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Quote by avrgblkgrl
My fav: Chocolate Covered Cherry Martini



Haha, this is almost a dessert more than it is a cocktail.

But yeah, even myself enjoy those 'dessert drinks' at times, that's why I enjoy drinking Irish cream in the late evening; it's very soothing and relaxing, and I pretty much savor it like a dessert. I usually prefer 'cream based' drinks however, as opposed to fruity/sugary ones.

Aside from simply drinking Irish cream on the rocks, I also enjoy mixing these drinks in the late evening:






Note: You can also use Irish cream instead of regular cream to mix your White Russian.
Happy St-Patrick's Day!





I just came back from an Irish pub and had a few fun Irish drinks... sorry if I sound a little drunk. And yes, I have some Irish ancestry.

First I had two Irish Car Bombs, what a fun drink to have:






Then I had a few awesome shooters, namely:





Quote by sprite


wife trumps sybian, but sybian trumps boyfriend. Hell, cat trumps boyfriend as far as i'm concerned. smile


Maybe, however "I have a penis" beats them all in terms of being the most dissuasive one.
Quote by sprite
I prefer: "I have a wife". Personally. for one, it kind of takes them by surprise. Also, hopefully it keeps them from hitting on me. Thirdly, I'm kind of proud of the fact.


Whatever floats your boat, I even received a "I have a Sybian" once.


"I have a boyfriend!"


This is something that I've discussed about last Friday with some male friends...

As most men and women certainly know, the line "I have a boyfriend!" is probably the biggest deterrent for a guy to pursue his advances.


My questions:

In the case where you really have a boyfriend:

- Do you make a point to consciously mention that you have a boyfriend when interacting with other males? If so, how soon during the interaction?

- Do you only rely on such a strategy when you know that a guy could be interested in you (or you in him)?

- Do you sometimes enjoy hiding this information a little, just to flirt/tease casually and see if a certain guy could be interested in you?


In the case where you don't have a boyfriend:

- Have you used this line to dissuade annoying guys from flirting with you?

- Do you often rely on this strategy, or only use it as a last resort?


I've always found it cute/funny how some girls handle this information. At times, I had a pretty good vibe going on with a female acquaintance/coworker, and she made a point to mention her relationship in a not-so-subtle manner (eg. "Oh, my boyfriend is similar actually, he doesn't like overcomplicated meals!"). At other times, girls eventually told me that they have a boyfriend, but they still allowed themselves to be a little flirtatious with me beforehand. And then, I also received the "I have a boyfriend!" line while flirting with strangers and wondered if it really was true or just a strategy to get rid of me.

Thanks for sharing!
Quote by naughtyannie
Well, I've got the Lelo Gigi and the Mona (thanks, Lush!) and for g-spot stimulation the Gigi would have to take some beating. I thought the flat head looked weird at first, but OMG it hits the spot!


The thing is, different women might react differently to the exact same toy; my girlfriend prefers that 'filling' sensation when stimulating her g-spot, which I doubt the Gigi could really achieve.

In any case, I've actually read that the Picobong Moka (from Lelo's alternative brand) surpasses the Gigi 2 in some reviews: the vibrations are just as strong, it's bigger, and it's available for half the price ($50 instead of $100). The only drawback is that it's powered by batteries, whereas the Gigi 2 is rechargeable.


Quote by HeraTeleia
Not sure how to answer this question, being (for better or worse) decidedly heterosexual. How do you figure that there are more "lesbian and bi-sexual" women on this site? That's the first thing I don't understand.


I actually think that his observation is right, and I even noticed it myself when I first joined here; I actually started a thread about it in the very first week I joined Lush.

I just rapidly checked the sexual orientation of my 30 female friends: 7 are straight, 16 are lesbian/bisexual and 7 didn't answer.

Out of those who have their sexual orientation shown on their profiles, that's 30% straight and 70% lesbian/bisexual... whereas about 3% of the overall population are usually considered gay/bisexual in surveys. And if you also browse random profiles, you'll notice that a lot more women are bisexual/bicurious than straight, much similar to the proportion of my own friends.

To me the explanation is rather simple: the straight/lesbian scale isn't so black and white, and a lot of women actually fantasize or had a few experiences with other women, albeit the fact that it represents a very small percentage of their sexuality in a lot of cases. On a sex website like Lush where people openly talk about their sexuality (and even brag about it a little), people are a lot more prone to 'exaggerate' the reality a little to acknowledge their past sexual experiences.

My own girlfriend had a few sparse adventures with some of her closest female friends. If she joined Lush, she'd probably identify herself as 'bisexual', and yet if she had to answer a serious census (even anonymously), she'd most certainly label herself as 'straight'.
Quote by Mysteria27
I highly recommend the Lelo Gigi. I have never had so many orgasms in my life.


Going the Lelo route, my girlfriend would probably prefer the Mona 2. She needs some girth, and the Gigi is a relatively small toy. Plus I've read that the vibrations are much stronger with the Mona 2 and that the pointy shape is ideal for clitoral stimulation. That said, I'm not sure if even the Mona 2 would be worth the investment.

Here are the 3 toys side by side (Jopen Ceres, Gigi, Mona). It might not be apparent, but the Jopen actually has a bit more girth than the Mona (5.0" vs 4.5"):



Quote by HeraTeleia
Really like the Fun Factory Delight vibrator, mine is in baby pink, as shown below. Very unique S-curve shape hits all the right places, and because it is a Click 'n Charge model (meaning, no inlet for recharging, which means completely, absolutely waterproof), it is easy to keep clean and no worries about water/lube/whatever getting into a charging port and buggering up the electronics (as happens with some Lelo toys). Unfortunately out of stock in the Lush Store, but really a great toy.


Thanks for that info. Would you say that the curve makes a big different though, as compared to a regular toy?

I guess a curve can be useful to tilt the toy so that you can apply a firm pressure against the g-spot; I wonder if that extra-pressure would be worth the investment.

And I've heard of Fun Factory toys, they seem pretty amazing. The Stronic Eins is particularly unique, there's a weight inside of it that keeps moving back and forth so that it's 'pulsating' instead of just 'vibrating'. Pretty ingenuous design:


Interesting question, haha. As I was reading it, I was thinking: "Nope, funnily enough the thought of it never even crossed my mind."

Maybe I've discussed about it with a few girls in a funny/flirty way, but I've never considered performing a lap dance seriously, even with my girlfriends. I'm not sure why, maybe because I have plenty of other ways to tease girls and because I don't exactly consider myself that great of a dancer anyway. And let's face it, removing a pair of jeans is a lot less sexy than delicately removing a bra, rolling down stockings, or teasing in a pair of alluring panties.
Best Toys For G-Spot Stimulation?


Okay, I actually had quite a few things in mind when creating this thread. I'd like to read women's opinions about this, but I'm also looking for a few specific advices for my own girlfriend.


First of all, a few general questions:

- What is your absolute favorite toy to achieve g-spot orgasms?

- Which form of stimulation works best for you? A small localized tip, or a large surface? Rubbing against your g-spot, or applying a firm pressure on it?

- Are vibrations really necessary for you, or simply a tiny advantage? Does thrusting in-and-out with a nicely shaped dildo actually works better for you?


I'm asking because my girlfriend isn't quite advantaged to reach g-spot orgasms; she can achieve it at times in the right mood and with enough persistence, but it can be a lot of work and not always worth the effort.

Lately I've been reading reviews about a toy that's considered the 'ultimate' g-spot stimulator, the Njoy Pure Wand:





It's made of pure steel and doesn't vibrate at all, but apparently the way it manages to find/stimulate the g-spot is spectacular; a lot of women mentioned that they could finally achieve squirting orgasms with this toy, with very little effort. I thus have been wondering if it would be worth it for my girlfriend; maybe reaching g-spot orgasms would still be a bit of a challenge for her, but it could render the task easier to achieve. It's rather expensive though (around $70-100), so I'm not sure if it would be worth investing into.

My girlfriend actually prefers a firm pressure applied on her g-spot with just a slight rocking movement, so I thought that the Njoy Pure Wand could be appropriate for her. Her current favorite vibrator is the Jopen Ceres G Massager, which she likes because the head is quite thick and finds her g-spot easily while applying a firm pressure:





She also likes the vibrations, apparently they're quite deep and propagate nicely all around her pelvic region. Usually she likes to alternate between internal and clitoral stimulation with it, she says that the texture is quite soft and perfect to rub all over her clit/labia. That or she'll keep this vibrator inside her pussy while stimulating her clit with either her fingers or a Pocket Rocket. She almost always orgasms from her clit however. She never got to enjoy those dual-action vibrators by the way, she even tried a high-end Jopen model from one of her best friends and didn't think it was worth it.

Funnily enough, Jopen also sells a wand that's a perfect hybrid between the Njoy Pure Wand and her own vibrator; it's available both with or without vibrations, and around the same price as the Njoy Pure Wand:





I've been wondering if the extra-pronounced curve would really make that big of a difference to help her achieve g-spot orgasms, as compared to her actual vibrator. If anyone has any experience with those 'curved wands', I'd really appreciate your feedback.

As mentioned above, you're also free to discuss about what works best for you to achieve g-spot orgasms. Thanks for sharing!
Review: Pipedream Posable Strap-on





Although anal penetration and prostate massages never did much for me, I've always thought that the classic pegging/handjob combination looked very enticing on pictures, and also very erotic. For some reason I also thought that strap-ons were rather expensive (somewhere in the $60-100 price range), until a few months ago when I discovered that some of them were much more affordable (closer to $25-35); the fantasy of having a girl fuck my ass with a strap-on then became a 'maybe' in my mind, though it was still something rather nonessential in my current sexual life.

A few weeks ago however, I stumbled across the perfect bargain while yet again browsing on an online sex-shop: a very decent strap-on was available for only $10. The complete name is Fetish Fantasy Posable Partner G-Spot, and it's generally sold for around $25-30. As well, the dimensions/specifications were simply perfect for me, the girth being rather small not to traumatize my tight almost-virgin ass and the shaft also being bendable to stimulate the prostate accurately (more on that later). I also knew that my girlfriend would be thrilled by this idea, being the little devious slut that she is (she's the one who mischievously inserted a dildo in my ass in my Nasstoys Dildo review, so you can imagine). I thus figured that the stars were perfectly aligned to finally indulge in this fantasy and ordered this strap-on immediately; I also bought an anal douche along with it, to make sure that my ass would be perfectly clean when using it.

Here are the specifications:

Length: 7.25"
Insertable Length: 6"
Girth: 4" at largest point
Width: 1.25" at largest point
Materials: PVC
Special Features: Phthalate-Free, Textured Surface, Waterproof


I received my package a few days later. At first I wondered if I should wait for my girlfriend to shove that toy inside my ass, but I thought that it would be a nice idea to test it and accommodate my asshole to it beforehand. Okay I must admit, I was also excited and impatient to insert this dildo in my ass, just for the sake of novelty and curiosity.

Upon opening the box and holding this strap-on in my hands, I was very thrilled by the dimensions and the texture of this toy: the girth really wasn't intimidating for an anal-novice like me, the texture was very smooth, and the shaft had a nice sponginess to it, all of which persuading me that this toy would provide a nice massage inside my ass instead of a harsh/overwhelming sensation.

Here's what it looks like compared to an average dick. Rather slim and perfect for beginners, as you can see:

(7.25 x 4) vs (6.5 x 4.5)



Another interesting characteristic of this strap-on is that the shaft is quite bendable and can hold its curve to stimulate the prostate adequately. However, it's a bit less bendable downward (left) than upward (right), as you can see below:





One more particularity, which I honestly haven't found the exact purpose of, is that there is a certain 'rim' near the base of the dildo. I'm not sure if it's simply there to avoid the dildo from penetrating your ass too deeply, but frankly that wouldn't be all that necessary since from my experience an ass can contain a considerable length, much more so than a pussy. Anyway, it takes the shaft from a total length of 7.25" down to an insertable length of 6":





Later that evening while taking my shower, I cleaned my ass thoroughly with my newly acquired anal douche. I then installed myself comfortably on my bed, my legs tilted toward my torso and a bottle of lube nearby. I lubed the dildo properly, and then pushed it against the opening of my asshole. It entered rather easily/comfortably I must say, and the excitement of it all provoked a big hard-on in my own dick. I then tried to accustom myself to anal penetration, sliding the dildo in and out of my ass and pushing it inside as deep as possible. For some reason however, I had a hard time pushing it deep inside my ass during the first session; I reproduced the same experience alone by myself a few more times during the week, and finally got to insert it fully inside my ass. I thus finally felt prepared to add my insubordinate girlfriend to the equation.

Before she left for my apartment on Friday evening, I instructed her to wear extra-slutty black eyeliner. "I have a nice surprise! Arrange yourself as deviously as you possibly can, I want you to look like a complete deviant bitch!", I meticulously instructed her. She arrived at my place looking similar to this. Perfect!

As soon as our dinner was over, I presented that strap-on to her. Damn, was she enthusiastic about it; she tried to contain her excitement however, and only displayed a malicious grin. We got naked and I installed the strap-on on her hips. The straps worked perfectly well, essentially there are two adjustments possible: around the hips and around the crotch. My girlfriend is rather small/thin and I was still able to adjust the strap-on tightly around her pelvis so that it wouldn't move during sex; the straps are also quite extensible, which helps to obtain a proper fit. It was also very comfortable, the base of the shaft is nicely padded so that you don't feel any hard sensation on your pubis while thrusting.

My girlfriend's personality changed drastically as soon as she realized that a stiff cock was now protruding from her pelvis. She first caressed it, lost in her thoughts, which I'm sure were all thoroughly mischievous at that precise moment. "Come on dirty girl, have your fun! Fuck my ass as you wish!" I exclaimed as a positioned myself on the edge of my bed, my girlfriend now smiling like a naughty little prankster. I gave her a bottle of lube and she soon poured a generous quantity all over her shaft and on my own cock. She then started penetrating my ass, both of her hands working on my stiff cock while reapplying lube as necessary.

To be honest however, the sensation of something going in and out of my ass was still rather unremarkable for me. Sure, it was exciting to indulge in this fantasy and having a toy massaging my ass while my girlfriend was offering me a handjob, but the sensation was more erotic than truly orgasmic; I even started to feel a burning sensation all around my asshole at some point, which got more and more uncomfortable as my girlfriend kept thrusting. Maybe it's only because I'm an anal-novice though, and hopefully this discomfort will subside with subsequent experiences.

The sight of my nasty girlfriend eagerly fucking my ass and jerking my cock was thrilling however, especially with her sinful eyes all covered with dark makeup. The interaction was more playful than properly dominant, but observing my cute little girlfriend trying to assume total control in such a corrupt way was highly arousing. And of course, we exchanged a lot of crude dirty talk to add to the intensity.

I finally came all over my torso, my dick sprinkling cum like a wild fountain; my girlfriend then massaged my torso with my own mess, obscenely licking her fingers to taste my orgasm. After a short round of cunnilingus, I then installed the strap-on on my own self, just above my dick, to perform another thing that I had in mind. Essentially, I intended to double-fuck my girlfriend with both my dick and the strap-on, in the following position:





Fuck did she enjoy it! I could fuck both her pussy and asshole vigorously at the same time, with a nice even pace. I didn't even have to hold the base of the strap-on to keep it in place, the movement was very natural and instinctive. It wasn't as accurate as a suction-cup dildo to simulate double-penetration with two men, but it was actually even more pleasurable for my girlfriend. Unfortunately, we couldn't really switch positions as that would have meant inverting my dick with the dildo (and vice-versa) and going from ass-to-pussy is a big no-no, but it was great nonetheless; watching the two holes of my girlfriend getting fucked simultaneously was thoroughly exciting.

All in all, although this toy is a nice addition to our collection, I'm definitely not a disciple of anal penetration: it really doesn't do all that much for me in terms of sensations, it's more psychologically stimulating than anything. Who knows however, maybe with time and with further experiences I'll get to enjoy it more and more. This strap-on is definitely awesome to double-fuck my girlfriend though, we'll probably end up using it more that way. We got to use it a few times in the past few weeks (three times in total as I'm writing this review), and I'm sure we'll keep using it occasionally for a long period of time; my girlfriend absolutely loves it, haha.

This particular strap-on is also very nice, especially for the price I paid myself; it's still well worth the money if you can only find it for $25-30. Honestly, I didn't get to exploit the 'bendable' feature myself (I preferred having a straight shaft thrusting inside my ass), but it can also be a nice addition if you're into proper prostate massaging. Really the perfect size/features for any novice man that would like his ass pegged. Pipedream also sells a few similar strap-ons which feature the exact same straps/base, if you'd ever like a bigger shaft attached to your strap-on.
Quote by sprite
washed or unwashed?


Everybody knows that Tori Black's asshole is perfectly clean, so it wouldn't make much of a difference really.


Quote by Nikki703
Would Tori Black be considered a movie prop?


Not in every of her movies. In Interracial Fuck Sluts she's definitely a prop though, just a mere accessory:


I can indulge in oral sex, anal, cumplay, bondage and many other things, but my favorite act is and will always be... fucking a pussy (in many different positions).
Quote by Ooze_22
Well you are probably gonna get a lot of different answers on this one. If we are talking about the relationship i think most men like to feel needed, you know that they are the one of the most important people in your life. As soon as i get home i'd like to know that she missed me and that she wants some. But ultimately i think the best way to show to a guy that he's appreciated is sex. show a guy that he can satisfy you, that he's the one for you and that you actually want to have sex with him without finding excuses when he wants it, maybe even ask for it first and you won't have any problems. i think sex is the ultimate ego-boost for a guy, it tells him that you really want him and that you need him and you are not looking for anyone else. if he knows you are satisfied then he is too



Seriously, this is actually a nice answer. Both the 'feeling needed' and 'sexual favors' are pretty accurate of what I would have said myself.
Quote by sprite
A blow job. Or anal sex. Or both.


Nope, you're wrong. I want a prostate massage. Or a sandwich. Or both.


I only use fuckable sleeves when I masturbate (which aren't included in the poll, despite their popularity).

My two favorites are the Fleshlight Vortex and Sasha Grey Deepthroat Sucker: