I find these questions overly generic.
Yes I think men enjoy sex as much as women. But to say ALL men are this way is unfair. Some men are looking for their next fuck but so are some women. I think that some men are looking for both someone to share ideas with, both sexually and otherwise. Some men are looking for suggestions and advice to please their real partner without jeopardizing the relationship they are already in. I've never seen chatting here as being unfaithful, but more as a way of safely exploring new ideas to better please their partner.
It really depends as I don't always talk sex with people on Lush... sometimes we share story ideas or talk about stores we read that we really liked or didn't like. But I have indulged from time to time and it would be a lot easier if this site didn't glitch so much like it has lately.
I did it with my ex-husband twice. He fucking loved it but it was majorly weird for me.
I have one pair... if I wear them... I wear them for both our pleasure & I expect to be rewarded for this... with either being fucked or eaten... or both!
Henti, anime, anything with tentacles.
Hetro or lesbian work too. Or a good gangbang with some light bondage.
Sometimes I lick the balls... but mostly I use my hand as I can't DT a guy, even though I've really tried. When I first learned to suck a guy's cock, he never said anything about his balls. My hubby does shave his balls so it saves me dealing with the hair. He likes it, but prefers the attention to his cock.
If a guy likes his balls licked & sucked... he should tell his partner that. I know I've told my partners of my past and present what I like & don't like. Not to be a bitch, but so he knows what will & won't please me.
I've actually done this... in a swimming pool. He pinned me against the wall, pulled my suit aside and fucked me silly. We even had people walk by & they thought we were just making out... I did once wear a pair of crotch-less panties to a bar and my then boyfriend who was in a wheelchair do to a motorcycle accident and though we couldn't fuck, he did finger me in the bar as I sat on his lap. Since he was in the chair... no one thought twice about me being in his lap.
Location is the key to this... I'd do it in a bar, or a dark theater... but not in school or a church.
I guess I'm going to sound a bit odd but I masturbate 1-2 times a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less. Just depends on my energy level & sex drive. When I do it I'm either in bed or in front of my computer watching a video or reading a hot story that makes me so horny I have to masturbate so I can cum. However, if I have a hand held shower head, then I do a lot masturbation in the shower.
Hmmm... of costumes I've actually worn in public that were "sexy" were the sexy enchantress, a unicorn, a fairy, but my sexiest was my mouse... extra mini skirt, fishnet stockings, & lots of cleavage.
I have done roleplay here and other places. It's a fun & safe way to explore fantasies. Especially the ones you would never be willing to do in the real world. As far as what... depends on the other person. I'm a flexible player, but I prefer to be an adult female.
Though I haven't had any "bad" scores here... on other sites I have. At first I did get upset & offended, until some nice readers contacted me (via e-mail or private messages) and pointed out my errors or brought spelling & typos to my attention so I could fix it. Once I realized that those with a brain and some compassion were bringing my flaws to my attention not to shame me, but to help me improve, I was grateful. Now, when I see errors in a reader's story, I send them a private message instead of posting a public comment as those could warp someone's views.
It's never easy to read criticism, but if you look at as a tool to help you improve... it can make you a better writer in the long run.
The 50 Shades Trilogy was the 1st thing my cousin's wife & I could talk about & it opened up not only a great dialogue about the books, but it opened a door for the two of us to become friends. She read the books when I had posted on Facebook that I was reading them. After reading them, I thought, I could do this, so I dusted off some old stories I had written, re-read them, edited them, and began to post. Since then, I've had a lot of positive (and a few negative) feedback which has inspired me to continue writing. I have personally always wanted to become a published writer... maybe, thanks to sites like Lush... I'll do it.
Thank you to anyone who's read my stories & given me feedback btw... you've inspired me to be a better writer.
Another woman can DT but might not be willing to swallow. The key is... communicate what you do & don't like and what you will & won't do.
I know some women are more comfortable than others & again, those ladies who are willing to show off what they got, then good for them. For those of us who aren't comfortable with that... we have our reasons & we don't care if you understand them or not.
a kiss so hot I swear my panties melt away.