Quote by Noraj69

Thanks Daisy, but I'm using my IPhone for 90% of my surfing. And I have no idea if they get cookies stored on them or not.
I acctully think the issue is that I'm not on the lush publishing list, as opposed to a bug, the more I look at it.

Ah, I have a Shiny, and I wondered about cookies too. I wasn't on the Lush publishing list when I tried and was able to post, so I don't think it's that. Hmmmm... I wonder why, now. I'm all out of plausible explanations, few that they were!

Quote by MoonlightSerenity
Can we please have it so that people are not allowed to post in the Lifestyle forum looking for a Dom/me or sub as we already have lots of posts like that is most of what we see in it.

I see your issue, but I doubt denying certain posts of such a nature will be a plausible option. For a start, what if the title "Looking For A Dom/me" were actually a compilation of quotes from other users on why simply placing an ignorant (in the true sense of the word) ad were denied? Such a thread would need to be stickied or at the very least, have the link to it posted into every new thread.

Do you see where I'm going with this?

I often just copy and paste the quote I put in other repeat threads that include links to similar threads for the original poster so that they may read at their own leisure.

Unless a person is an obvious troll, or the way they posted appears particularly rude, I try to see each poster as if they were one of my friends dipping into a strange new world, and respond accordingly.

I would suggest being pro-active, and coming up with a resource like the BDSM 101 for this issue. I reckon you'd be pretty good at doing it, too.

Quote by Noraj69
Hi Gav, it was a forum post. Nora

I've had that before. I cleared my cookies (not a euphemism), logged out and in, and that sorted it for me.

Gav, I would suggest you copy and paste "Latexìa" like I just did, but I'm afeared you'll take my badge away . Oh, and I noticed that about story comments, but one got deleted because it was naughty, so I thought that was why.

Ladies, I found the best way to get a badge is to moan, nag and send dirty pictures (mud, etc) on a thrice-daily basis, and the poor lad gets so fed up of it that he does what you want just to shut you up. Or, me, anyway.

Quote by gav
I actually forgot, but I did fix this 8-|

Quote by Shylass


That's okay, I hate how all my million badges make me look like I have no life and spend it all here anyway.

And I suppose that the fact that when I go to reply to a friend request is always coming up with a blank username field (meaning I have to type it in manually, even though I've forgotten it already), means I still don't get one, does it?

Gav, all I ever wanted was for you to give me one.. *sigh*

You done fixed it!!! =d> Thank yoooooou!

Quote by sprite


thanks for putting a judgement call on it. as far as i'm concerned, any guy who expects a tight pussy is a douchebag. see how it works?

Douchebags do work? That's not what they say on the Jerry Springer Show...


I think that to label somebody for their preference is probably just as bad as labelling them for not having one or making judgement calls on the characters of those who express their beliefs. And sure, I think we're all guilty of it.

Imagine a lass with a vagina the size of a bucket - I can see why she'd want a lad who's a bit bigger than average. Does it really make her a slut? Maybe. But maybe she has a hole that gapes, just as some lads have a willy that would fit happily into the finger of a small glove.

But there's other fun things to do and add. If anything, I might find my preference is for a lad who's smaller, maybe. The pictures I've seen on profiles do nothing but strike fear into my pussy, no matter what the size. But does that make me a prude, just as a lass wanting a 12" monster cock would be a slut? Maybe. But it would be wrong to presume so, and rude to suggest it it.

Oh, it's exhausting trying to see things from other peoples points of view. Does anybody have a stiff one they wouldn't mind sharing with me? A drink! A stiff drink!

Quote by Nikki703


Why would you get slammed for giving your honest opinion? Everyone is different. I know a woman who really will not be with a guy if he is small. And it isnt vanity thing, she just cant get excited with a small one. Is it physical or psychological, not sure. But she prefers what she prefers. I like them average to a bit over and a 4.8 skinny one wouldnt cut it for me but if I loved him Id find a way to make it work.

And dont ever feel you have to appologize because you havent had sex. You still can have your opinion based on what you do know and how you feel.

Quote by Big_wrench
Evidently, you've gotten over the extreme embarassment of the moment & can see the funny side as you've so excelently proven. It's these kind of experiences later, after the fact, that are the cement in a relationship. Thanks for sharing!!

Quote by LadyX


So, big and small, you've qualitatively noticed no difference in terms of how it feels when you have sex?

Quote by Fastrunner325
I know this has probably been asked before so don't jump all over me calling me a rookie or newbie. I couldn't find the thread on this one. I am curious to know if people are meeting on this site? I chatted with one person who did. Is this just a fantasy outlet for most of you? It seems like there are a lot of sexy like minded people on here but it's a scary world out there!

Please, only women respond. If I want to ask the guys, I will post in the "Ask Men" section.

Quote by marcosurbina

That's right. Get to know this woman coming from Comune di Santa Cesarea Terme

Quote by sprite


yeah, i do, actually. my wife has one. it's latex. she has a harness for it too. oh, and it's black and shiny!

That's that dream shattered, then.

Quote by crazydiamond
Oh jesus that was hilarious, I was laughing out loud and had tears streaming.

(and for the record girls don't fart....they puffle.)

Quote by karebare09
Size does matter. Anyone who says differently is lying. Having said that, some guys prefer large breasts, some prefer a handful and some prefer small breasts... Its the same thing... Some women think bigger is better. In reality, for most women, its about what you do with you got.. I dated a guy whos penis was smaller than my pinky finger... He was self conscious about. I didn't care one bit... what he couldn't do with his member, he did with his tongue or fingers.. Don't psych yourself out and stop worrying about.. Focus on becoming a good lover and learning how to take care of a woman with what you have.

I agree with most of your post, but you have no right to call me a liar just because I don't mind or have a preference what a lad's size is. It's part of him and he can't help it. He can only help what he does with it, and that's what I care about.

Hey, Sprite. Do you have an issue with people who haven't got a willy at all? Just... y'know... wondering...

Quote by naughtyflipgirl
Is it easier for Men or Women to get into another relationship right after a break up?!

Quote by WellMadeMale


No shit...wait til the crowd begins to really get a taste for Marcos' posts.

You folks have not seen anything, yet.

Quote by Mazza


I don't think it's anything to do with arrogance or confidence, to say of oneself, "I'm a MILF" means that you're saying (technically) that you would like to fuck yourself. Now, I know that we're a shower of wankers on Lush, but generally speaking, I think the term is incorrect and cougar, as CD suggested, is a more appropriate self-description (although technically that's not the same as MILF, is it??)

Do we need a new term that one can use?

How about...

damn, I can't think of anything...

Let's have some good acronyms, please...

I said with your correction!

And I don't want to eff you, sorry. Do you hate me now?

Quote by TheDevilsWeakness


Yeah and I'd like to thank my parents for being the bane of my existence and naming me Angel...

Quote by Mazza
Speaking of massive images, would it be possible to make blog post images and forum images conform to a set size?

I find it a bit annoying when I scroll through my friend list or a forum thread and there are HUGE pictures there?

There's already a 1mb limit. Did you mean physical size as in 6"x8" etc? Because if so, the coding size Gav told it might be different to the coding size you're expecting.

Quote by Bi_Becky
I'm afraid it is.
I know guys that are flacid with 6 to 8 inches.

Quote by malcolm83
I didn't used to bothered about my length as I thought average was 5-6 inches, so I was just on the edge of it! However, alot of the girls on here seem to think 6-7 inches is average, leaving me falling a little short. Are guys my size reasonably common from your experiences? I've worked hard on my technique, so only really concerned about first impressions!

I have very, very little (pun not intended) experience in this area (pun is intended), so I can't tell you how common your size is. But I can tell you that I would be delighted on such a discovery. The only other two I have first hand (arf arf) experience with frightened the life out of me and made me want to run away.

But when all is said and done, I don't mind what size a lad I'm with has - I like to think that we would enjoy playing with each other regardless of what shape or size our bits are. Sex is, in my opinion, more than physical. But what do I know? If I liked you enough to get our kit off together, I'd like you enough not to notice your size, only how you felt about it (or with it).

Quote by LauraLee_sugah


wait... wait.... i was planning to do that naked picture with the chocolate and pink sprinkles thing... do you think it would work??????

Only one way to find out...