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NymphWriter
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 56
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I am very happy with the size of my breasts. They give me great curves where I need them and I feel so feminine.
I too have gone to a 3-month pill (but I get a generic so I'm not sure what the "brand name" is) and it's been HEAVEN. My husband enjoys the lack of my period and I like the thought of no period for a nice long time. Mind you, in my case, my week "off pill" as I call it is extra heavy, but it's so worth it.
Quote by caedus32577
i have always wondered, thru experiences of my own, do girls enjoy giving a blow job, because where i live, girls find giving a bj pretty low and gross


I have given many men in my lifetime a blowjob. Most enjoy it and I do as well. Yes, I agree with HotWife in that it's best when it's foreplay. And like her, I've done it with no expectation of anything in return due to a husband's medical condition (he's now my ex-husband.)

I don't see is as my "duty," but rather an act that brings my man pleasure and enjoyment. I'm not as talented as some ladies, but I've never had any complaints that I can think of. Often, the man I'm with will return the favor. I guess it's just what you are taught or not taught. No one taught me NOT to suck a man's cock... and swallowing came as a happy accident.

I have heard that some girls/ladies were taught only whores suck cock. Well... if that's the case... I'm a happy whore!
Sites like Lush are porn for the mind. Though, in the overall realm of quality, Lush is at the top of the list (IMHO). We are blessed with live human mods who read over our stories and either do some minor editing for the Goldies, or inform us of our shortcomings on our pieces and ways to fix it. Lush has also created a community of readers and authors in ways that few other sites even try to offer.

Yes, it is a porn site... and a damn classy on at that. It's not perfect (though nothing is) but it is really great!
Quote by Cyberwalker
It's nice that we have a discussion on a movie here, but wish it were not so confrontational. Personally I like the film enough. It's more than merely an erotic movie for me. I don't want to elaborate here on why that is so, unless prompted. So to an extent, I am with Felix on his liking of the movie, but am a little sad with the confrontational tone he took. Yes, Nymphwriter, it is a question of taste. At the same time movies generate different levels of perception in people. Some people don't necessarily make a wholesome reading of a film. But that doesn't make them 'less intellectual' necessarily. A film needs to justify itself. At the same time, a viewer needs to justify himself/herself and not be a completely passive receiver.

Thanks for sharing your views.


Cybe.


I completely agree, Cybe. I shared my opinion and it was just that, my opinion. I'm glad some enjoyed it.

I'm sure if we made a list of 1,000 movies many people would be like, "That one sucks, that one is awesome." Of course, this would be followed by, "Why isn't ____________ on this list?" Like you said, it doesn't make the viewer "'less intellectual' necessarily," it just means there was something about the film they either liked or disliked.
Quote by Magical_felix
You did not in any way say why you thought it was stupid. You just stated it was. I take no issue with people not liking a piece of art but to just call it stupid without being able to articulate why is a dangerous thing for society. Sorry, but the death of intellectualism is something that upsets me and causes me to be passionate. I wouldn't care otherwise but since you're a teacher it annoys me and frightens me at the same time.


Fine. Since you will not be satisfied until you get your way, I felt the whole movie was piss poorly written and that scene truly made no sense. He starts to cry because he was caught? The whole story was over his ridiculous obsession with his wife's fantasy. She did not cheat on him, but he spend the bulk of the film not only obsessing over this, but also plotting some level of revenge that totally backfires on him. Had he been a real man he would have talked with his wife about his feelings and maybe they could have come to a happy medium. They didn't until after he does all the stupid shit he did.

A poorly written movie might be seen as art to some like yourself and that's fine. I said I didn't like it. You demanded to know why. Honestly, it didn't appeal to me. I've seen more intellectually written films that cost way less and told a better story. Good writing can always shine though. I don't feel this was Stanley Kubrick's best piece of cinematography compared to his others.

So get over it. Really sir, it's just a movie that we disagree on. You've put way too much energy in why you liked it and why I did not. Instead of accepting my dislike of the film, you have felt the need to belittle and insult me about it. I'm happy you like the movie. That's your opinion. You won't change my opinion about it, anymore than I will change yours.

Now, go enjoy your film.
Quote by Magical_felix
I didn't say it was a thriller... Your reading comprehension really is appalling. I said it was disguised as one. A bait and switch which made sense plotwise (a plot that was not X+Y=Z which probably confused you).

Your "critique" lacks any kind of thought. It's akin to saying something sucks with no reasoning whatsoever which is a trademark of someone who is intellectually inferior. It doesn't matter if your ilk told you they didn't understand what was going on in Eyes Wide Shut, you probably get along with them because you're both of lower mental capacity.


I said I didn't like the movie, I said I felt it was neither erotic nor a thriller. It has nothing to do with my intelligence as I said before, but you only read what you wanted to read. I did not give that movie any sort of "critique" as you claim. I explained why I didn't care for it and mentioned one scene and why I thought it was stupid. I voiced my opinion of it, but you felt the need to make it more than that. If you liked it, then that's fine. I don't know why you feel I'm not entitled to my own opinion. You seem to think that you must belittle others to make yourself look intelligent. You liked that movie. FINE. I think everyone understands that. I didn't. It did not appeal to me, nor did it appeal to the friend whom I saw it with. As I said before, I've met others who have shared my opinion of the film. I know others feel the way you do. What's the big deal? Are you secretly Stanley Kubrick? It's a movie that you & I have different opinions on. Seriously, get over it already.
Quote by Magical_felix
Well... it was an intellectual movie disguised as an erotic thriller. You would need to have an understanding of complex emotions, bedroom chess, dream logic and abstraction to understand it. There are clues about what is truly going on throughout the movie that only people with more refined sensibilities would be able to pick up on. It was very much like a piece of art in that way.


That is your opinion. To me, it wasn't a thriller. It was barely erotic. The plot line was mediocre at best. At most it was a soft-core porno with big-named stars. By far the worst was when he starts crying like a damn baby when she confronts him with the mask. If people liked that movie... then that's their business. I did not. It has nothing to do with my intelligence. It has to do with taste. That movie did not appeal to me and I know a few others who felt the same way.
Yes. My ex-girlfriend had a strap-on she enjoyed using on me. I have used one on a man... but that's a story for another time.
Quote by CleoElGato
Good to see not all humans are lazy. You may rub my belly now.


Would the great Cleo wish this humble nymph be naked?
Oh great Cleo el Gato! Welcome to Lush! I am honored to have been added as your new friend. And I come bearing the gift of tuna.

I think it would depend on the woman. Some would love it... some would hate it.
Quote by HotWife4U
Mine too. I've got the blindfold and rope.


I swear you get more awesome the more I get to know you!
Gangbanged while tied-up to a bed (or anything else for that matter) and blindfolded.
Quote by Cyberwalker
Kubrick's Eyes Wide Shut comes to mind obviously.


I remember this movie and these scenes. Might have been the only part of that horrid movie I actually liked. I'm sure some couples have engaged in this for a role-play or other fun sex act. It sounds like fun and I've even gone so far as to write about such acts in a story or two I've written.
During my dating days, I had specific brands I swore by and used faithfully. When my husband and I first started dating we did use condoms until we each got tested and decided to be a dedicated, loyal couple. Later, we had a brief period where we needed to use a condom once again and after one disastrous session, we opted to wait until we could resume sex without one (waiting for my birth control to kick in.) For us, we enjoy the feel of skin on skin.

I get the need to use condoms early in a relationship and I tell my own son he'd better use them. But I also know if he gets with a gal he really feels he loves he'll lose the condoms.

Personally... sex without condoms is always better. It just takes a lot of trust and a bit of a leap of faith.
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She is a very honest, kind and successful writer.


Thank you so much!

Mysteria... I love you too! You always make me smile & I enjoy reading your work.
Always seems to know when you're down and posts great pics on your page. Thanks Mysteria for all the times you brightened my day.
Quote by Simplicity
Sorry, something I fought with, but I needed to remove them. Im sorry..

This is something I have really been fighting myself about. But one of my best friends is fighting breast cancer and my father past away from cancer.. (They aren't pretty, but here they are.)

(Sorry the double space, but the first one was really bad,)


Never be sorry for doing what is right for you!

I stated earlier that I would not post a picture of my real breasts, but used images I found on the internet. There has been some unnecessary pressure form some (NOT TRINKET!) who tried to guilt or browbeat some of us to show our breasts. I support the good this thread has brought, but I do not like how some of our female members are made to feel shame because the are NOT showing their breasts. For some of us, there is much more at stake and a boobie shot is not worth ruining our lives outside of Lush.

Simplicity, I am so proud of you for doing what you felt you NEEDED to do. Trinket does understand. Anyone who doesn't... needs to and grow up.
Quote by Jasmine_x
Sorry but I had to take my picture down, I just felt really uncomfortable knowing it was on display. Hope you guys understand. sad


Sweetie... you were braver than I was. I told Trinket in a PM the full reasons behind my not posting my real breasts and she totally understood. It's why I made it clear the pics I was posting were not me. You have every right to pull your pictures if you no longer feel comfortable.

Trinket started this to bring awareness to Brest Cancer. The fact you participated to show your love & support is all that matters.