My wife and I will be attending a fund raising Ball next week. In fact we just got back from a 6 hour trip to the shops trying to find her a new dress. No luck with the dress, but I have new shoes, phone and a pink tie so bright that I will be the only one in the room safe from being blinded by it!
If I caught my wife making out with another woman I would almost certainly run for cover, since the world would clearly be at an end.
I've never nibbled on a pierced one, I think I would worry about hurting her though, so on balance unpierced for me.
I'm new here, but have been a lurker for sometime. This site is so accessible compared to many others I have looked at and the people seem friendlier too, all of which helped me make the decision to sign up and take part. As for erotica in the mainstream, well I think it mostly caters to the lowest common denominator. That's why any time there is a mainstream film or book that strays even slightly off the beaten track, it gets a lot more attention than usual.
My perception is that men enjoy erotica more than women, but that could be simply down to comparing myself to the women I know. I don't exactly discuss it with everybody I meet though, male or female, so for all I know women are all closet Lushers.
Really helpful post, it's hard for us newbies to work out what's acceptable and what's not.
Masturbation has the advantage of being available any time, anywhere. Although some places might get you arrested of course.
Pretty kinky!
Grats! You're 69% kinky!
You kinkscore is pretty high. Most likely you're up for trying anything at least once, which show open-mindedness. You're probably a great lay, so just keep doing that thing you do!
How cool is that? My favourite number!
I find it inconceivable that intelligent life doesn't exist elsewhere in the universe, but I have no idea whether they have checked us out on earth yet, or if it's even practical to do so. There is still no evidence to suggest that faster than light travel is possible, without which they couldn't reasonably reach us could they?
Should I be worried that some of the things I fantasize about are almost as far north as the impassable reaches?
I have been trying to decide on the plot progression for my first story 'Bouncy Rain". I am torn between a very believable but possibly tame plot line that will almost wrap itself up and hopefully leave no loose ends, or a much more raunchy plot line that will almost certainly open up a raft of questions that readers would probably want answered. Should I be aiming to make each instalment as exciting as possible without worrying too much about where the story is going, or should I be concerned with long-term plotting over short-term action?
I actually thought about doing a little straw poll and letting readers decide the next step. I haven't noticed anyone else doing this, is it a valid way to proceed? Being so new to all this I am not sure what is acceptable and what is not.
I've just finished reading a book on non-verbal communication and one of the chapters dealt with spotting signals given off by potential partners. I think it would make a nice change to use some of these in stories in lieu of dialogue, not to mention being bloody handy for those out there who are still trying to get into each others pants. So the question is, how do you let on to a guy that you're interested in him?
It's no wonder Nigeria is so full of poverty stricken people is it? They are sending all their money to us.
Thanks for all the responses, General consensus seems to be no. I guess that some people might feel the need to hide their fantasies from their partner, but that's an entirely different question I suppose.
Granted, but you have to work a 168 hour week.
I wish for a Jaguar XF.
David Gemmell, I would love to see more of his work which just kept getting better and better until he died in 2006.
I struggled with this when deciding what category to place my story in. My intention is definitely to progress toward a love story in later instalments, but I wonder if I should have put it in the 'Straight Sex' category anyway. At any rate, if there is no sex in the story at all, there seems to be no doubt it should come under Love Story to me.
I hope I will never write anything I would feel ashamed to admit to. That has to be my guideline, would I have to emigrate to Brazil or something if my family found out what I'd written about? If the answer is yes then I reckon I shouldn't be writing it.
I try to rate stories when I read them, but I would be reluctant to rate a story below 3. Perhaps it's just not doing it for me and that may be my problem, not the story. As for myself, I derive a lot of satisfaction from receiving ratings much more than I had thought I would. They have definitely spurred me on to begin work on a second part to my first story, something I most likely would not have done without the feedback.
I've only written the one story so far, but in my mind I was there and of course I was very aroused. Oddly enough though, re-reading the story afterwards was not as erotic so I was very grateful for all the positive feedback. It's nice to know you're doing something right, and I suspect very difficult to judge it for yourself.
That which does not kill us makes us stronger. Friedrich Nietzsche
Without the bad stuff we would all be utterly vulnerable to exploitation of every kind. Besides, knowing I have been through bad stuff and come out the other side is a kind of satisfaction in itself.
Quality control tester for the newly formed World Consortium of High Class Escorts.
Never really been in a position to ask this question since I was as certain as I could reasonably be that I was my wife's first lover. However, I really think the question should never be asked, surely the only important number is the last one, ie. you?
I've been married to the same woman now for almost 25 years. When we met she was just 21 years old with a slim athletic figure and I found her hot beyond all reason. Now she's 45 years old, weighs more than I do and has changed completely. Despite all of which I love her just as much, want her more than ever and would not trade her in for anyone. Frankly it's only by thinking about it, or looking at old photos that I even see the difference. Maybe your husband feels the same way, he's not seeing you as any different, nor loving you any more because he never loved you any less. When you decide to improve your looks or lifestyle, do it for yourself. Enjoy the extra attention other men are giving you but remember the man who stayed with you when you didn't feel so great about yourself.
One other thing, fishing for compliments makes it really hard for someone to give them spontaneously. A compliment like the one he gave you means much more than one you asked for, to both of you. Congratulations on the weight loss, not an easy thing to do and you have every right to feel proud of yourself!
There is one good technique you can use which you need to discuss with him first. The whole process should take about two weeks (less if you are really eager) and it's VERY important that neither of you masturbates whilst doing it. In an ideal world you would do it whilst on holiday somewhere, but that's not utterly essential.
1. Go right back to basics, start by having a date or two, strictly no touching or kissing. Restrict your subject matter to neutral subjects such as work or hobbies, just like you would if you had just met.
2. Move on to simply kissing and making out together, no sexual touching. This takes the pressure off him to perform and will almost certainly have you hot for each other. This is a good time to flirt with each other and tease.
3. Some sexual contact, rubbing each other with clothes on is good as is intimate caressing. Oral sex is OK but strictly no intercourse though. This is a good stage to explore and talk about your fantasies and turn ons together.
4. Finally get down to real intercourse. Be as dirty as you both feel comfortable with. If you are not both gagging for it by now then there is something seriously wrong either physically or socially and you need to find outside assistance, starting with a doctor.
Hope this is more helpful than intrusive, I'm not really sure of myself on these forums yet. If I'm being too pushy or something, please let me know.
The boathouse in Hereford is, well, sort of wood coloured. *looks around for the nearest exit*
If I have a fantasy about great sex with an imaginary (or even real) girl, is that cheating?
I once got a monster hard on whilst picking up a package from a telesales office during my despatch riding days. They sat me down to wait directly across the aisle from a seriously hot girl. Every time she leaned forward, her tiny breasts became clearly visible. I tried so hard to look away, but the entire room was chockabloc with hot looking girls and about the only one not looking back at me if I looked around was the one across the aisle. By the time I left there about 10 minutes later there was absolutely no way anyone could have missed the small pavilion sticking out in front of me. Skin-tight leathers leave very little to the imagination at the best of times.
