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Porgy87
Over 90 days ago
Straight Cis Male, 79
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My first thought when I saw this thread's question was of k.d. lang's song, "Big Big Love." Good song, I thought, and it's what I have.
But then I read the initial post, so I've got to be serious: Yes, I have the kind of love that is deep and wide. I've been married to the same woman for 45 [for-ty-five!] years. She loves me, too. So that's that.
What's more interesting, I think, is that I love the eroticism and sexuality of this site. Obviously, I mean something different here when I use "love" in that way. This "love" is exactly the lust and infatuation that doesn't go anywhere. That's OK here, because everyone understands the deal. I can't imagine one of my correspondents getting jealous if I correspond with someone else for a while. I would be really astonished if someone suggested an exclusive relationship!
And finally, the feelings I have for my friends and acquaintances here are something I keep from my wife. Does this mean I'm cheating on her? Being unfaithful? Nope. I love her in that "big, big love" way, and [sorry, ladies] I don't love anyone else that way.
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Quote by LadyAnnWest
Not in any order:
Hotel California - Eagles Rubber Soul entire album Beatles
Happy Christmas (War is Over) - John Lennon Fernandole - Bob James
Lola - Kinks White Rabbit / Somebody To Love - Jefferson Airplane
Ramble Tamble - CCR Soul Coaxing - Raymond LaVerver Orchestra
Love Theme Romeo & Juliet - Henry Mancini Damn - What was the question?
The Old Rugged Cross -Roland Kirk
Gimme Shelter - Stones
Lady Ann West -- Rahsaan Roland Kirk! I have actually seen him play, but it was a very long time ago!
OK, so we've never met or exchanged messages, but I love you madly and would love to do, uh, things with you!
xoxo 
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Quote by dragon_lilly
True love is loving even their imperfections. I can't think of anything in the world that I would change. If only he knew how I see him through my eyes. Perfectly imperfect.
I know I wrote a reply up above describing something I might add to my present partner's presence, but that doesn't mean I'd ever want her perfect. Both she and I are "perfectly imperfect" and we're happy that way.
You're a wonderful woman, Dragon Lilly!
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I've noticed that a huge chunk of the bra market has been taken over by those little molded one-piece foam clamshells. Once upon a time, a bra cup used to be made out of fabric, and it had seams and some actual fit to it. As far as I know, the reason for the change is cost -- a machine can stamp out those cups hundreds of times faster than a seamstress can construct a bra.
I can understand that the molded cup bra is a good idea under a T-shirt or anytime you don't want nipples to show, but I imagine it's a hot, sweaty thing to wear.
So the question is: are the molded bra cups more or less comfortable than traditional three-seam cups?
[Extra credit: Which do you prefer? Explain.]
I can understand that the molded cup bra is a good idea under a T-shirt or anytime you don't want nipples to show, but I imagine it's a hot, sweaty thing to wear.
So the question is: are the molded bra cups more or less comfortable than traditional three-seam cups?
[Extra credit: Which do you prefer? Explain.]
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Quote by Dirty_D
To many of us, the dirty pictures are incidental. It's the people and the place to stash my scribbles I stay for.
...and here is evidence that what I write is crap, as my remark about coming just for the dirty pictures was meant to be a knowing, ironic nod to Stephanie's obvious love of writing.
I think I'll stick to my day job.
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Quote by Verbal
I do this too! my first draft of dialogue ALWAYS sucks, and I just keep adding stuff and deleting stuff until it starts to take shape.
I live with a Paid Professional Writer who also has taught writing for the last 20 years or so. As someone who only dabbles at this, I cling to her principle of the Shitty First Draft.
That is: "Write it! EXPECT it to be shitty. Just get the ideas out without expecting them to be perfect. EVERYONE'S first draft is shitty."
...which makes it much less daunting when the first draft is, well, you know.
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Number one has to be lesbians tribbing. There's a lot less faking of orgasms there -- you can't fake the flush on your chest and face! -- and the sex can be very intense, almost violent.
Number two would be female masturbation, especially with toys, and *especially* with wall- or chair-mounted toys that can be ridden.
Number three is roleplay mommy sex, whether it's POV material directed at the camera or plain fantasy fucking with an older woman and a younger man.
Numbers four through twenty-eight are all the other things.
Number two would be female masturbation, especially with toys, and *especially* with wall- or chair-mounted toys that can be ridden.
Number three is roleplay mommy sex, whether it's POV material directed at the camera or plain fantasy fucking with an older woman and a younger man.
Numbers four through twenty-eight are all the other things.