The immediate effect of this was on our sex life.  At twenty-three,  I was still horny day or night but Cat, only a year younger, was more selective about when and how we made love.  She was also less inventive than when we met; anything more than straight coupling was infrequent. Cat's body was, however, a reward in waiting for the man lucky enough to bed her and was the main reason I persevered with our off and on relat...