If you have been keeping them together then there is something seriously wrong in their relationship and you need to stop enabling them. Even now that you're more involved you shouldn't be the one keeping them together. There is a big difference between being supportive and enabling a toxic relationship. Just make sure you're being supportive and not enabling, especially now because if it goes bad you don't want to be blamed.
My husband and I totally disagree on this and because of that it has never happened. I would like to be with a woman, but he isn't happy with the idea of only watching and I can't stand the idea of seeing him with another woman. It's a little odd I guess, but what I want isn't something he can't give. If he wanted a man I would be alright with that, but I can't handle the idea of him doing what he does with me with another woman. Maybe one day one of us will bend.
Less body hair and a long delay in deflation after orgasm.
BOTH!!! ALWAYS BOTH, but if I had to make a choice I'd go with clit. I can stimulate my gspot with kegels, but my clit is much more difficult to really stimulate. I think I'm the opposite of most in that though.
I got my nipples pierced and found that once I was passed the hypersensitivity I liked them played with rougher. Also once you have breast fed your nipples are tougher and once you enjoy having your nipples played with again you'll probably like it rougher. I think most women who are not pierced and haven't breast fed would enjoy having them played with much more roughly when they were close to or during orgasm.
Definitely get her a toy or a kit. There are lots of kits avaliable that are made for preparing for anal. Once she can put something in close to your size in without pain she will likely be much more comfortable with the idea.
I used to do sugaring wax at home. For the last few years I have been using the Braun Silk epil epilator. I've been slowly working my way towards a full brazilian, but I still shave a small landing strip. That is the most painful area for me, but I get down about an inch from the top of my slit now. This is the recipe I used when I waxed.
Sugaring Wax Recipe
1 cup sugar
2 Tbl. lemon juice
2 Tbl. water.
Mix in a saucepan boil until 250 degrees on a candy thermometer, takes 8-15 minutes. Then pour it into a little Rubbermaid container and leave it to cool down a bit. It can be heated up in the microwave.
Instructions
1. Before waxing, let the hair grow until it's at least 1/4 of an inch long. (The wax needs enough hair to attach to!). Make sure skin is clean and dry, but don't wax immediately after a hot bath or shower.
Tip: Dust the area that you'll be waxing with talcum powder first, particularly if the climate is hot and humid. (I’ve never tried this my self, but it sounds like a good idea)
2. Place the tub of wax into the microwave without the lid. Heat the wax for 10 seconds, check consistency and make sure it isn’t too hot, repeat as needed. This is meant only to provide warmth to the wax, and to make it more easily spreadable on your skin. Be careful not to get it too hot and burn yourself, if it is too hot allow it to cool for a few minutes.
3. With a spatula ( a butter knife used smooth edge against the skin or a clean popsicle stick works well, if you can get an empty roll-on wax container, they are great), spread a thin, two inch to three inch wide layer of wax across your skin. The wax should be spread in the direction that your hair naturally rests on your skin. For example, if the hair on your leg tends to grow downward, then spread the wax downward. Don't spread in a circular fashion.
Tip: If you are doing a sensitive area, like under arms, do very small sections 1 ½ to 2 in squares. And keep in mind that once you do it 3 to 4 times the hair should be much finer making it less pain full.
4. Take a cloth strip of a loose weave fabric (mine where made from cloth diapers, the texture worked really well). Press the strip firmly over the wax.
5. Now here's the key. Grab the cloth strip at the bottom, and QUICKLY pull the cloth strip off your leg. Pull the strip off in the direction opposite how you spread the warm wax on. Don't pull the strip outwards or upwards. The quicker you pull the easier and more effective it is.
6. Take a look at your leg and the wax strip. You should be able to see hairs on the wax that were pulled out by the root.
7. Continue steps #2 through #4 until you've removed all undesired hair. Microwave the wax again if it becomes so thick that you can't spread a thin layer on your skin.
8. Clean up any mess with warm water and a wash cloth. And rinse the cloth strips with warm water to clean them for next time.
9. Rub some soothing lotion or aloe on your legs after you have finished waxing for smooth, comfortable skin.
Recently I was listening to a erotic audiobook while swimming laps (waterproof case) and just had to replay a good scene I heard in the shower. My tall travel shampoo bottle was on hand and worked nicely. I have lemon juicer that has a golf ball shaped weighted handle that I bought because it looked like a toy. That works nicely too.
I haven't been on here that long though, so I'm sure there are good ones that I haven't seen yet.
