Paper and leather. Partner has a paper perfume and leather has just always worked for me.

Ever knew someone who’s excessive use of cologne/perfume was a turnoff?

Sean Austin has been great in everything I’ve seen him in. With all the great actors in the LOTR his performance really carried the whole production. Normally doesn’t have flashy roles so he gets overlooked.

Underrated musician?

To hilarious ends. Someone stole my identity and had access to a debit card and credit card. Had like 6 charges denied due to lack of funds. Person tried to buy some computer equipment at first. After that was denied they kept trying smaller purchases till finally they gave up after they had insufficient funds to order a pizza. That’s what you get for trying to steal from my poor ass.

HYE went to court to fight a fine?

Nope. Either had kids in the car or no room.

Is there an app that you waste a lot of time on?

A nice, respectable fuck ;)

Gushing over niche interests. I don’t care if this is the first time I’ve heard of something, I love listening to people tell me about what excites them. Had some guy go on for close to an hour about the different types of rocks he found in our local park and I loved every second of it.

Omnivore, but I guess carnivore if I’m picking between the two.

Bleu cheese or Brie?

Like in general? I do, although I’ll be happy to be included I know sometimes you want the physical release and not the emotional intimacy. Also have lopsided labidos so masturbating helps with that. I consider it self care and don’t expect anyone to stop it because we’ve reached a certain point in our relationship.

Is there any shoes or footwear you find especially sexy?

Sexual experience is a wide net. First penetrative sex experience was emotionally satisfying though physically pretty quick. A lot of the other sexual firsts I would say the same. Probably my first hand job stands out in my mind as physically and emotionally wonderful.

Do you like to dress up?

Nah, locked that door first. They don’t get out till they are a certain level of dry.

HYE taken prescription sleep meds?

Yes, but I also only have personal experience with heterosexuality. Open to bi experiences and would like to have one, but haven’t had the opportunity.

Did you have a midlife change in how you defined your sexuality or gender?

Some hard Femdom with pegging.

Same question for the next.

Hey there. About two years ago my partner and I decided an open relationship is more appropriate. I hadn't dated much before her and we've been together a long time. I think I'm ready to start trying to see other people but I realized I don't know how to go about it. My partner and I are open and honest with each other. I know how to approach that when it comes to dating new people.

I know a man in an open relationship isn't what everyone is looking for and I don't want to surprise people with it. So I wanted advice from those of you who are established in open relationships on how you find new partners. How do you find new partners? When do you bring up that you're in an open relationship and how do you do it?

My thoughts are I should use dating apps as you can address that early, maybe even put it in the profile. Has anyone done this before and do you have any suggestions on which apps I should look into?

Thanks,

-Rowan

Yes, enjoy it a lot. Tied up and blindfolded.

Do you enjoy being tied up? If so what do you prefer used to do the tying? Like silk rope or handcuffs.

Nope, longest stay was inpatient surgery in high school.

HYE given a person a sponge bath?

With my partner, I wanted to try out spanking early on in our relationship. I watched a lot of videos on it and was excited to try it. So had her bent over my lap, and gave her a good smack in the ass. Completely non-plussed she turned back and said, "Ok, now what." Her disinterest and the non-reaction just fizzled my interest in doing that with her.

HYE done hallucinogenic drugs?

Excluding those Urban Dictionary positions (the ones that exist as a joke or to shock) I was never drawn to the acrobatic ones I saw in sex books. Anything that involves the woman spinning in any form on my cock sounds like it's a lot of effort for not a lot of sexy. There are also a few that involve the cock being inserted while pushed straight down, like the helicopter. Seems like it would just result in slip-outs and not be very satisfying.

Have you ever done any paizuri (titty-fucking)? If so how did you enjoy it?

College party. It was parents weekend. Everyone, parents and kids, we’re pretty much drunk. One of the frats I visited was having a party. Some guy there was passed out and his Mom was still going strong and playing games with everyone. Someone got the dare to ‘fuck Tony’s Mom.’ She gave a whole “Hey, what they fuck. You can’t dare someone to fuck me. If I want to fuck I’ll do it.” And she did. Loudly. I scattered off shortly after that started but apparently the frat boy she picked was given quite the life experience that night and ‘Tony’ quit the frat that week.

Ever really regret fucking someone?

I see a lot of people's stories here, and they are having much more exciting sex than me. I'm so angry because I want that. I mean, I get plenty of sex, but I want more and more. I'm really good at oral, I could eat all day long. But mostly I just want to sleep.

Did you ever get an idea for something to try in the bedroom from a (non porno) movie, drawing, or book and really liked it?

Last brand new position was about a year ago. Was something my partner wanted to try. You see it a lot in older Japanese paintings. Don't know the name of it but it's sort of like on your side reverse cowgirl. I was holding one leg in the air with one hand and supporting my weight with my other. It was fun to try new things but wasn't a huge fan of the position. Both of our bodies were really locked in place, couldn't explore with my hands (which I love to do). It was also very physically taxing. Think it would have been improved with a mirror so I could see her from the front when we were doing it.

Could you describe a sexual position that was sexier in theory or visually than in practice?

Steps. Worked in hotels for a decade and the time I saved taking steps could literally be an hour a day.

Something silky or something lacy?

Already did some takeout burgers. Was very good.

Dessert or no?

Another cook in the kitchen hooked up with a girl from a dating app. Soon found out she was massively into choking. He was not but was a fan of sex and was willing to try. Ultimately after a few attempts he was dumped for not doing a good enough job of it. He really didn't want to choke her, was scared he was going to really hurt her, and she constantly complained during the act that he wasn't doing it hard enough. So certainly not the weirdest fetish but obviously one that caused issues in that relationship.

Not a big fan of either but have more moments that stick out in my mind from Seinfeld.

Vampires or werewolves?

Weird answer… sort of. Still technically married. Neither of us define our relationship as marriage anymore, more like a friends with benefits situation. We won’t file for divorce unless a need arises since it messes with taxes and medical coverage.

HYE had a partner who preferred to sleep alone?

Mmmm, sundresses 😈

Definitely found myself staring at women for a variety of reasons. No bra, nips poking out, high skirt, ect…. Still I consider myself something of a cleavage ninja and rarely get caught when I don’t want to.

If you dress sexy, do you enjoy being ogled by strangers?

No, but open to it now if it clicked.

Have you had spontaneous and unplanned sex with a partner on an outing?

Nerd confession, used to play a lot of Warcraft. My guild had two nights a week we met for raiding. So these people I had spent like 8 hours a week with for years. After someone suggested it we had started talking about having a guild meetup at Disney. Luckily for me at the time, that was local. About 10 of the men and ladies I pl

Same question, but was it romantically slanted? Ever met a potential partner IRL that you found online?

Only once, haven't since I was married. Now it's an open relationship but hasn't had an opportunity to build a relationship since.

HYE been in an open relationship?

Forest, public parks, or wherever the mood hits you both.

Something really sexy about sharing a look and both of you know what's about to happen. Some of the best quick fucks I've had has been in places like on the floor, in the bathroom, or in the backyard. Like almost no buildup, just a kiss or noticing you're partner's looking sexy and you just raise a dress and start going at it. Very animalistic and hot.