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Over 90 days ago
Lesbian Female, 38
0 miles · Seattle
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Marx Sister
Some people don't like to shave because it can be very itchy when the hair starts to grow back, which can happen quite quickly, particularly with pubic hair. The problem with this is that it either takes a lot of effort to maintain a not-that-itchy pussy, or she will just be itchy for several days to a couple of weeks after each time she shaves.
There are a lot of options here, though. First place to start is a conversation. Remember to not make her feel pressured, or like you are demanding she take any particular course of action. I would say the first thing to do is ask her why she doesn't like to. There are an array of reasons. Some women feel cold, or itchy, others feel that the imagery infantilizes their body in ways that make them feel weird about themselves and/or their partners, some just don't like how sex feels when they are shaved - it can be much more intense and for some people more stimulation is too much stimulation. Of course there are many reasons that she might be reluctant to do so, and I am just offering advice on a few.
Is a trimmed but not shaved pussy a good option? Less itchy for her, and the hair still isn't likely to get in your nose or mouth/stuck in your teeth/whatever the problem is. If it is less an itchiness issue for her, find out what it is. The prior solution is also a nice middle ground if it is an overstimulation issue.
If this is more of an internal or emotional issue, the important thing here is to find out what bothers her about it, and then explain that your desire for this is not based in the imagery that concerns her, and that it is in fact about your tactile problem. Oh. Make sure she knows that you don't think she is gross when you are having this conversation. In the end, it will likely come down to either her concerns overruling that desire, or in her deciding that she thinks its a reasonable ask and that she is happy to make licking her pussy an easier and better experience for you. Either outcome is totally acceptable, though.
If she is not comfortable, don't push it. She might change her mind later, but she might not. Then it's up to you to decide if the hair is a dealbreaker.
There are a lot of options here, though. First place to start is a conversation. Remember to not make her feel pressured, or like you are demanding she take any particular course of action. I would say the first thing to do is ask her why she doesn't like to. There are an array of reasons. Some women feel cold, or itchy, others feel that the imagery infantilizes their body in ways that make them feel weird about themselves and/or their partners, some just don't like how sex feels when they are shaved - it can be much more intense and for some people more stimulation is too much stimulation. Of course there are many reasons that she might be reluctant to do so, and I am just offering advice on a few.
Is a trimmed but not shaved pussy a good option? Less itchy for her, and the hair still isn't likely to get in your nose or mouth/stuck in your teeth/whatever the problem is. If it is less an itchiness issue for her, find out what it is. The prior solution is also a nice middle ground if it is an overstimulation issue.
If this is more of an internal or emotional issue, the important thing here is to find out what bothers her about it, and then explain that your desire for this is not based in the imagery that concerns her, and that it is in fact about your tactile problem. Oh. Make sure she knows that you don't think she is gross when you are having this conversation. In the end, it will likely come down to either her concerns overruling that desire, or in her deciding that she thinks its a reasonable ask and that she is happy to make licking her pussy an easier and better experience for you. Either outcome is totally acceptable, though.
If she is not comfortable, don't push it. She might change her mind later, but she might not. Then it's up to you to decide if the hair is a dealbreaker.
Marx Sister
There are sections of the forum that are specifically for promoting your work, and there are a variety of other ways too. As has been said, comment on other writers' work here. To be honest though, I find the best way is to stay active in the forums. A link in your forum signature to the stories you are particularly interested in promoting can also be a good idea.
