears for no reason I can see. All six of my students have different issues and I must be very careful to not upset them. They struggle with stress and they don't do change very well.

So, no, the joke isn't funny. The cartoon is offensive.

I knew the moment I read Verbal's story it was going to win. Awesomeness stands out. Now I must read the other two and be treated to some great writing. Congratulations to you all. It was an honor to serve on the field of battle with you all.

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These are both great suggestions. Would a forum on Sex in the News be called The Pink Tank?


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So there is!

A notification then, that you have asked a very dumb question on this thread. THAT'S a notification I need.


It was probably just something you have overlooked until now. Since you get a lot of votes & comments on your stories... the notice that your amazing story was also favorited was easily missed.
Thank you for all you've done to make Lush a better site and one of the premier adult story sites on the net.



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A notification that someone has added your story to their favorites.


This has been around for some time now. I know because when I see it I smile.
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No Gav does whatever Rachel tells him to we all do lol xo


You got that one right.
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Hey Nymph

First of all if you are wondering why I am setting to follow you again, I never stopped I don't know why you were gone off my list? I just thought you had not written for a while?

I am not saying what you are asking for is wrong, I am saying that it should not be necessary in the first place because I never agreed that those options should have been implemented that's all... Now that they have then yeah, I guess poor Gav is gonna have to look into giving us that option for those of us who like to show others who we read and what stories we like.


Hey Kiera

As far as why you weren't following me... maybe it was a glitch. As we know, some of Gav's updates have caused minor issues from time to time.

You are correct that I hadn't written for an extended period of time due to a busy non-Lush life and no good ideas. The latest comp was the mojo I needed for a new idea to flow.

I didn't think you were wrong... I just think that like some of the other suggestions that Gav has taken the time to implement... this too should be an option for those who want it. I for one, don't want to know if someone unfollows me. If they do... that is their choice & honestly none of my business.
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No

Gav has enough to do without making check boxes too to make everyone happy.

Do I agree with the notify non follow thing ect.. No, I don't anymore than I do they hide who I follow or whose stories I follow option which imo makes me wonder why even have the option?

For example, I follow sprite, Buz, AVG and a few others, they don't follow me and I don't expect them to, I follow them because I love how they write and like to read them... I never did the you follow me and I will follow you thing or you read mine and I will read yours thing.

It just seems to me that Gav's time is being wasted on pettiness and rivalry amongst the writers... He cannot please us all and I hope that those of us that are more adult about these things won't make his life more complicated by having to add tick this option on top of having to add silly block options.

As I have said before I follow who I like and leave them showing, hoping that others will read them too because I think they are good, same goes for the stories I favourite.

Sighs


Now here is where I'm going to disagree with you sweetie. While I applaud all that Gav has done to make Lush a better site, I do agree that we should have the option to be notified if someone unfollows us or not. Some do want that feature while others do not. By making it an option, those who want to know when they are unfollowed, they will be notified, and those who do not, will have no clue.

As to the whole "You follow me and I'll follow you" nonsense... I'm always flattered when someone feels I'm worthy to be followed. However, I don't follow someone just because they follow me... I follow someone because I'm a fan of their writing. I know it means more work for Gav, but it will continue to make Lush a better site for all.
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It's a full title change. From "Shard: Theater" to "Enraptured." Because "Shard: Theater" is a really bad title. I can do that?


While your original title was unique... I do like your new title better. Congrats on the successful change.
Are you talking about adding a "Part 1" or do you mean changing the title fully?
I'm going to assume that I'm not even in the upper hundreds. No worries. Too many dedicated Attention Whores out there. Well done everyone.