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SereneProdigy
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Definitely sex. And that doesn't mean that I prioritize 'sex' over 'love', it just means that sex is a lot more common/rudimentary to me than deep signs of affection such as "I love you". Maybe for some people having sex is a great proof of commitment (much similar to saying "I love you"), but for me it's just a fun thing to do during the process of getting to know someone... up to that point where I can be legitimately convinced that I truly love my partner (which doesn't happen all that often for me, despite the fact that I still distinctly appreciate the women that I sleep with). And for me, sex also tremendously helps to build a connection with someone; I'm not quite convinced that I could reach the point of 'loving' a girl without previously having sex with her, the connection probably just wouldn't be there.

To each his own, but I honestly feel sorry for those who'll respond that "I love you" comes first: either you really won't have a lot of sex in your life, or you'll likely throw many inauthentic "I love you"s at just about anybody.
I know as a fact that this tattoo means that the girl is stupid: awesome monkey tattoo.

I'm not quite sure what you're asking for, honestly. Some girls get these Asian tattoos and then go on explaining that it represents their philosophy of life and whatnot, is this what you meant? Or is there a specific code of 'sexual tattoos' that I'm not aware of?

Maybe a dolphin tattooed on a girl's ass means that she enjoys anal-creampies? If that's the case, I've been really missing out on a lot of things.
It wouldn't be a deal-breaker for me in and of itself, but admittedly it would still raise quite a few questions: Why so many partners? Why not have a few steady fuckbuddies instead? Why so very little commitment, is she afraid of it? What are her experiences with long-term relationships? How does this girl perceive her sexuality? Was this a sensible decision, or is she constantly craving validation from men?

In fact, the situation would be much similar if a certain girl told me that she has never drank an alcoholic beverage, or that she has never voted: it's not completely off-putting in and of itself, but I'd still question her reasons.

I have a very open mind and I don't mind casual sex at all, but 300 sexual partners at 28-year-old is quite a high number. Even for someone who's extremely promiscuous, it's almost as if you'd purposely try to get your 'number' as high as possible... and even then, intentionally reaching that number could be a challenge for a lot of people. I'm moderately promiscuous myself and I've been 'free' for a great part of my sexual life (only 3 proper girlfriends which lasted 1-2 years), and my number for the past 15 years is still likely below 50. And I wouldn't exactly say that I've been lacking sex, most of my fuckbuddies/friends-with-benefits situations simply lasted quite a few months (I personally prefer it that way).

Of course, the way I've personally dealt with sexual partners shouldn't be perceived as the norm, but 300 partners would still raise a few questions for me. Was it just good fun, or is this hiding something? I could be reassured fairly rapidly, but I'd still have a certain level of initial suspicion.
A hot girl that actually plays the banjo!? Sign me up! Hiha!





Seriously, I've lived in a major city for all of my life so I'm rather accustomed to 'urban girls', but I wouldn't rule out the possibility of dating a country girl if she possessed all the qualities that I normally seek.
I guess I'll pretty much echo what the other posters already discussed about...

I first tried to give that guy the benefit of the doubt, hoping that he was simply referring to 'general sexual assertiveness' (ie. men have sexual desires and often need to act upon them in one way or another), but then I reread it and some passages make what he's hinting at quite obvious:

"To take what we want when we want it."

"Our biggest problem nowadays is that society frowns on men just grabbing a woman and having animalistic sex with her."


"I need to learn to hunt again. To track my prey. To be ready to attack when the time is right."


I'm not buying at all his whole "I've been domesticated! It's in our innate masculine nature to jump at women and fuck them whenever we want to!". Here's a video depicting the mating rituals of chimpanzees; chimpanzees are largely patriarchal (ie. females are at the very bottom of the hierarchy as opposed to bonobos which are very matriarchal), and you can still observe that the mating rituals are quite a bit more complex than just jumping at a female and fucking her against her will:





Males of different species (even very patriarchal ones) will commonly seek a certain degree of compliance from their female partners. Just observe various videos of animals mating: the male often initiates the sexual contact, but the female still abides to it and willingly let the male do his thing. As another poster mentioned, if the female didn't completely abide she'd likely get extremely violent... and the male would have no choice but to look elsewhere or to try another tactic at a further time. And humans being of 'higher intelligence' than most of these species, you can rightly suspect that even their most 'primitive' sexual behaviors were quite a bit more sophisticated than simply engaging in forceful/non-consensual sex.

The way I conceive it (for humans), is that our nature grants us different 'urges'; our 'behaviors' aren't bestowed upon us at all, they simply represent how we act upon these urges. This might not be entirely true for species who barely possess a neocortex (eg. birds and reptiles) and who therefore behave in a much more 'automated' manner, but the human brain is predominantly 'adaptive': our sizable neocortex grants us the ability to scrutinize/evaluate/resolve our environment and to adapt our behaviors in the most productive way possible, rather than simply having a predefined set of behaviors dictated to us by a supposed 'nature'. Working out at the gym, studying at university or building medical centers isn't quite characteristic of our ancient 'cavemen ways', but it's still just as representative of our 'human nature' than killing a mammoth was. Or as Jean-Paul Sartre puts it: "There is no human nature. Man is nothing else but what he makes of himself."


Anyway, to answer the questions from a more personal viewpoint...


Do you feel this inherent need to find a woman as a "hunt"?

Not quite. For me, there's some form of challenge and pride associated with seducing a woman (which can be enjoyable and which can be slightly compared to the thrills of 'hunting'), but I don't exactly feel like a 'hunter' that's lurking in the dark and that's plotting an evil plan against her. Men and women have different roles in seduction, but I like to perceive these roles as genuinely equitable: I don't enjoy perceiving myself as a player or an abuser, and I hope that the woman will enjoy the seduction process (and what follows) just as much as I will. Just like most women will tell you that they somehow enjoy being 'chased' or feeling like a 'prey', and yet they don't quite enjoy perceiving themselves as vulnerable victims who are taken advantage of.

And regarding basic sexual urges, of course I have them and I often feel the need to alleviate them, but it never even crossed my mind to forcefully jump at a woman to have sex. And I don't exactly have to control these thoughts or keep them at bay, they simply don't occur to me at all... probably due to the fact that I can manage to get laid in a much more courteous manner. Much similar to how I can sometimes have intense food cravings, and yet it never crossed my mind to slap a child and steal his ice-cream cone.


Do you feel that you have been domesticated by society?

Not really. Our behaviors are all 'domesticated' to some degree anyway, and in most cases it's a positive thing: even wearing animal pelts like our ancestors used to could be perceived as a 'domesticated behavior' and it doesn't mean that it was a negative thing. And in the specific case of modern mating/relationships, our domesticated rituals (ie. marriage) actually favor the weak beta-male (like the guy in the OP) a lot more than the alpha-male; he can finally have his chance at a secure relationship with a woman without constantly having an alpha-male interfering, so I'm not quite sure what this guy is complaining about.

And concerning the rant of this guy, I wonder if he'd be complaining about being 'domesticated' if he had a bunch of hot women offered to him on a daily basis. This situation wouldn't be quite 'natural', but I doubt that he'd go: "Dammit, this feels so unnatural! I need to hunt, track my prey and all that crap, having women offered to me so easily totally goes against my primitive nature! I want to be the caveman that I once was, this domestication is killing me!"


Do you feel the same kind of frustration this man is expressing?

Only to a slight degree: I wish that I could parade on the street with my cock out, I really feel way too domesticated at times.
Dammit, just after I took a great deal of time editing my Grooveshark playlist. That said, if their practices weren't fully endorsed by the RIAA (or other recording associations), I have no other choice but to comply myself.

And I don't know if you guys noticed, but since recently a lot of YouTube videos are restricted from playback on external websites. I'd say that nearly 50-75% of my own YouTube videos won't play on my profile anymore:





It's always hard to figure out if you're behaving according to the artist's will with all those music streaming platforms. Different artists have different perspectives on the matter: some don't want their music to be distributed freely at all, some don't exactly mind because they rely much more on their shows to finance their careers, some go as far as freely distributing their own music themselves.

Artists typically only make around $1 per record sold through 'conventional' methods (ie. record stores, iTunes), which represents a mere 5-10% of what the consumer is paying; all the rest (90-95%) goes to different mega-corporations implicated in the distribution process (ie. associations, record labels, record stores chains, etc.). That way, what the associations/labels/chains and what the artists are advocating themselves are often two different things entirely: a lot of artists actually prefer to have their music distributed freely to the public than to have dozens of corporations making big money out of their artistic outlets.


As Ian MacKaye (musician, songwriter, label owner) puts it himself:

"Music is a gift. Then you have a choice with that gift: you could keep it to yourself, you could pass it on as a gift, or you could polish it up and sell it. But when you sell it, it's no longer a gift. In the early 90s, in that Nirvana era, a lot of people polished up that shit and sold it. And that was very discouraging I thought, because I felt "It's a gift!". And when I make it to somebody, they should give it to somebody else; we should keep it out of the market place."

"We didn't actually make tapes to put on our shelves. You make a tape and you give everybody copies of it because you want them to know the songs, because you want them to sing along at the shows. In the commercial world of music, in the industry, people go on tour to support records. But in my mind, records exist to support the tour. The show is the point, the performance is the point; that's the event, that's the gathering. Fugazi had this motto forever: record is the menu, show is the meal."


And Bad Religion stream their latest records in their entireties on YouTube: True North / The Empire Strikes First / The Process of Belief

Bad Religion is on Epitaph Records by the way, which was founded by their guitarist in the early 80s, so they have perfect freedom when it comes to promoting their records and making commerce decisions:

"Epitaph Records is a Hollywood, California based independent record label owned by Bad Religion guitarist Brett Gurewitz. The label was originally "just a logo and a P.O. box" created in the 1980s for the purpose of selling Bad Religion records, but has evolved into a large independent record label."


So anyway, free music streaming isn't necessarily as 'evil' as the RIAA would want it to be; I'm personally a lot more concerned about the artists' will on an individual basis. That said, their opinions on the matter vary so much that it's hard to know when you're behaving rightfully or not. And legally speaking, associations/labels (like the RIAA) still have the right to control how the music that they own is distributed.
That's actually great! I just edited my testament...


"I want my ashes to be buried in [s]Disneyland[/s] Jenna Jameson's pussy."
My girlfriend can somehow emulate the opening theme of the Flintstones with her vajayjay farts... truly fascinating.


Hooray! I finally received my package from rockabilia.com...

16 graphic tees in total which I only paid $6-10 each, and I also ordered quite a few stickers for my guitar. It sucks though, a lot of my favorite designs (as shown in my previous posts) weren't available anymore when I placed my order. It might not be that bad of a thing after all however, I probably would have been excessive and ordered 30 shirts or so if I had the opportunity.

I read a few negative reviews about rockabilia.com before placing my order, but I had a very positive experience with them myself: my parcel only took 2 weeks to arrive, the tees were nicely packaged, no mistake concerning the designs/sizes, etc. Only 3 of my stickers were in backorder, but I'll receive them in an envelope in a few weeks.

Time to rock these shirts and enjoy my summer... fuck yeah!


SereneProdigy's Ultimate Superduper Night Cream™


Since a little while I was planning to create the craziest night cream ever with many different ingredients bought from LotionCrafter. I went a bit overboard I must admit, I ordered around $165 USD worth of ingredients; and since I live outside the US, it actually ended up costing me around $250 (exchange rate + special shipping + customs duty). These ingredients will last me quite a while though, probably around 2-3 years; I'll be able to mix many different small batches of 1 oz.

Here are the ingredients I ordered, the recommended concentrations, as well as their effects on human skin:



Note: I used Iris Florentina Extract for my isoflavones, and Red Raspberry Seed Oil for my linoleic/linolenic acids





The procedure really isn't complicated, these ingredients are very stable/safe and can be dissolved in any common drugstore lotion. I personally used Cerave Baby Lotion as my base lotion, which is extremely soft/harmless and which already contains quite a few awesome ingredients (Niacinamide, Ceramides, Hyaluronic Acid, Allantoin, Tocopheryl Acetate, etc.).

I also bought a small scale on Amazon for only $15 (available here) to measure the quantities accurately (it can read small increments of 0.01g). And I also recycled a small container (from a random cream bought at the drugstore) to mix/store my concoction:





I first dropped 30g (around 1 oz) of Cerave Baby Lotion into my small container:





I then added all of my ingredients; I used 1/2 of the maximum recommended concentration for each ingredient (see the table above):





Here's what it looks like when properly mixed. You can see that the texture is very smooth/uniform, without any unusual sediment:





It's as easy as that. Simply put the cap on your container and you now have a fabulous night cream readily available:





I'll be using this cream at night, 3x per week (I already apply my AHA exfoliant or my sunless tanner the 4 other days). I'm sure a small batch of 30g will last me quite a while, probably more than a month. With the quantities I ordered, I'll be able to mix more than 30 small batches of 30g, hence why this whole investment will likely last me a few years. That's a price of only around $7/oz, whereas many 'professional' night creams cost more than $100/oz.

I'm really not kidding when I'm saying that this is the ultimate night cream: it contains just about every effective skincare ingredient in a very potent dosage. You likely recognized quite a few of them in the table I showed above; the only ingredients missing are Alpha Hydroxy Acids (AHA) and Retinol.

To compare a little, here's a night cream from Peter Thomas Roth which contains the exact same Peptides as my own cream (Syn-Tack and Syn-Coll); it's sold for $110/oz, and doesn't contain all the other awesome ingredients contained in my DIY cream.

And here's another cream from Caudalie, which contains Resveratrol (also contained in my own cream); a small bottle is sold for $158 (around $100/oz).

I highly recommend LotionCrafter if you want to buy many different awesome ingredients for your DIY projects. They're extremely professional: they offer the complete technical data of each ingredient on their website, they ship their products in small aluminium reclosable bags (to store them properly), the shipping is extremely fast, etc. This is already a bargain for someone who lives outside the US (like me), those living in the US really should benefit from this wonderful opportunity.

Hope you enjoyed and feel free to ask questions!
I've tried it with my girlfriend. We were quite in shock when we watched the movie and realized that a Leprechaun was living in there.

Who would have thought!?





Seriously though, I really don't see the appeal in it; the movie would pretty much just show a bunch of pink tissues, there's nothing all that enticing in it for me.



Vibrating Cock Rings

I keep seeing vibrating cock rings when I shop for sex-toys, but I seriously wonder what's their use.

Are they meant to provide vibrations to your cock or to your lover's clit? There's a lot of movement going on during sex, so I doubt that the vibrations would really be all that noticeable/pleasurable; and you'd have to constantly stick your dick deep inside your partner's pussy to provide vibrations on her clit, that would be a little awkward to me. Not to mention that they seem quite cumbersome and really aren't all that pretty to look at.

So, to those who use or have used them, how are they supposed to work? Are they worth the hassle?


Thanks for sharing!
The human body contains around 65-70% water, even bones contain a lot of water. You can make this fun test: when your lungs are full of air your body floats, but when you empty your lungs it actually sinks. So the overall density of the human body (weight/volume) is actually pretty close to water.

Boobs are essentially different tissues filled with blood (ie. water), so as most women reported so far they'll pretty much be in suspension in water. Similar to balloons filled with water, I guess.
It's not a problem for me in any way; they can even help me last longer at times.

And to guys who complain about finding condoms that are big enough for them: these things are extensible enough to be put around your arm or your head, I don't quite see what the issue is (especially since some brands sell X-large versions). I've tried putting one around my arm once, and it wasn't even uncomfortable or blocking my circulation:


I love abs on a girl, but frankly they don't make that big of a difference concerning how much I'll be attracted to her. I love fit bodies and low levels of body-fat, but abs are far from mandatory for me.

Concerning if I mind when a girl lifts more than I do... I doubt that she would honestly, but the fact that she'd share my fitness passion would be a huge turn-on.

I love all of these pretty much equally, from light definition to something a bit more substantial, but the girl on the far right has just a tad too much abs to my liking:





Prostate Massage: How To?

I've tried stimulating my p-spot a few times before, but I really can't seem to achieve any significant results. I'm pretty confident that I can locate my prostate with my finger, but no matter how I try to massage it the pleasure just isn't there. At most, I can feel a certain 'electrifying' sensation in my dick after a while, as if my prostate and my dick are somehow connected, but this is far from an orgasmic sensation. I'd say that massaging my prostate feels about the same as massaging the base of my dick in terms of erogenous feelings (which is far from being enough to make me orgasm).


So, how do you achieve a p-spot orgasm yourself?

How do you move your fingers? How much pressure do you use? For how long do you have to play with your prostate?


I'm curious about experiencing a p-spot orgasm, but I just can't seem to achieve it.

Thanks for your help!
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There is a company called "VixSkin" that makes silicone dildos that has the skinner models. They are amazing and I strongly recommend them.


I know that VixSkin and Tantus are the two most renowned manufacturers of silicone dildos. At first I intended to buy a quality silicone dildo to use for double-penetration, so I've actually looked into both of these brands while shopping. But the thing is, none of their products comes with a suction-cup base, you'd have to buy one that has a hole at the back and buy a suction-cup adapter as I've shown in one of my previous posts.

And even then, those were hard to find on Amazon: the only one I found myself was the Tantus John Doe, which looked neat and had the perfect dimensions, but it was available for around $80 (and that's without the adapter and the shipping fees). A bit too costly just to be used occasionally with my girlfriend.

The LushStore actually offers quite a few silicone dildos with a suction-cup, like this one: http://store.lushstories.com/Dildos/Realistic-Dildos-and-Dongs/

They would charge me $30 to ship where I live however, it's totally not worth it for me personally.
Review: Icicles Collection



Last weekend was my girlfriend's birthday and I offered her 3 glass dildos as part of her present. I had this gift idea in mind since quite a while and actually ordered them a few months ago since they were available for a very low price. Of course, I was getting quite impatient to finally offer them to her and sprinkle some glass-magic in the bedroom. We finally got to play with them this weekend; my girlfriend had never played with glass toys before (though I had myself) and she thoroughly enjoyed it.

My gift sure was appreciated!

At first however, I wasn't planning to write a review about them. Glass dildos from different companies are essentially always the same: pyrex glass molded into many different shapes. The material/quality is always very similar and they really don't differentiate themselves from one another; the only factor that will determine the success of your purchase is simply the shape itself. In other words, you could just choose a shape that personally appeals you, the rest is pretty predictable and elementary. As opposed to vibrators/dildos which can be very different from one another, it's rare to really be surprised with glass toys (aside from how their textures might feel vaginally), or to go "This isn't quite what I expected!".

That said, the Icicles Collection from Pipedreams which I'm reviewing here shines for one main reason: their collection of glass toys is extremely wide and varied. Technically, their products aren't any better or more reliable than any other glass toys, but the variety they offer is quite remarkable. As I mentioned previously, the main differentiating feature of glass dildos is the many shapes they can have, so it sure can be fun to have wide selection to choose from and to experiment with many different textures. I've personally known a girl who possessed around 6-7 of them, and it's not rare to hear about women who have a wide collection of glass toys. They're quite pretty to look at and each one of them feels very different, so it's definitely easy to become addicted to them. Women, you've been warned!

Anyway, I thought I'd give credit where it's due. I also thought that it could be interesting to present the main particularities of glass toys to those who've never really experimented with them. And finally, I thoroughly enjoy writing these reviews and just can't resist the urge to share my own bedroom experiences.

So first of all, what makes glass so special as a material? For one, it's extremely hard and smooth, which can provide a sensation that's entirely different than plastic, jelly rubber or silicone. The hardness makes glass dildos particularly interesting to experiment with textures: as opposed to softer materials, every ridge, bump or groove will perfectly maintain its shape in your vagina and you'll definitely feel every little detail. The smoothness of glass also means that these toys will glide inside your vagina without any resistance (more so than any other material), which can provide a much different sensation than regular toys. One word of warning though: because glass is particularly rigid, glass toys can feel a little invasive inside your pussy. They don't have any give and can't be compressed, so a toy that you might normally consider small can actually feel pretty big inside you.

Another thing that glass toys excel at is their ability to maintain heat/cold. You can either heat them or freeze them, and incorporate different temperatures to your erotic scenarios. The recommended procedure to heat them is to bring water to boil in a pot, then submerge them for about 5-10 minutes; to freeze them, simply put them in the freezer for a short period of time.

And finally, glass is non-porous and extremely easy to clean. It won't absorb germs or any other things, and you could clean your glass toys in many different ways; you could even put them in the dishwasher. You could also clean them with bleach to thoroughly disinfect them. That way, they can be shared between partners (or even friends).

As I previously mentioned, every glass dildo is essentially of similar quality, but the Icicles Collection is quite impressive to select many different shapes and textures. From regular phallic shapes, to impressive textures, to elegant trinkets, to extravagant tongue-shaped toys, to ball-gags... the choice really is yours:




To see the entire collection: www.pipedreamproducts.com/Icicles


Some of them are so pretty to look at, you could essentially leave them in plain sight and use them to decorate your house. Who would have thought that someday you'd use your centerpiece to fuck yourself silly? Okay, some of you probably did that way before the apparition of glass toys.

One word of advise though, is that how these toys look and how they feel might be two different things entirely. That said, glass toys are often used for sensual play more than to really get yourself off, so although a particular texture might not bring you to orgasm, it can nonetheless be fun to experience a totally new sensation inside your pussy. This is pretty much the appeal of glass dildos: experimentation! It's far from impossible that a particular glass toy might become your favorite item to get yourself off however; I've personally known a girl who used an excessively bumpy dildo to make herself squirt (much similar to the second one in the picture above). She was thrusting quite roughly with it, but it worked every goddamn time.

These are the 3 toys that I ordered for my girlfriend myself:





I paid around $65 in total for the three of them ($30 for the flogger and $15-20 for each wand).

The two wands are essentially the No. 1 and No. 2 from the Icicles Collection, two very basic dildos; nothing over-the-top as you can see. They were safe choices for sure, but I still enjoyed how their textures were complementary of one another: a swirling one and a bumpy one (reminiscent of anal-beads). I also love the bulbous heads that they both have in common, and they're the exact same length: together they look like two twins... and two magical wands. Here are the specifications of each:


No. 1 (swirling wand):

Length: 8.75"
Girth, shaft: 3.25" (1.0" of diameter)
Girth, head: 4.25" (1.5" of diameter)

No. 2 (bumpy wand):

Length: 8.75"
Girth, smallest bead: 2.25" (0.75" of diameter)
Girth, biggest bead: 4.25" (1.5" of diameter)


They weren't toys that I bought specifically to get my girlfriend off (she's already well-equipped for that), but more to indulge into sensual scenarios. I love sensual sex, especially with a proper girlfriend, but sensuality often has one big drawback: it tends to lack in originality (and therefore in intensity), and can therefore be a bit predictable and tedious. There isn't as many things going on during sensual sex as compared to rougher sex: the action is pretty much only centered on caressing and kissing. One such session can be magnificent every once in a while, but it can also rapidly become repetitive. Glass dildos such as these can definitely add a vast array of options in terms of sensual play.

The first night we got to use these toys, I put the swirling wand in the freezer and the bumpy one in boiling water. As we were ready to have sex, I was armed with both an ice-wand and a fire-wand: time to cast some magic on my lovely girlfriend!

You can imagine how these two wands were so versatile together. I had two different temperatures at my disposal, but also many different textures/sensations. I could thrust with each dildo in a regular fashion, but could also hold them as magical wands and use the bulbous extremities to massage/tease my girlfriend. I could insert the swirling ice-wand inside her pussy, while applying the hot head of the fire-wand on her asshole; or I could insert the bumpy fire-wand inside her ass while teasing her stomach with the head of the ice-wand; or I could lick her pussy passionately while alternatively surprising her clit with the head of either the ice-wand or the fire-wand. I mostly used the swirling ice-wand inside her pussy and the bumpy fire-wand inside her ass however; switching from ass-to-pussy isn't recommended for vaginal infections.

The bulbous heads are also perfectly sized to stimulate the g-spot: they're far from too big for insertion, they're in fact a bit narrower in girth than an average dick. Since they're made of rigid glass though, you can definitely feel them inside you; my girlfriend loves a firm pressure on her g-spot, so these sizable heads were perfect for her.

Two words of caution however. First, these dildos are rather long (8.75"), so you have to be careful not to hit the cervix with them; since glass is such a hard material, this could be particularly painful if you accidentally poke it too deep inside the vagina. Second, although the bumpy wand is particularly interesting for ass-play, you have to be very careful not to insert it completely inside your partner's ass; I'd recommend leaving at least two beads outside just to be safe.

Anyway, there are many different ways you could use these toys. Having two glass toys at your disposal is particularly interesting: you could freeze one and heat the other to experience both temperatures, but you could also keep one in the freezer while playing with the other; that way you'd always have an ice-wand at your disposal, you'd just have to switch them when your wand starts losing its coldness. I'd say that the [s]temperature[/s] magic wears off after around 15-20 minutes. You should plan ahead and/or switch to other things at times, if you want to ensure that your magical wands are always recharged and ready to enchant your partner.

As I previously said, I didn't use these wands to make my girlfriend orgasm specifically: I mostly relied on oral sex for that. They sure were tremendously fun to get there and to spice our sensual interactions a little however; our entire weekend was pretty much centered on these wands and we never ran off of things to perform. I don't believe that my girlfriend will be using them much for solo-play, but they're definitely awesome accessories to incorporate into sensual couple-play.

The third toy that I offered her is a butt-plug with a flogger attached to it. We didn't get to use it much (yet), but I was completely in awe when I stumbled across it online. It's essentially 3-toys-in-1: a butt-plug, a flogger... and a marvelous tail to use for my Catwoman fantasies. I can't wait to use it properly and to tease [s]my girlfriend's[/s] Catwoman's asshole by pulling on it a little. And since we also ordered some new costume-accessories this weekend, I can't wait to try them all together. Imagine a girl dressed like this with a mask and a cute little tail sticking out of her butt:





The flogger itself seems to be of decent quality, though this is admittedly the first flogger that I ever get my hands on and I'm far from a flogging-expert; I assume that hardcore BDSM players will prefer to invest a bit more for a professional flogger. This will mostly be a visual accessory for me and my girlfriend however; we might play with it a little, but how it delivers is of secondary importance to us.

Here's a video for those interested:






I hope this gave you a few ideas about how glass toys can be used. If you browse the Icicles Collection, you'll certainly find a few items that could potentially charm you or your partner (literally, of course). Aside from being pretty, these toys also come in an elegant showcase box, perfect to be offered as a gift. They're like sex-jewelry:






As always, thanks for reading and feel free to ask questions!
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When I give them the low-down, they give me tips like, 'Hey, the next time you have sex - lay the bed with bin bags, slather yourselves in baby oil and just... have at it!' Not sure if he's being serious, but that's apparently a great way to discover new positions.


I was totally serious and you know it.

Seriously oil-sex is a lot of fun, but all those bin bags would certainly be quite inconvenient: they'd keep moving around and you'd constantly need to replace them. You might as well buy a large plastic sheet and cover your entire bed with it. Personally, I use a large blanket and simply fuck on my floor.

That said, I've been shopping for toys this weekend and this fun lube-wrestling ring caught my attention; there was a big sale and it was available for around $150. It sure could be awesome to fuck with oil/food/fake-cum, but technically it probably isn't all that much more convenient than just fucking on a blanket: you'd have to inflate it beforehand and clean it thoroughly afterward, whereas I just have to lay my blanket on the floor and throw it in the washing machine when the fun is over.

Who knows though, maybe I'll review it someday, haha:


Quote by BiMale73
Like others said already: trim then shave. If you have any experience with shaving wet then you're good to go I'd say. You really need to make an effort to cut yourself with modern razor blades.

There are hair removal creams for sensitive areas that work pretty well. But if you don't do it right your skin can get very irritated. And referring back to my friend's story, that's probably not what you want. So I'd say shave, unless you have time enough to practice a bit with the cream.


This, especially the part about modern razors: I was never all that careful when shaving my groin, and I've never cut myself (not even a slight cut in 10 years). The base of your dick isn't as sensitive as the head anyway, so even if you cut yourself slightly it won't cause mad damage and it will heal fairly rapidly. You just have to be careful when handling your razor, not to accidentally scrape the head of your dick.

And in my own experience, depilatory creams really aren't that effective for pubic hair. They might work better for light hair on your chest or on a woman's legs, but pubic hair tend to be coarser and those creams have a hard time removing all of them. That's the experience I've personally had with them anyway.

It's funny though, I didn't think that getting rid of one's pubic hair was considered such a complicated medical procedure: just grab any quality razor and you'll be fine.
Running helped me a lot when I quit smoking about 3 years ago; that made me very irritable/depressed at times, and I just put my shoes on and went outside whenever I couldn't take the pressure anymore (which was often, haha). The winter is very cold here, but that can actually be an advantage when running: you simply have to wear thermal shirts/tights and a beanie, and your body temperature remains just perfect. You always feel fresh and never sweat, plus it motivates you to constantly keep running if you don't want to feel the cold. You have to be careful not to trip on ice though.

Since about 2 years however, I developed a knee condition (chondromalacia patella) and I've been extremely careful: I didn't run at all since. I prefer biking anyway, especially in the summer: when going fast the breeze keeps me fresh, I travel x3 times faster and can visit different places in my city, and above all it's much gentler for my knees. It's fun because here in my city we have a big network of cycle tracks: I can pretty much leave my apartment and head downtown by solely riding on dedicated cycle tracks. 30-45 minutes at a good pace and I can reach all the fun spots of my city.

The big disadvantage of biking is that it doesn't work my cardio as much: my bike is so good, my legs start hurting before I actually run out of breath, haha. And I also have to bike rather fast to really exhaust myself, which can be a bit dangerous at times (ie. in heavy traffic).

Anyway, cardio training is more fun for me than anything: I rely a lot more on dieting to lose weight. Cardio can even be counter-productive when I'm bulking and need an extra amount of energy to gain weight. Usually I bulk in the winter (and barely perform any cardio), then I cut in the summer (and bike every once in a while).
Wow, the shipping was fast, I just received my package of toys today. I'm still waiting for all my lingerie/outfits though (I built a separate order for that).

First impressions: the dildo is actually a bit smaller than I expected. The girth is very close to the one of my own dick, I'll have to compare with a proper hard-on, haha. The dimensions stated are accurate though: 7" long x 5" girth. I just measured the girth with a tape, and it's exactly 5" right at the middle of the shaft. Size-queens might find it a little small to be used as a proper solo vaginal dildo, but it's perfect for how I want to use it myself (double-penetration with my girlfriend): the size is perfect and it's very soft/pliable. I already knew how the UR3 material would feel like though, my Sasha Gray Sucker is made from the exact same material.

The bullet vibrator that I received seems defective however: it works, but I can't press on the button and I can't change the speed (it's supposed to have 3 speeds available). Luckily, it seems to be stuck on the higher setting. I just have to unscrew the battery cap to turn it off.

And I still need to receive my suction-cup adapter; I had to order it on Amazon as it wasn't available from this sex-shop.

It's likely that I'll write a proper review in the next few weeks, with pictures and all. I'll test it with my girlfriend with all those different accessories (suction-cup, bullet vibrator, etc.) and I'll report back.

I'm already happy with my purchase though, it seems perfect so far.



How do you feel toward your parents?


How is the relationship with your mother? With your father?

Do they hold an important place in your life, or did you cut the ties with them? Are they people you admire, or people you despise?

I guess this is a rather personal question, but that's kind of the point: feel free to let it out!


Note: Older folks are also welcome to share how the relationship is with their children.
Quote by Dancing_Doll
I really wish that D.C. made this same model of dildo, but a skinny version - then it would be pretty perfect. If anyone knows if something like this exists, let me know.



We're lucky, I just found the perfect dildo! I've been shopping online with my girlfriend earlier today and we went a bit overboard... we ordered almost $300 worth of toys (though most of it is actually sexy outfits that were on sale). I guess I'll have a few reviews to write in the upcoming weeks.

Here's what I found (and bought): a UR3 dildo made by Doc Johnson, and the dimensions are 7" long x 5" girth. If you look at the picture below however, you can see that the shape is definitely tapered: the 5" announced is the girth at the largest point (ie. at the base), but most of the shaft lies somewhere between 4.75" and 5.00", much closer to an average cock.

The only problem is that it doesn't come with a suction cup, though there's a hole at the back to use it with the vac-u-lock system; I also had to order a suction-cup adapter separately:





The thing is, both accessories together actually cost less than the 'regular' UR3 dildo. I paid $30 in total ($20 for the dildo, 10$ for the plug), whereas the regular UR3 suction-cup dildo was available for $36.

And this vac-u-lock hole can actually be a huge advantage. I also bought a small bullet vibrator to insert inside that hole, so that my girlfriend will also be able to use this dildo all by herself as a 'vibrating cock'. I was almost hoping that my wireless bullet would fit into it, but alas it's a little too big.

The bullet I bought is the High Intensity by California Exotic Novelties; apparently it's quite powerful for its size:




Anyway, I'm quite fucking happy with this purchase. At first I was hoping to buy a silicone dildo to use for DP with my girlfriend (similar to the Tantus Vamp that she already has), but then things got a bit complicated: silicone dildos rarely come with a suction-cup, those that exist weren't available where I live, finding a dildo with a vac-u-lock hole was a huge mess (and they were expensive as hell).

Technically, I could also have bought this dildo in silicone. There are 3 versions available: jelly rubber, realistic UR3, and silicone. $10, $28, and $38 respectively on Amazon (though the silicone version was much more expensive where I bought mine, almost $30 more than the UR3 version):


Jelly rubber: http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Vac-u-lock-Natural-7

UR3: http://www.amazon.com/Vac-U-Lock-7-UR3-Dong-White

Silicone: http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Vac-U-Lock-Platinum-Edition


I'm not quite sure why Doc Johnson doesn't also offer that cock with a suction-cup; the shape is almost better than this other one (the girth is plenty enough and the tapered shape is perfect for anal). And with the vac-u-lock adapter, it will also be longer and easier to maneuver (almost 9" long I guess); and it's likely lighter than the other one, without the heavy balls. I've seen the regular UR3 cock many many times before, but I had to dig a bit deeper to finally stumble across the one I bought.

Anyway, I'll report back when I'll receive it: I'll either drop a quick comment here or I'll write a proper review.

You can also check this page to see what it looks like in the hands of a woman: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/tv/3805/