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All of a sudden I am unable to send online messages. Is this just me or is it affecting other people?
I can't send any either. I'm using my Shiny (Galaxy Note).
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Quote by Peter242
I am a male sub in to being spanked by a dominant female. Do women enjoy dominating men or do they prefer to be submissive?
I just wrote a story in which the lad gets spanked by a lass. I found it even more difficult to write than the story where the lad spanks the lass, and that was difficult enough.
I'm not the kind of person who likes to take the lead in day-to-day scenarios, although I will if I have no choice or my emotion takes over my reactions. I really don't think I could be the predominantly dominant (try saying that when you're tipsy) one, and whilst I'm not into the BDSM scene, if a lad I fancied was very gently dominant with me, I think I'd rather like it.
Gingerbread Lover
Alright, people. This is forum that any member can post on. Therefore, expect a variety of replies. They won't all be helpful, necessarily. But that is the risk we take.
If you feel you are being targeted, use the "Contact Us" button and report the person.
But I will lock this thread down if people cannot keep their replies civil. Abusive behaviour will not be tolerated. Consider yourselves warned.
If you feel you are being targeted, use the "Contact Us" button and report the person.
But I will lock this thread down if people cannot keep their replies civil. Abusive behaviour will not be tolerated. Consider yourselves warned.
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This is a reminder for new posters about how this thread works.
In order to mert the effing rules of postage, I am effing raging about the state of my effing Christmas bunting, which still isn't effing finished yet!
Quote by sprite
Ok, LMB needed a thread to just rage. Here's the rules.
1) No directing your rage at other members - this is not UFC (sorry, Doll, but it's not!).
2) No directing your rage at the site. Nicola and the mods do an amazing job here and work hard at making it this wonderful and if you don't like it, leave. This is for stuff outside the site. Stuff that you just need to vent about.
3) let it all out about the little things or the big things. That ass who took your parking spot, getting the pink slip, being sick, getting dumped, all of it, just let it go here.
4) You are not allowed to tell anyone not to be angry, to calm down. We feel how we feel. Do not try to reason with the the rage. It needs to be let loose.
5) Don't censor yourself. Let it all out.
6) Be respectful of other peoples rage. Being bitchy in public is scary. Don't belittle anyone. Ok, have fun.
In order to mert the effing rules of postage, I am effing raging about the state of my effing Christmas bunting, which still isn't effing finished yet!
Gingerbread Lover
Thank you, lovely people. 
I know smiley eyes in a couple of lads I know have made me weak at the knees before, but not in photos of random strangers (they freak me right out). So, cookie (not a euphemism) lovers with smiley eyes are what I might look out for. Hmmmm... Maybe I should start going to the local rugby matches...
I know smiley eyes in a couple of lads I know have made me weak at the knees before, but not in photos of random strangers (they freak me right out). So, cookie (not a euphemism) lovers with smiley eyes are what I might look out for. Hmmmm... Maybe I should start going to the local rugby matches...
Gingerbread Lover
I just looked through that thread. Do we have an OMG emoticon?
If we put aside the whole "How the feck does THAT fit inside?!", then only one of them was anywhere vaguely in the realm of "might like to snog him".
I have established I'm definitely not a fan of slim, bumpy tummy lads if it's based solely on looks. So that's something.
If we put aside the whole "How the feck does THAT fit inside?!", then only one of them was anywhere vaguely in the realm of "might like to snog him".
I have established I'm definitely not a fan of slim, bumpy tummy lads if it's based solely on looks. So that's something.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Dancing_Doll
Are you saying that there is no guy in this thread that gives you the wigglies???
http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst23308_The-Hot-Alpha-Male-Photo-Collection.aspx
Like if any of these guys were in a bar, you wouldn't take a second or third glance or if they chatted you up, you wouldn't feel any physical urge towards them?
That means I'm going to have to look at the pictures now, doesn't it?
People don't chat me up. They ask me to set them up with my mates, or it's a dare. Seriously. I don't go out any more, there's only so much I can manage.
I'll have a look at that thread.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Magical_felix
Okay first of all, most guys like cookies, so no worries there. The really good ones will eat your cookie so good you wont be able control yourself. That cookie will be dripping wet by the time he's done. Those juices start to drip down... you might even offer up that tight little mini donut. You never know. This is because the lads you know are too worried about being nice and proper n shit. You need a stranger to open your mind... and your ass.
It was not a euphemism. Bad Felix!
LadyX, I'm sure it feels just wonderful. But I hate the idea of it. Yuck. I'd put a glove on and stick a finger up my boyfriend's bum if he desperately wanted it, though (if I had a boyfriend, that is).
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
It's about the aesthetics of beauty and physical attraction.
Yes, a lot of people/cultures/whatever are attracted to different things and uphold different standards of beauty - I don't see it in that narrow a way myself, but if we're *strictly* talking about biological urge and sexual attraction - that need or desire to 'fuck' someone - the last thing you're thinking about when you see a guy is what his personality is like, what's his IQ or whether he has a kind soul.
When people look at porn, dirty pictures, fantasizing about strangers - they are going for the physical attributes that turn them on the most - chiseled abs, broad shoulders, angular features, or whatever floats your boat. Like that moment before orgasm, you're in the moment - all physical, muscles tensing - it's raw and primal. That's kind of like what natural sexual attraction is as well. You just feel it, you don't overthink it.
If you're talking about "making love", relationships, and all that complex stuff, sexual attraction gets put on a scale with all the other important things that make us human and they have to balance out to something positive. This is the 'logic' side of attraction. Very different from the instinctive desire to copulate/mate with what we think is a hot specimen.
Biology is a part of it to be sure - strip away the pretences, we are still animals.
So, what you're you're basically saying is that I should watch more porn to find out what I find aesthetically pleasing? Or, do more ogling?
How much of what we find physically attractive is what we know from hands-on experience, or simply from the body's response we get from looking at another body? Or a mixture? Or is everybody different?
Gingerbread Lover
Maybe part of the issue is that I just don't know what I like?
I know those guys with the bumpy tummies of muscle look like cuddling them would be uncomfy, whereas one who obviously likes cookies makes me think it would be nice to cuddle him. And broad shoulders on the lads I've fancied made me feel safe. That's a step forward, isn't?
And noooooo to bum sex, thank you!
I know those guys with the bumpy tummies of muscle look like cuddling them would be uncomfy, whereas one who obviously likes cookies makes me think it would be nice to cuddle him. And broad shoulders on the lads I've fancied made me feel safe. That's a step forward, isn't?
And noooooo to bum sex, thank you!
Gingerbread Lover
I am aware that I don't always think like other people when it comes to sex and personal relationships. Through my writing and reading in the forums here, I have been trying to understand what makes people tick, what makes their juices flow (pun unintended).
I don't know what turns me on, really. I either feel wiggly, or I don't. But I am learning, often through pictures posted on my friends' walls, and things they say about physical bodies, that just merely looking at a body, or eyes, turns them on. But I find I am sort of intimidated by the graphic sexual pictures, and I can't look at them for very long.
I tried to write a poem exploring the possibility of being turned on simply by a lad's body, but I couldn't really get myself into the mindset. The two people I've been vaguely intimate with didn't turn me on specifically by how they looked, because I think either my brain doesn't work like that, or I'm just wired differently. They turned me on because it was their body. If that makes any sense?
I see all over the forums and Facebook etc, that people are turned on by the physical image of random strangers. Why? Because they appreciate the physical attribute to the extent they want to have sex with the body? Or does it evoke memories or fantasies already entrenched in one's mind? Something different?
Can you shed any light on purely physical attraction for me (not attraction to ME, obviously, I mean the issue), please? Am I the only one who doesn't understand the desire for the purely physical form?
I don't know what turns me on, really. I either feel wiggly, or I don't. But I am learning, often through pictures posted on my friends' walls, and things they say about physical bodies, that just merely looking at a body, or eyes, turns them on. But I find I am sort of intimidated by the graphic sexual pictures, and I can't look at them for very long.
I tried to write a poem exploring the possibility of being turned on simply by a lad's body, but I couldn't really get myself into the mindset. The two people I've been vaguely intimate with didn't turn me on specifically by how they looked, because I think either my brain doesn't work like that, or I'm just wired differently. They turned me on because it was their body. If that makes any sense?
I see all over the forums and Facebook etc, that people are turned on by the physical image of random strangers. Why? Because they appreciate the physical attribute to the extent they want to have sex with the body? Or does it evoke memories or fantasies already entrenched in one's mind? Something different?
Can you shed any light on purely physical attraction for me (not attraction to ME, obviously, I mean the issue), please? Am I the only one who doesn't understand the desire for the purely physical form?
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by cprivate
Ok, maybe I just need to let some steam off.. Of course the resulting discussion opened other questions to... Lol. Another post at another time maybe
You might like this thread:
http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst19381_The-Rage-Cage.aspx
It's my Favouritest. Nobody can tell you to calm down (read the first post before adding your own). I find it very cathartic.
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Quote by Naughty_Magician
Well that's a lame attempt to mock me but I can't be bothered to reply in kind. Straight porn does have men in it too, its kinda hard not to notice them.
The guy in the pic above me doesn't seem to be really over weight and that's not a massive cock either.
Sadly, I thought you were being serious.
I am, however, now wondering why you seem so interested in big men and the size of their willies. I wonder what your answer to the original question is. I think I already know.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Naughty_Magician
A few in porn.
I didn't know you were so varied in your porn tastes. Wow! That's awesome! Good lad, I didn't realise you liked big men.
But I have to say, there are a lot more men than just the lads you like to watch in your films, and I'd say that bigger men are like slimmer men - they're all different. It might be cos their tummies are bigger, and it makes their willies look smaller. But a big willy feels like a big willy inside a pussy, I'm sure, no matter how big the guy it's attached to is.
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Quote by doctorlove
That he has a big thick cock. He might be a co-worker or someone you see often. Would you sleep with him, not being attracted but because of his cock size?
You say nothing of the kind of person he is. Based on looks, I wouldn't sleep with anybody. If I fancied him as a person, yes I would, no matter what the size of any part of him.
Gingerbread Lover
On the bog at work. The words were going round my head and I couldn't get rid of them until I wrote them down. There was no place to sit except there, and they wouldn't disturb me for a few minutes. I call it "Poetry Tinkling".
Oh, and the Shrubs aisle at a garden centre. When you gotta write, you gotta write!
Oh, and the Shrubs aisle at a garden centre. When you gotta write, you gotta write!
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Quote by clum
I'm a little confused by the article. Is it saying that those with mental health problems are more likely to have creative talents, or that creative people are more prone to mental illness?
I can't decide which of the two I would find to be more believable. Being only a moderately creative person with no documented history of mental illness, either of the contrapositives could hold true for me.
Hmm...
I think it's just saying that according to their research, they have noticed that many of those polled suffer from it in some form or another.
It doesn't mean people should worry or expect the worst, or wonder about because they don't fit in a scientist's box. It's just interesting observations, as far as I'm concerned.