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SecretLush
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female
0 miles · Raleigh

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My man really likes my butt, so anything to show that off is his biggest turn on. I have invested in some panties from VS (which happen to be really comfy) that are cotton or satin front, see through lacy back (have many varieties - cheeky, thong, boyshorts, etc).

Thong underneath jeans is a good one too. Jeans just seem so casual and when I take them off and have a sexy set of panties on underneath, that's a welcome surprise smile

But really, pour a glass of wine and start to strip for him, and he doesn't care what I was wearing ;)
I was a regular on Lush long before I got a username (just read the stories, never logged in). When I decided to make an account, I knew it was going to be my secret lush account, thus SecretLush smile
I do regularly, but not all of the time. I often sleep with a nightie or bra/panties on - until recently, I could not sleep without a bra (I have large breasts for my build).
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Why not let your self cum? What's the point?


I know this is directed toward men, but as a woman who loves to edge, perhaps I can help you. Similar to the men's responses, edging allows me to get close multiple times in a session/day/time frame so that when I DO let myself cum, it is explosive and my body has built up and built up to the point that the orgasm is much much better than when I just get off quickly.
Thank you all so much for your input. Some of what you have mentioned (brands, types, etc) are thing I had heard of and it's good to confirm; others are brand new ideas and are equally welcome and exciting! I will be sure to let you know what I choose and how it works out for me ;)
First time I received oral. Hands down... I had gone many long term relationships and thought receiving oral was gross (yet, somehow that giving it wasn't... explain that one) and the first time I received it, I came almost immediately.
Shaved lips, but I do leave a little trimmed patch on my pubic bone.
I have a very limited sex toy arsenal and would like to expand... and by that I mean I have two very small vibrators. Lame. Ok, and arm/leg restraints and an eye mask. But that's it. I have been searching for days online to find highest rated toys, etc, etc, but I think it's easier to just ask people who have used them. What is your favorite sex toy? Does brand matter?

*I am particularly interested in getting one with a remote - one I can wear in my panties and give the remote to someone else*

Thanks in advance for the advice! smile
My guilty pleasure is drinking wine and spending time on lush (simultaneously)
The grammar/mechanics questions have been answered by those FAR more qualified to do so than I. I can, however, share with you that my first story is by far my most viewed and best liked. The content and detail of your story does not have to seem novice even though it's your first story. Write about your most erotic experience ever (true stories are easier to write, in my opinion) and mentally relive every detail of it as you write it... the writing is half the fun ;)

Happy writing!
Hmm... this is difficult to answer, because when it's before noon where you live, people from all over the world are accessing lush at all different times of day. I would think (and in my personal experience, this is true) that I am much more active on lush in the evening after I get home from work, but that time frame is obviously different in each time zone.

Not sure if that's helpful, I just wasn't sure if you'd assessed that issue.
I have found my most successful stories to be either true stories (with some embellishments for reader pleasure) or really deeply engrained fantasies I've had for a while and had a chance to develop. Since those are in certain categories, that is where most of my stories lie: masturbation, lesbian, light bondage, exhibitionism, etc. I wouldn't have a problem for writing other types of stories, I just don't think they would be as high quality, since it's not what I am truly passionate about.
An interesting question, for sure... nobody (yet) knows of me writing on lush. I have told my bf that I have a sexy secret, and it drives him crazy trying to figure out what it is (I do plan to tell him). Even when I tell him, I do not think I will tell him what site or alias I use. I like the fact that my writing is my own. I don't mind that he know I write erotica, but this is literally the ONLY thing that is only mine, and I kind of like that.
Besides the fact that this is the most absurd and ridiculous thing I have ever read, who the HELL put the time into creating this list?

Also, side note... why is always the gentleman who has all of these rules? As a woman, I have seen plenty of my girlfriends emotionally manipulate and abuse their boyfriends. Everyone be nice, have a lot of sex, and quit being bitches and you'll have a great relationship.
Hike, go on a date (where we both dress up and look nice - it's nice to have a night to doll up for!), nap, go for a walk, cook, take the dog to the dog park (she's staring at me from across the room... I felt obligated to include this), sit on the porch and have a glass of wine.

Anything, really, as long as it's with him smile
I LOVE it. I have a harder time doing it myself, but I'm getting more vocal. But I love being called names, told what is going to be done to me, etc. Especially when I'm tied to the bed 0.o
Like most replies already, it depends on the place. Beach at night when there's little chance of being arrested - YES (love the thrill). Under a tablecoth at a nice restaurant like in a movie - HELL no.
I have not thoroughly and completely read every response to this, so forgive me if I am repeating anything. I am not saying you should not give up caffeine and/or red wine. I WOULD, however, like to offer that for every "negative" review of coffee and red wine, there are also many many benefits as well. My advice would be: if you're trying to give yourself a healthier lifestyle, instead of giving things you love like coffee and red wine, consider modifying other parts of your diet. Obviously, I do not know what you eat on a regular basis, but switching from white bread to wheat bread or from full fat creamer to fat free creamer may have the same or even more benefits than cutting coffee and/or red wine from your diet. I consider myself a healthy eater, moderate exerciser with overall good health. I would never in MY own life give up coffee or red wine. I have probably 1.5 cups of coffee per day (on average) and roughly 3-4 glasses of red wine per week. These are some of my favorite things to consume - the health "benefit" would not be worth the quality of life change.

Here are a few resources to get you started on the health BENEFITS of coffee and red wine. I do understand there are negative qualities of both - I just wanted to give you another perspective. Maybe you could choose some other part of your life/diet to change if coffee/red wine are as important to you as they are me!

charlespoliquin.com/ArticlesMultimedia/Articles/Article/947/Ten_Benefits_of_Coffee_for_Health_Performance_Body.aspx

mayoclinic.com/health/red-wine/HB00089

fitday.com/fitness-articles/nutrition/healthy-eating/4-health-benefits-of-red-wine.html

lifehacker.com/5986506/the-science-behind-coffee-and-why-its-actually-good-for-your-health
Totally favorite position ever. Not only for many of the already posted reasons (intimate, face to face, etc) but physically speaking, I get the best clit contact from this position and am almost always able to have an orgasm in this position.

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