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Sensei
6 days ago
Straight Male, 58
0 miles · California
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Quote by eocpez2
I do not agree with the idea of having a slave. In my opinion, slaves and subs are two different people in the bdsm world. A sub willingly enters and is free to leave when he/she decides they are no longer interested. Many believe that slave means he/she signs a contract and that's signing their life away. They are now in it for the long haul. Again, I do not agree with the idea of owning a slave or having a slave. I want to make that clear and not be mistaken for someone who does. I have even seen where a Master will have a party where slaves are then shared and/or traded, with no regards to what the slave wants or desires. I find that wrong and immoral on so many different levels. So, all that being said, no matter if I agree or disagree with slavery of a sub, to me, the term slave means you are bound until you are set free. You have no say in the matter.
This is YKINOK.
It is probable that the master you've seen sharing his slaves is doing so not "with no regards to what the slave wants or desires," but on the contrary in concordance with what that slave desires. It may shock some, but there are people who desire such treatment. I, myself, have no desire to do (or direct a slave to) that sort of thing, but I cannot judge others since I am not a party to their dynamic.
Make no mistake: every BDSM slave has a say in things. Every slave lives their life in a gilded cage. Every master fashions for their slave a custom designed "prison" that has no lock on the door.
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Whether it's explicitly stated or not, any suggestion that a slave's service is other than voluntary is both illegal and immoral.
That being the case, I have no problem with formalizing exit conditions as part of the contract. Regardless of whether they are or not, in reality, they are still there.
That being the case, I have no problem with formalizing exit conditions as part of the contract. Regardless of whether they are or not, in reality, they are still there.
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I am going to say "disagree."
Carlos Santana doesn't know what an electric guitar feels when it's played. But he's still a maestro at playing one...
I thought about this for a while... Maybe too controversial? Let's see...
A dominant should, as a matter of course, test/push his (or her) submissive's limits (without overtly violating them), with an eye towards expanding them over time.
Carlos Santana doesn't know what an electric guitar feels when it's played. But he's still a maestro at playing one...
I thought about this for a while... Maybe too controversial? Let's see...
A dominant should, as a matter of course, test/push his (or her) submissive's limits (without overtly violating them), with an eye towards expanding them over time.
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You know about the half-plus-seven rule? Take the age of the older partner, divide it by two and add 7 years, and if the younger partner is that age or older, then no one should be able to raise any serious objections.
Between that boundary and the age of consent is where you find diversity of opinion.
Between that boundary and the age of consent is where you find diversity of opinion.
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How did you get interested in BDSM?
My first experience with porn was with spanking magazines.
What factor of it attracted you to it in the first place?
It's taken me a while to put all of the pieces together, but what it comes down to for me is a combination of leadership and control. It's why my handle here is "Sensei..."
Where you always dominant?
Yes.
Do you think you were always into it now that you are in the lifestyle?
Absolutely. I've spanked every partner I've ever had. I can't imagine being happy in a purely vanilla relationship.
My first experience with porn was with spanking magazines.
What factor of it attracted you to it in the first place?
It's taken me a while to put all of the pieces together, but what it comes down to for me is a combination of leadership and control. It's why my handle here is "Sensei..."
Where you always dominant?
Yes.
Do you think you were always into it now that you are in the lifestyle?
Absolutely. I've spanked every partner I've ever had. I can't imagine being happy in a purely vanilla relationship.
