The USA never ceases to surprise me in the doulbe standards that it has with regard to sex. Puritans may have founded it, and on the surface and in many aspects of public life, this still is the image that is portrayed. But below the surface you practice everything that the surface morality would label as corrupt.
Thank Darwin, for showing us that we evolved and still have many of the animalistic characteristics that got us to the peak(!) where we are today.
Don't agree about Spain or Eastern Europe, those countries don't have the body inhibitions so you find nudist swimming, beaches where toples women are the norm, and NONE of them are labelled as only for x or for y.
What was the best thing about Sex and the City? It brought an openness to public TV about sex for pleasure, and even anal sex for pleasure, not just for D&S.
I've had some glorious American lovers, as well as Spanish, Romanian, and of course French. Whatever the public layer of conformity, these lovely women understood their own sexuality and gloried in it.
That's where it should be and bollocks to the public norms.
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OldGeezer
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It is interesting to observe the main taboos stated are and children. was outlawed in most societies because of the fear of abnormalities from inbreeding, and while teh scientific explanation took a while, it had become imprinted in many cultures. As cultures developed their religions, it got taken up in them too.
With children, it is the question of abuse, and abusing the power that an adult has over a child. But when is a child old enough? This has varied (and still does) in different cultures and ages.
Personally speaking is no bg deal, so long a sit is for pleasure and not for procreation; and its the abuse that is , a young person (child if you like) has to be able to know what they are doing, which then limits the danger of abuse.
But having said which, I have never indulged in , nor in under age sex, law abiding citizen that I am
With children, it is the question of abuse, and abusing the power that an adult has over a child. But when is a child old enough? This has varied (and still does) in different cultures and ages.
Personally speaking is no bg deal, so long a sit is for pleasure and not for procreation; and its the abuse that is , a young person (child if you like) has to be able to know what they are doing, which then limits the danger of abuse.
But having said which, I have never indulged in , nor in under age sex, law abiding citizen that I am
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If th epublisher is willing to pay, and he/she must know of your distaste, then go for it, take the money. If you are successful, then you'll have the power to change, and the publisher who follows the money will go along wioth youy - assuming you are any good!
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Great Expectations - if Shakespear then why not Dickens!
Its all about this young kid Pip who has a nasty experience one night when an escaped convict, Magwitch, exposes himself on the moor near where the kid lives.
He also becomes friendly with an old lady and her cruel younger lover, Estelle. Pip is infatuated with her, and as he grows up he becomes a willing sex slave to the both of them.
Time goes by, and Pip grows up, still warped by his early sexual experiences, gets into debt and bad company, until he is rescued from poverty by a bequest from an unknown person. He thinks that this is payment for having to give cunningulus to the old woman, but it turns out it is from the old convict who showed Pip his dick.
It now gets incestuous, as the convict is the actually the father of Estelle, and secretly of Pip, though this is not made very clear. Estelle has married someone else, but the real ending of the book, which could not be published in Victorian times, is that Pip and Estelle live together, and proceed into the most corrupt and dirty relationship until they end up in poverty once more.
The moral of the story is that if you really want something Pip wanting Estelle), no matter what obstacles there are (they are really siblings), if you expect a lot, life will probably shit all over you.
Its all about this young kid Pip who has a nasty experience one night when an escaped convict, Magwitch, exposes himself on the moor near where the kid lives.
He also becomes friendly with an old lady and her cruel younger lover, Estelle. Pip is infatuated with her, and as he grows up he becomes a willing sex slave to the both of them.
Time goes by, and Pip grows up, still warped by his early sexual experiences, gets into debt and bad company, until he is rescued from poverty by a bequest from an unknown person. He thinks that this is payment for having to give cunningulus to the old woman, but it turns out it is from the old convict who showed Pip his dick.
It now gets incestuous, as the convict is the actually the father of Estelle, and secretly of Pip, though this is not made very clear. Estelle has married someone else, but the real ending of the book, which could not be published in Victorian times, is that Pip and Estelle live together, and proceed into the most corrupt and dirty relationship until they end up in poverty once more.
The moral of the story is that if you really want something Pip wanting Estelle), no matter what obstacles there are (they are really siblings), if you expect a lot, life will probably shit all over you.
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I think that it true of some guys. The sort that just want to put another notch on their bedhead.
They are missing out on the true pleasure of knowing a woman, fulfilling all her sexual pleasures and enjoying how she makes you feel in turn. Oh yes, and they can be great company to, even when the sexual urge is at bay! And that doesn't mean you want to settle down with her, maybe you could keep her as a friend.
They are missing out on the true pleasure of knowing a woman, fulfilling all her sexual pleasures and enjoying how she makes you feel in turn. Oh yes, and they can be great company to, even when the sexual urge is at bay! And that doesn't mean you want to settle down with her, maybe you could keep her as a friend.
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I don't see why Lush should be any different from any other internet site. It is a way of meeting people, and if you decide to meet with someone, then all the usual precautions etc come in to play. But if then all seems OK, then yes, I'd meet someone. In some ways, someone from Lush, especially if they are an author, may well have opened themselves up in their wirting to an extent that may not be the case in just a chat room.
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Oh yes, Rosie, I have nice sexy dreams, and sometimes I remeber the odd fragment. They usually have something to do with sun, holidays, a woman different to the one at my side, and rather dirty acts. I wish I could remember more but waking with a dim memory and a hard.... seems to be all I get.
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1 . would u rather slow sensual sex or rough hard sex
slow and sensual sex without doubt, make it last as long as you can, maybe ending harder.
2. sex in the bath or sex in rain ?
in the rain, the sexiest time was on a beach in Martinique in the middle of a thunderstorm, everyone else left.
3 . recieve sexy texts or be told i love You
to be told i love you, as that expresses commitment and sex is so better in that relationship.
1. what toy would you use with your lover
2. what is the quickest after meeting someone that you have fucked them - and not paid for it!!
3. what relation to you in your family have you lusted after most
slow and sensual sex without doubt, make it last as long as you can, maybe ending harder.
2. sex in the bath or sex in rain ?
in the rain, the sexiest time was on a beach in Martinique in the middle of a thunderstorm, everyone else left.
3 . recieve sexy texts or be told i love You
to be told i love you, as that expresses commitment and sex is so better in that relationship.
1. what toy would you use with your lover
2. what is the quickest after meeting someone that you have fucked them - and not paid for it!!
3. what relation to you in your family have you lusted after most
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On holiday round the pool, when my wife and I took our daughter and 3 friends to Tenerife. A carefully placed towel and a strategc withdrawl to our room, calling my wife to help took care of the situation. For a while. The girls thought it hilarious, and so did I after a while - i.e after the first time it happened.
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What does it matter what "the one" has done? After all, you might have done all of it and more yourself, and doens that matter to you? Of cours eit doesn't.
So get over it, and perhaps enjoy the fact that your love life with her will be uninhibited and far more gratifying than if you had met a tight assed vrigin, who though the sight of your precum leaking was an illness.
Me? I married on eof the latter types, and have spent 40 years opening her up. Now we're older, she's glad I was such a dirty bugger, as our sex life continues to be good and very active. If she had been like me to start with, just think how much more fun we might have had - though I dearly love her for so many other things.
So get over it, and perhaps enjoy the fact that your love life with her will be uninhibited and far more gratifying than if you had met a tight assed vrigin, who though the sight of your precum leaking was an illness.
Me? I married on eof the latter types, and have spent 40 years opening her up. Now we're older, she's glad I was such a dirty bugger, as our sex life continues to be good and very active. If she had been like me to start with, just think how much more fun we might have had - though I dearly love her for so many other things.
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Wherever she wants it, my preference being insdie her, being squeezed empty by whichever part of her anatomy I am in at the time, but will shoot over her face and tits if she really wants. Aiming can be a bit messy, but if we're in a messy mood, then all is good.
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I would without question be flattered. I have been, though at times it isn't without a little apprehension, not because of the age thing, but simply because of performance expectations. Can I keep up?
As I've got older I've noticed two things. The first is that it does take rather longer to recover, even the few times I have used the little blue or yellow pills. The second is that I have a lot more control and so can last longer. On balance, its a good thing, as my younger lovers often have cum several times before I have, and just want it to continue, and anyway while I am recovering there are so many things to enjoy, play with, and toys help a great deal.
I don't give the age thing a thought, apart from legality. What matters much more for me is her understanding of what makes for good sex. I don't enjoy being the teacher continually, which is why I usually prefer more mature women, and the 35 to 55 age group is where I go mostly. I don't want a lover who freezes if I take out a blindfold or approach her with a large buzzing monster.
But if she wants it, and knows what and why she's doing it, then put away your silly scruples.
As I've got older I've noticed two things. The first is that it does take rather longer to recover, even the few times I have used the little blue or yellow pills. The second is that I have a lot more control and so can last longer. On balance, its a good thing, as my younger lovers often have cum several times before I have, and just want it to continue, and anyway while I am recovering there are so many things to enjoy, play with, and toys help a great deal.
I don't give the age thing a thought, apart from legality. What matters much more for me is her understanding of what makes for good sex. I don't enjoy being the teacher continually, which is why I usually prefer more mature women, and the 35 to 55 age group is where I go mostly. I don't want a lover who freezes if I take out a blindfold or approach her with a large buzzing monster.
But if she wants it, and knows what and why she's doing it, then put away your silly scruples.