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Shylass
Over 90 days ago
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Gingerbread Lover
WELL DONE, Magical_felix, Dancing_Doll and TXGirl!!! And well done everybody! WOOOOOOOO! It's great how so many people stepped up and wrote so much brilliant stuff. It's going to take me forever to get through them all. Long may it continue!
Will we be able to find all the competition entries in a list, please, like when it was still open? There's still a lot I haven't read and wanted to.
Will we be able to find all the competition entries in a list, please, like when it was still open? There's still a lot I haven't read and wanted to.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Graham_X
Also sleeping with someone (rather than "sleeping" with someone) takes practise, especially if you are used to sleeping on your own.
Also if Daisy forgot whether it was a real person or a life size Ginga teddy bear she was sleeping with there could be some interesting headlines in the newspapers
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by elitfromnorth
For the record; Have never done acid or any stronger narcotic drug than smoking a quarter of a joint of hashish, which was very mild. Have not been to high altitutudes(apart from planes) recently, and I've been to maximum 1500 meters above sea level.
You sure you actually dream them? I have had several moments where I think I know what's happening next, who's saying what and so forth. Personally, I think it's just the mind playing tricks on you(or they're altering things in the Matrix and we have a deja vu).
I read a study about deja vu and that feeling of knowing something before it happens. The people who did that study put it down to some kind of misfiring in the brain, like a momentarily crossed wire or something. I sometimes have "waking dreams" where I wander off somewhere mentally, and then sort of wake up to find I was daydreaming. Not just imagining, but really vivid type stuff. It's usually when I'm either stressed or wanting to be elsewhere.
I know that's not the case with my "predictive" dreams, as I've shared them with people before, and then it happened, and we were all,
Gingerbread Lover
Dear You,
What part of "I don't want to talk about it" don't you understand? Did you mis-hear the "don't" and thought I said "do"? Because I effing didn't. You might be my favourite one, but that still gives me no reason to want to discuss it with you. It's none of your business. It's bad enough I had to tell you anything at all, but I had no choice. And if I won't tell the other two when they question me indepth about it, why would I tell you? I don't care that you're nosy, and that you supposedly care, and that you tell me in detail what you've all had to have done, I don't want to tell you! It's none of your sodding business! And when I go all quiet and look at the floor trying not to cry, that's another way of telling you, I don't want to fucking talk about it!
And whilst we're at it, telling me all the horror stories you know and telling me that at least I don't have to deal with what my mum did does not help. I still have to do it. This is getting to be more fucking hassle than it's worth. And for what? At this point in time I can't see any benefits at all, not for me or anybody else. But I know that the trauma and past dredged up this far makes it not worth me jacking it in now - it will all have been for nothing and I can't bear to have it weighing on my mind.
But I'm still not going to fucking tell you the fucking sodding details, so shut the fuck up!
Yours Very Upsetterly,
Me.
And Dear Other You,
Fuck off! Fuck off Fuck off Fuck off!
I wish I could have charged you double just for the fucking ugly attitude.
Yours Fuckoffingly,
Me.
What part of "I don't want to talk about it" don't you understand? Did you mis-hear the "don't" and thought I said "do"? Because I effing didn't. You might be my favourite one, but that still gives me no reason to want to discuss it with you. It's none of your business. It's bad enough I had to tell you anything at all, but I had no choice. And if I won't tell the other two when they question me indepth about it, why would I tell you? I don't care that you're nosy, and that you supposedly care, and that you tell me in detail what you've all had to have done, I don't want to tell you! It's none of your sodding business! And when I go all quiet and look at the floor trying not to cry, that's another way of telling you, I don't want to fucking talk about it!
And whilst we're at it, telling me all the horror stories you know and telling me that at least I don't have to deal with what my mum did does not help. I still have to do it. This is getting to be more fucking hassle than it's worth. And for what? At this point in time I can't see any benefits at all, not for me or anybody else. But I know that the trauma and past dredged up this far makes it not worth me jacking it in now - it will all have been for nothing and I can't bear to have it weighing on my mind.
But I'm still not going to fucking tell you the fucking sodding details, so shut the fuck up!
Yours Very Upsetterly,
Me.
And Dear Other You,
Fuck off! Fuck off Fuck off Fuck off!
I wish I could have charged you double just for the fucking ugly attitude.
Yours Fuckoffingly,
Me.
Gingerbread Lover
Actually, I have some very bizarre dreams sometimes. There are many, many online dream dictionaries and books you can get in shops. Some interpretations are the same, others very conflicting. Some are just a bunch of crap. So even if you can't find out what it actually means, it can be very funny using the dictionaries to make your own interpretation up.
Sometimes, we just have weird dreams; there's not always an answer or reason for them. Other times, they stem from memories, subconcious inner workings, things we're dwelling on (whether we realise it or not), etc. Sometimes I dream of something, and then it actually happens. They're never nice things, so I always worry when I have those.
I like the nice wiggly dreams best. I'd like more of those.
Sometimes, we just have weird dreams; there's not always an answer or reason for them. Other times, they stem from memories, subconcious inner workings, things we're dwelling on (whether we realise it or not), etc. Sometimes I dream of something, and then it actually happens. They're never nice things, so I always worry when I have those.
I like the nice wiggly dreams best. I'd like more of those.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Jenni
We can't call Fred "Fred Guest" cos it would sound too much like "Fred West" the serial killer who buried loads of people in his garden and I think our Fred is a little more domesticated than that!
Anyway just giving this a bump cos it made me laugh first time around and I'm curious about more Fred sightings in Lushland!?
Yeah, that's what he wants you to think...
He's still around. He often appears just after I post an answer on a thread.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by HighDesert
I appreciate the responses so far. Most of the scenarios she likes are one's of her being dominated by an older man, with her playing the 18-21 yo. Unfortunately does not watch porn, but it's interesting hearing that women might not be into fantasizing quite like guys do because the only porn she ever will watch is very specific. Needs to have a plot. Needs to have two men and one woman. Needs to have DP... We acted on that once but not since then, mostly because of her reluctance to peruse on the internet (which I totally get, I really do, and I don't push her on it at all). Trying to fulfill that fantasy can be exceptionally awkward and difficult. Maybe it will happen again. Maybe not.
But back to roleplaying. I think I was not quite specific enough. She likes roleplaying, or at least so it seems, plenty, but she just does not have the ideas for scenarios. Luckily for me, mine have sufficed for the last 12 years. That being said, I worry that my imagination alone is not enough to kee us both interested for the rest of our days. I only look to guidance here for the possible muse that I might need to create scenarios that are specifically arousing to women in general, and therefore, hopefully, my wife as well.
I know, everyone's different, and there are women out there that like to be choked and spit on til orgasm, just as there are men out there that need a cheese grader or a stilleto to the balls to cum. And there are men and women out there that will be FULLY sexually satisfied for their whole lives having sex with only one person in the same position, with little foreplay. I only hope that's not my wife and she simply does this kinda crap to satisfy me....
Ah, you're onto a winner with the things you know she does like! Does she like to read? Stories on Lush or books she likes could help her or you with new ideas. But there's nothing to say you can't keep trying the same fantasies and maybe developing them, or just enjoying them for what they are until you fancy a change.
Maybe certain films that aren't specifically porn could help. I'm not at all comfortable watching it, but I find reading it a bit easier. Why not look at the audio section of Lush and settle down to listen to something together?
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by TreeSuh
Do you think You could let your partner have a "hall pass" And have your relationship/marriage Work?
Do you mean the permission to go and have sex with somebody else? Like an open marriage?
If so, and both parties are happy for that to happen, I can't see why not, depending on the people. But communication will be vital, as resentments, jealousy and frustration could become very big issues, very quickly.
I couldn't, but I know others who can and do.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by 1nympholes
I can not put a fantasy in in Forum, but I see lots of in stories. Why the double standard?
The site guidelines are very clear, and we (many of us) post them in the forums often enough. It is not up for discussion. If you have a problem with that, please contact Admin via this link: http://www.lushstories.com/contact-us.aspx
Quote by nicola
There seems to be a lot of confusion amongst our members on this subject, so I am writing the following to make our position clear.
We allow stories on lush - they are story fantasies, whose characters are consenting adults.
It is a deeply subject, and the stories are a fantasy, nothing more. We do not allow recollections of REAL incestuous activities.
Discussing in the Forums, Chat Rooms, Profiles, Comment areas etc is not allowed on lushstories.com.
You can read the reasons for that here:
http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst21574_Incest--our-Official-stance-on-the-subject.aspx
Gingerbread Lover
Sorry, sisters, I didn't meant to put words in your mouth. 
I think that as a reader, no matter how well-read a person is, there can be likes and dislikes of styles. For instance, there is a particular style that is now very widely used, and I absolutely abhor it. I find it lazy and uneducated. However, more and more writers are using it, and people are loving it. I bought a book once, and that style drove me to distraction so much that I gave up after three pages and took it straight to a charity shop. And I've read a fair few books in my time.
There was a very popular author on here not too long ago, who used that same style, and on a recommendation, I began to read. I could see the quality of it, but I gave up. It's no fun when you have to adjust the way they wrote something to make it grammatically correct in your own persnicketty head. The author did send me a corrected version, which I have on file, and will read when the right moment for me comes.
As both writer and author, we all feel differently about other people's work and styles. Sometimes I read something that I wouldn't have written in the same way, for a few reasons, but as a reader, I can see how it works and what they were intending to do.
But that's why comments likes sisters' are so important to me. I often forget that people might actually read my stuff when it gets posted on here, so I tend to just write whatever comes out without really taking anything else into account. I think that's why comments are so invaluable, because as writers, generally, whilst a piece of work is our own, and we should be able to be proud of it, I also think if we risk alienating people because of our style, it is important to understand how and why, and then decide if we want to change anything.
I will leave Part I as it is, but I will definitely bear it in mind in Part II.
I do welcome honest, constructive criticism (after I have my self-indulgent cry), because it is to be hoped that I will become a better writer because of it, or at least understand and be aware why some are for or against a certain style I may choose to use.
I think that as a reader, no matter how well-read a person is, there can be likes and dislikes of styles. For instance, there is a particular style that is now very widely used, and I absolutely abhor it. I find it lazy and uneducated. However, more and more writers are using it, and people are loving it. I bought a book once, and that style drove me to distraction so much that I gave up after three pages and took it straight to a charity shop. And I've read a fair few books in my time.
There was a very popular author on here not too long ago, who used that same style, and on a recommendation, I began to read. I could see the quality of it, but I gave up. It's no fun when you have to adjust the way they wrote something to make it grammatically correct in your own persnicketty head. The author did send me a corrected version, which I have on file, and will read when the right moment for me comes.
As both writer and author, we all feel differently about other people's work and styles. Sometimes I read something that I wouldn't have written in the same way, for a few reasons, but as a reader, I can see how it works and what they were intending to do.
But that's why comments likes sisters' are so important to me. I often forget that people might actually read my stuff when it gets posted on here, so I tend to just write whatever comes out without really taking anything else into account. I think that's why comments are so invaluable, because as writers, generally, whilst a piece of work is our own, and we should be able to be proud of it, I also think if we risk alienating people because of our style, it is important to understand how and why, and then decide if we want to change anything.
I will leave Part I as it is, but I will definitely bear it in mind in Part II.
I do welcome honest, constructive criticism (after I have my self-indulgent cry), because it is to be hoped that I will become a better writer because of it, or at least understand and be aware why some are for or against a certain style I may choose to use.
Gingerbread Lover
Just a reminder, the category/fantasies/discussion is not allowed to be discussed in the forums.
HighDesert, not all women have fantasies. Yes, the majority of women do, and as 1ball says, reading some of the stories will help.
Perhaps your lass is very, very shy, or too embarassed to share what she like. Maybe she doesn't know what she likes. Maybe she only wants to make you happy, and sharing your fantasies is what she wants. Perhaps she isn't comfortable doing it, and would rather just have fun as you are in real life.
Why not actually say what you concern is to her, that you are worried you aren't meeting her needs, or fulfilling her fantasy? Or have you considered that she's telling the truth, and she does like what you;re coming up with? (arf arf)
Maybe you could let her read some of the stories on here, and see if she likes them? And then offer to act out one with her? Or you could watch some porn together and see if she likes that?
Perhaps you could get her to write some key words that make her feel wiggly? And then see if you can create a scenario based around that?
I don't know very much about lads' sexual fantasies, but I do think the only difference between men and women's fantasies, generally, is the sex of the person creating it. People are widely varied in their tastes (in more ways than one, ha ha), and what works for one might not for another, no matter if they are the same sex or not.
I think it's wonderful you are worried about whether she is getting what she needs, but I do think that if she isn't forthcoming with any details, then trying to understand why that is, rather than just trying to coax some out of her or blindly trying to find them, may not be the way forward.
My own fantasy is very simple. Guy fancies me, wants to be with me, does rudies with me. It's that simple. Other friends I have on here have much more intricate fantasies, which no doubt they will be happy to share with you, if they haven't already through their stories.
HighDesert, not all women have fantasies. Yes, the majority of women do, and as 1ball says, reading some of the stories will help.
Perhaps your lass is very, very shy, or too embarassed to share what she like. Maybe she doesn't know what she likes. Maybe she only wants to make you happy, and sharing your fantasies is what she wants. Perhaps she isn't comfortable doing it, and would rather just have fun as you are in real life.
Why not actually say what you concern is to her, that you are worried you aren't meeting her needs, or fulfilling her fantasy? Or have you considered that she's telling the truth, and she does like what you;re coming up with? (arf arf)
Maybe you could let her read some of the stories on here, and see if she likes them? And then offer to act out one with her? Or you could watch some porn together and see if she likes that?
Perhaps you could get her to write some key words that make her feel wiggly? And then see if you can create a scenario based around that?
I don't know very much about lads' sexual fantasies, but I do think the only difference between men and women's fantasies, generally, is the sex of the person creating it. People are widely varied in their tastes (in more ways than one, ha ha), and what works for one might not for another, no matter if they are the same sex or not.
I think it's wonderful you are worried about whether she is getting what she needs, but I do think that if she isn't forthcoming with any details, then trying to understand why that is, rather than just trying to coax some out of her or blindly trying to find them, may not be the way forward.
My own fantasy is very simple. Guy fancies me, wants to be with me, does rudies with me. It's that simple. Other friends I have on here have much more intricate fantasies, which no doubt they will be happy to share with you, if they haven't already through their stories.
Gingerbread Lover
I have recently written a story where my characters speak like me and my friends. I set the scene in my Home city, and when I write, I submerge myself into the world as best I can. The original intention with this story was to record the audio straight after, to go hand in hand with it. Sadly (in my own head), that has not been managed yet.
I wanted to make the story as realistic as possible, and for me, that includes how my characters speak. I wanted my story to be "home". But in writing, it comes across very differently. According to a person (who I think is fabulous), the written accents within my story made them lose the writing. In essence, it ruined it. Another friend has also just admitted they had to go back and read some of the sentences again.
I do wonder if the audio might have changed their mind, but when all is said and done, a written story is a written story. It become something very different when we change the style of delivery. This is the second story I have written in accented form (if that's the technical words for it?), but there was more narration in the other, so it wasn't as pronounced.
Personally, I love to read dialogue in other accents. A good writer gets me reading in the characters' accents as I go along, so I actually hear the Southern drawl in "Roots" in my head, etc.
I always think, though, to be serious, a writer cannot improve if they don't know anything is wrong.
So I would like to know, do you find accents, dialects and colloquialisms within stories a hindrance? Does it help if you actually know the accent to be able to read "in" it? Or do you not like it at all?
And should I go back and re-edit my story to read like "normal" writing? (But if I do that, I'm putting a disclaimer to say people aren't allowed to read the main characters with posh Southern accents in their head, because it's Wrong.) I'd hate to have to "butcher" something I hold dear (silly as an accent might seem to you!), but if it will make me a better writer, I will do it.
Thank you for any helpful replies you can give me.
I wanted to make the story as realistic as possible, and for me, that includes how my characters speak. I wanted my story to be "home". But in writing, it comes across very differently. According to a person (who I think is fabulous), the written accents within my story made them lose the writing. In essence, it ruined it. Another friend has also just admitted they had to go back and read some of the sentences again.
I do wonder if the audio might have changed their mind, but when all is said and done, a written story is a written story. It become something very different when we change the style of delivery. This is the second story I have written in accented form (if that's the technical words for it?), but there was more narration in the other, so it wasn't as pronounced.
Personally, I love to read dialogue in other accents. A good writer gets me reading in the characters' accents as I go along, so I actually hear the Southern drawl in "Roots" in my head, etc.
I always think, though, to be serious, a writer cannot improve if they don't know anything is wrong.
So I would like to know, do you find accents, dialects and colloquialisms within stories a hindrance? Does it help if you actually know the accent to be able to read "in" it? Or do you not like it at all?
And should I go back and re-edit my story to read like "normal" writing? (But if I do that, I'm putting a disclaimer to say people aren't allowed to read the main characters with posh Southern accents in their head, because it's Wrong.) I'd hate to have to "butcher" something I hold dear (silly as an accent might seem to you!), but if it will make me a better writer, I will do it.
Thank you for any helpful replies you can give me.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by FANTASYGIRL
Ohhhh ok so you swallow for him to love you more?!? I never been desperate! And it pleases him so what pleasure will I get what is he doing pleasure me?
I think what some people may be saying is that they love to swallow because they know how much their partner loves to see it. The fact that they can please him so much is not to make the lad "love them more", but simply to enhance the feelings they already have.
A lass (or lad) who will swallow a shot of testicular mucus is hot because it's such an intimate thing, I think. And for them to love doing it because they enjoy it, rather than just wanting to please, is hotter than ever! It is natural among most humans to want to please and excite the ones they love, I believe, and this is one way to do it.
For somebody to be thinking, "I will do this if you do this..." is quite often a very selfish way of thinking, to my mind. To do something because you want to please your partner is wonderful. To know they will do their best to please you too is even better. But personally, if my partner was thinking "Oh woo, I just got you off simply so you'll get me off", then I'm better off without them. I'd like them to want to get me off because they enjoy making me happy, just as I enjoy making them happy. But if they didn't, for whatever reason, that's okay too, as long as it wasn't all the time.
There's no harm in thinking about what he might do to reciprocate, and that can be extremely pant-wetting. But if the only reason one swallows cum is to get something in return, then that's a bit more of a one-sided relationship than I'd be happy with. And actually, getting to swallow the cum is the biggest reciprocation some lasses could ask for. It doesn't make them desperate, necessarily. It makes them sexy.
Just my opinion. We're all different.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Bermuda4t
Not a trick question? They do exist and one it has two ends. One end is inserted into the pussy and then the cock end is used on her friend.
Ah, you mean a double-ended dildo? I don't much about those either (although I wrote a story about a glass one). There is at least one lady on Lush who has one, and she knows her stuff. With that in mind, I would say yes, they work very well.
But to be honest, any penis-shaped toy that can be fitted inside a vagina is going to pretty popular, and all the more so if two girls can share one and enjoy trying to get their pussies to kiss mid-shaft.
But like I say, I don't know much, but I'm sure others will be along at some point to give you more details?
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Bermuda4t
Do strapless strapons work?
I'm not entirely sure if this is a trick question. Not knowing anything about strap-ons, I'd be inclined to say that strapless strap-ons are a bit useless (on account of not being able to strap them on), but if one were able to find a compromise (say, ducktape), then I'm sure they'd work perfectly well.
Gingerbread Lover
Ta, Catnip. That's the method of what I meant.
Aye. That's exactly the reason I meant it. Sometimes, the way we write things on the internet may be meant neutrally, but it doesn't always come across that way.
Glad we sorted that out.
Quote by cocokisses
I think the reason for Shy's suggestion is because the manner in which the room was labeled. It is not that she thought that one shouldn't be allowed to place restrictions and rules on the room. I happened to have seen the wording and it was harshly worded and lacked some, well I won't go there. People should watch how they say things.
Aye. That's exactly the reason I meant it. Sometimes, the way we write things on the internet may be meant neutrally, but it doesn't always come across that way.
Glad we sorted that out.