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I haven't read a good novel in a long time.
Have not read any of Alex Kava, but if she's like James Patterson/Tami Hoag
then I'll keep the name in mind next time I'm browsing for a good read.
I recommend Iris Johansen for mystery/suspense if anyone has not
read her work before.
Have not read any of Alex Kava, but if she's like James Patterson/Tami Hoag
then I'll keep the name in mind next time I'm browsing for a good read.
I recommend Iris Johansen for mystery/suspense if anyone has not
read her work before.
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I'm going to play devils advocate here:
After considering the nature of this site, why do you expect the
people here to not want to talk to you about sex all the time?
Granted, everyone needs a break and want to talk about other
things, but you have to remember that this is an adult community.
So, maybe instead of making a thread about the people who keep
bothering you/bullying you, confront them head-on, and deal with
them appropriately if they continue to give you shit.
After considering the nature of this site, why do you expect the
people here to not want to talk to you about sex all the time?
Granted, everyone needs a break and want to talk about other
things, but you have to remember that this is an adult community.
So, maybe instead of making a thread about the people who keep
bothering you/bullying you, confront them head-on, and deal with
them appropriately if they continue to give you shit.
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Yes. It's painful, really. A deep, resonating longing that's hard to ignore
and impossible to satisfy.
Really, the only thing you can do is deal with it. I believe time has the
power to heal just about anything (maybe not entirely, but enough to
bear), and there's really very little advice to give. So...try not to think
about the person too much, try to enjoy your own company and the
company of your friends, and as time goes on, it'll begin to hurt less.
and impossible to satisfy.
Really, the only thing you can do is deal with it. I believe time has the
power to heal just about anything (maybe not entirely, but enough to
bear), and there's really very little advice to give. So...try not to think
about the person too much, try to enjoy your own company and the
company of your friends, and as time goes on, it'll begin to hurt less.
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I'm a full-time student working a full-time internship at a design studio.
I open up quick and clean online, smile impishly, and try to keep good company.
Offline, I'm pensive, scrutinizing, with a somewhat frosty disposition that guards
a self-less personality.
I open up quick and clean online, smile impishly, and try to keep good company.
Offline, I'm pensive, scrutinizing, with a somewhat frosty disposition that guards
a self-less personality.
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Quote by Ianthomas
what a curious thread - surely it should be compulsory! And yeah there are hazards ... those thighs can clamp! Cheekbones and neck have often felt at threat of being crushed! The only other danger is that you get to the stage where she can be so tender/sore that any idea that this is an aparetif goes out the window, but so what, you can neither find a taste like that anywhere else on earth or the pleasure. I think this may be what you younger people call a no-brainer!
Well put!
But I'll be honest...it took some growing up and maturing to
reach that point in life. It was always something forbidden
about the act, until one day, high on lust and emboldened
by pleasure, you just sort of explore...and enjoy.
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PA and Fugs made the point very clear. Why the hell would I expect her to
do something as risky as suck me after I've been in her ass? No enema is
going to kill all of the bacteria; it can only flush the visible "debris," and some
of the germs, but bacteria is a bitch to kill.
MOREOVER, too many enemas rids the important bacteria that keeps
you healthy. It's just all around UNHEALTHY and it's surprising how
many people here don't think it's a big fucking deal. Disgusting and
alarming, really.
Now I'm afraid I can't trust kissing...
do something as risky as suck me after I've been in her ass? No enema is
going to kill all of the bacteria; it can only flush the visible "debris," and some
of the germs, but bacteria is a bitch to kill.
MOREOVER, too many enemas rids the important bacteria that keeps
you healthy. It's just all around UNHEALTHY and it's surprising how
many people here don't think it's a big fucking deal. Disgusting and
alarming, really.
Now I'm afraid I can't trust kissing...
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And odd question, really; in her eyes, you're probably the one whose confused.
Why not give up the idea of trying to lay it on her, and just lay in bed with her?
Put the ball in her court, so to speak. If she picks it up to make her move, then
play. If not, then you haven't wasted energy and you haven't damaged the trust
and friendship you two have established.
Sometimes it's hard to find the line between affectionate and sexual intimacy, and
the rules vary from woman to woman, and by how much. If it's absolutely killing
you, then tread softly and ask her of her expectations...
Why not give up the idea of trying to lay it on her, and just lay in bed with her?
Put the ball in her court, so to speak. If she picks it up to make her move, then
play. If not, then you haven't wasted energy and you haven't damaged the trust
and friendship you two have established.
Sometimes it's hard to find the line between affectionate and sexual intimacy, and
the rules vary from woman to woman, and by how much. If it's absolutely killing
you, then tread softly and ask her of her expectations...
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I know it's ask the gals (I keep doing this, but you girls keep
getting the interesting questions!), but I'd like to point out that
lipstick on a woman is sexy, IMO. Most men don't care for it
because they:
a) Think that its been applied perfectly and therefore gives
off the "don't kiss me" vibe
b) Don't want it on their mouths after kissing.
Doesn't phase me, I wear my passion badges proudly.
getting the interesting questions!), but I'd like to point out that
lipstick on a woman is sexy, IMO. Most men don't care for it
because they:
a) Think that its been applied perfectly and therefore gives
off the "don't kiss me" vibe
b) Don't want it on their mouths after kissing.
Doesn't phase me, I wear my passion badges proudly.
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Quote by Shylass
[...]And when a lad opens the door for me to go in first, how he reacts to me saying thank you and saying I would prefer it if he could go in first, tells me more about him than his original gesture. Unless they know me, a lot insist on my going first, without fail. I only ever agree when I feel it would hurt his feelings more than mine if I didn't, or it will cause a scene (at which point, I scoot through and wait on the other side of the door for them to go first to wherever it is we're going).
[...]I hate the old-fashioned helplessness of stuff, and whilst I understand others enjoying it, I cringe at it. I'm very independant in a lot of ways, and I can open my own car door, thanks! And I can at least pay for half a bill, or the whole bill, whatever.
You remind me of a close friend of mine. You two would have
a ball discussing your opinions on chivalry
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Part of me wonders if it has to do with the father's (if he decided to stick around) influence,
what they observe in their communities, what they see in films, and what young girls today
allow them to get away with. Though I see everyone's point as valid, I don't think
men and young men are the ones completely at fault. I think it's also up to the ladies to
help enforce that it isn't okay, that it isn't even remotely acceptable. Just my opinion...
what they observe in their communities, what they see in films, and what young girls today
allow them to get away with. Though I see everyone's point as valid, I don't think
men and young men are the ones completely at fault. I think it's also up to the ladies to
help enforce that it isn't okay, that it isn't even remotely acceptable. Just my opinion...
