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PrettyMom
Over 90 days ago
Lesbian Cis Female, 46
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I don't really care all that much, unless I'm giving oral and that is very rare for me (the large barbell makes this difficult and it isn't one of my hubby's favorite activities). I'd probably prefer short trimmed. Shaved would only be good if freshly done, stubble would be very bad.
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I swear by this vibrator only needs replacing about once every 10 years and trust me it gets used plenty! I've never seen one on a sex toy web site or in a sex toy store probably because they don't break I've bought mine at Walmart! I like the nub end attachment the best vibrators that take batteries are only decent if they have a controller on a wire so it can take enough batteries to do the job. For portability I like my bullet vibrator with a 8 speed controller but the Wahl is Queen! Oh and they have several different models some even with heat and the most expensive around $35.


Thanks for the recommendation. I will be on the look out for one of these. Looks to be pretty ergonomic, no batteries and it would be a lot easier to explain if someone noticed it on my night stand smile I need a lot of clit stimulation, but don't really need penetration to get off, so this one looks like it would be perfect for me.
I totally depends on the texture of their hair. If it is smooth and soft it can be long, but if it is coarse and think it should be very short. I really hate the hair in the face comb over look that is so popular right now. It needs to be long enough they can keep it out of their face. Also if they are going bald they really should shave it all off, unless their spouse or girlfriend likes it. Every time my hubby has suggested shaving his goatee I tell him I will chop my hair to above my shoulders. I like his facial hair and he likes my long hair so it's only fair. His hair is also very thick and coarse and always kept very short. I love the widows peak and it does bother me a bit when it curls into his ears. Then it is time for me to buzz it again. I love to rub his fuzzy hair under my hands and if I need something to grab there are always ears or his goatee smile
I didn't mean to say that girls should avoid men of any age based on age alone. Just that I think many women form a sort of prejudice against men close their own age in their teens. The vast majority of guys in their teens and sometimes even into early twenties are very immature and do not treat girls as they should. Girls see this and have a hard time noticing when the same guys are past it. The sad part is girls in their teens and early twenties often prefer guys who mistreat them, play hard to get and/or make them do all the work in the relationship. Then after it all ends they judge them for it. I blame hormones for the whole mess.
Reasons I had lost my sex drive:
Problem #1 Low self esteem, if she doesn't think she looks good and is embarrassed to be looked at or touched it will seriously lower her sex drive.
Solution: Do everything you can to make her feel attractive and not only when you want sex. All the time!!! (really all guys should do this anyway). Actually I think lush really helped with this too.
Problem #2 Not climaxing often enough, if she isn't getting off every time it will lower her sex drive. If you had blue balls every couple times you wouldn't want to very often either.
Solution: There are lots of things out there to help with this even products you apply to enhance sensation. If she is doing all right getting off alone, assist her in masturbating and see what works. Having her use your hands or putting your hands over hers works well. The best solution if this is the case is to have her climax before you have sex then you can be sure she will enjoy the sex to the fullest. You could always buy or use some toys.
Problem #3 Hormones and/or anger. Women are very hormonal, if they are high or low it can be a problem. Even if they are in normal limits some women are very sensitive. When I am pissed off I have almost no interest in sex. Figuring out why is the hard part.
Solution: Have her get her hormones checked. Unfortunately for me that didn't help. Through trial and error, knowing I am very sensitive to progesterone levels, using birth controls and progesterone cream. I have found that I need a little more progesterone than most. When my progesterone is low for me I get angered very easily and I am also generally sensitive and grouchy. I can use the cream for a few days to get it back up and be my normal self agian. I am definitely not the norm in this issue, but you get the idea that you can try things and talk to a doc about it.
I was assuming the question was specifically talking about men. If it was a woman I would get off on her getting off, so #2 would be my preference.
Sorry, but I don't really want either of those. How about another option. I like to be teased until I can't stand it anymore and then be fucked hard.
I need that somewhat slow build up of pressure. Barely touching and stroking to rubbing and licking to biting and pinching maybe slower sex to oh god please fuck me hard right now!!
I really enjoy nipple play. Which should be obvious due to my pierced nipples. I can take very rough nipple play, but I only really enjoy it after I orgasm.
Lighter play with the occasional quick jab of pain is fine before I cum, but after I rather enjoy a more constant harder stronger ache.
Maybe I should be more specific lighter play for me is rubbing, rolling, licking, nibbling, pinching and pulling, but not so hard it really hurts. Just a sort of aching feeling.
After I cum or during orgasm I like all those things, but much harder and stronger without stopping very often.
I can't say for sure on this, but I know my hubby often keeps going after he cums for a few minutes. Especially if I am wet enough that he can continue sliding in and out once he is flaccid. He seems to really enjoy it when it is possible. I will ask him for more detail on the sensation from his point of view if you like.
I was pulling my hair out trying to figure this out and discovered:
1. On youtube under share you must click show options and check the box for long link
2. links where the file name has a - in it don't seem to work
Who says that waste is all your ass was meant for? all our other orifices are multi purpose. I think if it wasn't meant to be used for sex the parts wouldn't fit, so who's to say it isn't designed for built in birth control. Having a dick shoved in it isn't all a pussy is for either and menstrual waste comes from there too.

I do think you should be doing it on your own before letting someone else try. The shower is a good place to experiment. Personally I think I'd like using a plug during sex, so that might be a good alternative to help get used to it. If I ever ask my husband to try it I'll make use of the position suggestions too.
I've had trouble with the battery caps breaking. I recommend edenfantasys.com, even if you don't buy from there the reviews are really great to tell you how long it will last and such. It seems either you go with cheap and plan to replace or pay more and make sure there's a warranty. I've found waterproof ones seem to last longer and the sales on edenfantasys are really good.

Bigguns - Find me a guy who vibrates and will hang out in my room just in case he is needed, then I might agree with you.

DirtyMartini - There really should be someone in charge of warranty repairs on really expensive vibes. Maybe an additional rider on the warranty guaranteeing climax would be good. I'm sure some need instruction on effective use too biggrin
To easy ORGASMS!!! doesn't really matter how I get there, although it is extra nice to have someone there to keep it going as long as possible. The ones that make my thighs twitch for a good half hour after all stimulation ends are truly extra special biggrin Mmmmmmmmm
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You scored 93% Dirtiness!
Judging by your score, your mind is a wasteland of perversion and impurity. Congratulations! You are officially in possession of a dirty mind. You probably enjoy dirty jokes very much and appreciate the sexy things in life. Thinking about sex is something you do often, and you probably wonder why other people can't loosen up.
Most up skirt muff shots have to be posed. Remember most women's thighs touch or very nearly when they walk, so it wouldn't be possible to take a muff shot. Even women who's thighs aren't that close together will still walk and stand with their feet too close together for a pic like that. You wouldn't see anything but a shadow.
I don't wear skirts often, but I don't mind going commando in them.
Searching and sorting of stories - I would like to be able to narrow search results by the tags. Maybe an advanced search feature where you could choose which categories and tags you'd like to find. Even more needed in the audiobooks. In the audiobooks section there aren't even the tabs to sort them. So tabs to sort and a search feature in the audiobooks section would be wonderful.
I laughed all the way through. Start to finish giggle fits. OMG hilarious. Too funny to get all that grossed out. Good to know that if you really piss off the cook at least you'll end up with a healthier meal ROFL