Quote by FANTASYGIRLI fuckin hate it & wonder where it came from
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Daisy... must... not... make... flippant.. reply...
Daisy... must... not... make... flippant.. reply...
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Shylass
Over 90 days ago
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Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Southern_Sass
There are a few regular people that make open rooms that have a list of to do's and don'ts, warning of being kicked and how is allowed in and who is not. How was this room any different?
It was different because I didn't see the others, and I thought this one just sounded agressive in its wording. So I thought an answer mught be to have to ability to have Friends List Access Only facility. It was just a suggestion.
Gingerbread Lover
It's normal for me, lad. 
If you know how to do a thing well, why not? I average at achieving it between 30-40 seconds, but have done it in about 20 before (yes, I timed it, I was bored). I even wrote a little story explaining how to do it for other peopleto try it out. 
If you know how to do a thing well, why not? I average at achieving it between 30-40 seconds, but have done it in about 20 before (yes, I timed it, I was bored). I even wrote a little story explaining how to do it for other peopleto try it out. 
Gingerbread Lover
I think it's fine to have one's own rules about what is and isn't acceptable, but something like that could be worded a bit less hostile! So perhaps that facility might help? And the password could be posted on a person's blog, as long as they set that private. Then their mates could see it.
As for that room, Mazzy... what happens in Nasty, stays in Nasty. Right? ...Right?
As for that room, Mazzy... what happens in Nasty, stays in Nasty. Right? ...Right?
Gingerbread Lover
Is it possible to create a Friends List Access-Only chat room, please?
I just saw this:
"This is a room for my friends to gather and have a good time. It is my room and if you are not on my friends list dont come in. I will kick you out. NO DRAMA ALLOWED. Pictures may be posted with MY or some one with a hammers permission. If you post with out permission you are gone."
I just thought perhaps it would look a bit more friendly for people visiting the chat rooms area if people who only want their friends list people in could choose that option instead of appearing a bit pre-menstrual about it?
Sorry if this should go in the other forum.
I just saw this:
"This is a room for my friends to gather and have a good time. It is my room and if you are not on my friends list dont come in. I will kick you out. NO DRAMA ALLOWED. Pictures may be posted with MY or some one with a hammers permission. If you post with out permission you are gone."
I just thought perhaps it would look a bit more friendly for people visiting the chat rooms area if people who only want their friends list people in could choose that option instead of appearing a bit pre-menstrual about it?
Sorry if this should go in the other forum.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by sisters
I've just read the story "There's More than One Way to Skin an Angel" which shows on the home page as being submitted on the 02 August 2012 and yet on the story page itself it shows the added date of 21 October 2011.
Maybe Lush has predictive posting...
Am sucking on my second doughnut, by the way.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by blackpoolguy
ok i am new here and thought the site was about the storys and maybe making a few friends ? not revenge pics of ex bf or gf there are lots of other sites for that
Lush is many different things to many of us. There is a whole mix of cultures, societies, reasons and preferences as to why any of us are here. It is inevitable that there will be angry or broken people, as well as those who just want a giggle, to share writing, pictures, and there's a few trolls who pop up now and again too (makes life exciting). There are also vast amounts of smart, witty, funny, beautiful people that I love to bits, and others, not so much.
Lush is what we make it. There must be little reminders here and there for some who have differing standards, expectations and opinions (and more importantly, ways of expressing them) to those of not only the site owner, but the Lush community at large, and those reminders are there for good reason.
Welcome to Luscious Lush, and I hope you love it as much as I do!
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by CenterLine
That is useful advice, so thanks.
That said, let me revise my question a little. First, I have asked her, and she wasn't able to give me an answer because she's not a hundred percent sure, or probably even fifty percent. The best we've come up with is that I need to do something different when she starts to cum. I realize that there is not a single answer to this question, and that many answers will be valid and many will be invalid from woman to woman, but if anybody has some more specific advice of things we can try, that would be great.
Thanks a bunch to everybody who's responded so far, though.
I think a lot will depend on what it is that gets her there, maybe? I know what works for me, and I stick to that. Perhaps if you just stop and hold a finger either side of her clitoris as she cums, and then continue with gentle rubbing movements still either side after the spasms subside? Dear god, I know what I mean but I don't know how to explain it.
Perhaps stop the intense pressure, but just hold bits of her until she's okay for you to carry on? It may be she's just too sensitive during or directly afterward her orgasm, and less stimulation is needed until her system brings her back to earth. And then... go again! Go again!
Really, I think you're both going to have to experiment. Learn from her how she likes to masturbate, watch her if she'll let you, or have your hands over hers whilst she does. Then when you have a good idea, you could use your mouth to work on (pun unintended) what you already know?
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Mazza
Ha ha, pretty much... Although, I'd substitute 'spank' for pound...
(I think that's a totally different ball game) ;)
Exactly.
Let the raging continue!
YOU FUCKING STUPID WOMAN! Why should I have to put up a sign saying "I AM RECORDING A SEX STORY FOR LUSH, SO DO NOT RING THE DOORBELL!"? There is no justification for your fucking company to send annoying people like you to cold call and ask shitty questions so they can then sell our information to other annoying companies who then send us shitty agents and junk mail. Did I seem a bit annoyed to you? I was on my 12th take of that fucking story and doing well with it! I was over half way through, you fucking smug bitch! FUCK OFF!
Gingerbread Lover
Introduce the title of your story: The Terrible Virgin (Part I)
Genre/Category: BDSM
Provide the link: http://www.lushstories.com/stories/bdsm/the-terrible-virgin-part-i.aspx
1. What first inspired you to write this particular story?
People keep saying that I can't be what I know I am, and in conversation with a mate about it, he called me a "terrible virgin". People don't seem to understand that a writer can write of things they know nothing about. We hear other people's experiences as well as our own, and those people who have any capacity for empathy can attempt to put themselves into somebody else's shoes (or bed), and then describe what they find there. That's all I've ever tried to do on Lush - find a different space to those I am used to, and explore it. This seemed like an ideal opportunity to do that. Another friend said "The Terrible Virgin" would be a good title for a story, and since I already had the seedling in mind, I decided to try it out and see where I got.
2. How did you come up with these characters?
The central character is somebody who has all the appearance of pretty innocence, but when you examine what lurks beneath, she's really got a manipulative ugliness. What we see is never the whole story, and I have attempted to create somebody who embodies both the perceived "purity" of virginity into the actuality of underlying dirt. I hope I am nothing like her, but she's fun to think about being like her for a little while. The other central character, Orion, who will be focussed on more in Part II, embodies the challenge to Maggie's selfish manipulation. The character who provided the setting for their story is one of those people who sees a great deal, knows a great deal, and cares a great deal - his wisdom is seldom seen, but it's there if one chooses to look for it. He is the kind of person I wish I could be.
3. How does it differ from some of your other stories?
I think that in general, my characters are often, although not always, people who are working with each other for a relationship, or seeking some sort of intimately shared connection. Maggie is not like that, it's all about her feeling the power and getting things the way she wants them. And getting off on it. I do not like people like Maggie, but I believe in the Redemption Factor, and I hope that in some way, as I write Part II, there will be hope for Maggie after all.
4. What was the most challenging thing about writing this piece?
I'm both fascinated and scared by BDSM. I wish I could understand it better. Whilst "The Terrible Virgin" (both parts) is set in the BDSM category, I know it's not what people normally expect from that section. This is my tentative attempt to try to get behind the thinking of power and control within sex, to understand it better. I hope that Orion will be able to bring some balance to Maggie's manipulating. I am very aware that I know so little about BDSM, and about sexual relationships from a personal point of view, but if I don't explore it in a way that I am able (writing about it), then I feel I shall never get closer to understanding it than I am now.
5. Anything else you want to tell us about it?
Stepping outside of my comfort zone is something Lush is constantly calling me to do, and I am trying my best. Even adding to this thread is something that I am not comfortable with. But I'm trying to broaden both my experience and my confidence. Recently, I was given a present from some beautiful people, and I can now record in HD. I had begun recording my stories and poems, as performance used to feature very heavily in my past. I am now learning to combine both performance and my own writing (which I used to do with puppets!), with subjects and stories that are outside my comfort zone, in the hope that I can be a better writer. Realistic stories that people can identify with are what I strive to write. I fear "The Terrible Virgin (Part II)" is going to stretch me far beyond that comfort zone, but I won't know until I write it. I needed to write Part I as a way to help me put myself into Maggie's world, and to find some sort of comfortable place from which to create the action. I'm worried people cannot see the world and characters that I can see in my head, and if I can't lay it out for them, then I hope people are happy to bear with me as I take these tentative steps in trying to explore the very edges of a scene that, quite frankly, terrifies me. And if it sucks (in the bad way), then I shall know that I am quite right to only observe from a great distance!
Genre/Category: BDSM
Provide the link: http://www.lushstories.com/stories/bdsm/the-terrible-virgin-part-i.aspx
1. What first inspired you to write this particular story?
People keep saying that I can't be what I know I am, and in conversation with a mate about it, he called me a "terrible virgin". People don't seem to understand that a writer can write of things they know nothing about. We hear other people's experiences as well as our own, and those people who have any capacity for empathy can attempt to put themselves into somebody else's shoes (or bed), and then describe what they find there. That's all I've ever tried to do on Lush - find a different space to those I am used to, and explore it. This seemed like an ideal opportunity to do that. Another friend said "The Terrible Virgin" would be a good title for a story, and since I already had the seedling in mind, I decided to try it out and see where I got.
2. How did you come up with these characters?
The central character is somebody who has all the appearance of pretty innocence, but when you examine what lurks beneath, she's really got a manipulative ugliness. What we see is never the whole story, and I have attempted to create somebody who embodies both the perceived "purity" of virginity into the actuality of underlying dirt. I hope I am nothing like her, but she's fun to think about being like her for a little while. The other central character, Orion, who will be focussed on more in Part II, embodies the challenge to Maggie's selfish manipulation. The character who provided the setting for their story is one of those people who sees a great deal, knows a great deal, and cares a great deal - his wisdom is seldom seen, but it's there if one chooses to look for it. He is the kind of person I wish I could be.
3. How does it differ from some of your other stories?
I think that in general, my characters are often, although not always, people who are working with each other for a relationship, or seeking some sort of intimately shared connection. Maggie is not like that, it's all about her feeling the power and getting things the way she wants them. And getting off on it. I do not like people like Maggie, but I believe in the Redemption Factor, and I hope that in some way, as I write Part II, there will be hope for Maggie after all.
4. What was the most challenging thing about writing this piece?
I'm both fascinated and scared by BDSM. I wish I could understand it better. Whilst "The Terrible Virgin" (both parts) is set in the BDSM category, I know it's not what people normally expect from that section. This is my tentative attempt to try to get behind the thinking of power and control within sex, to understand it better. I hope that Orion will be able to bring some balance to Maggie's manipulating. I am very aware that I know so little about BDSM, and about sexual relationships from a personal point of view, but if I don't explore it in a way that I am able (writing about it), then I feel I shall never get closer to understanding it than I am now.
5. Anything else you want to tell us about it?
Stepping outside of my comfort zone is something Lush is constantly calling me to do, and I am trying my best. Even adding to this thread is something that I am not comfortable with. But I'm trying to broaden both my experience and my confidence. Recently, I was given a present from some beautiful people, and I can now record in HD. I had begun recording my stories and poems, as performance used to feature very heavily in my past. I am now learning to combine both performance and my own writing (which I used to do with puppets!), with subjects and stories that are outside my comfort zone, in the hope that I can be a better writer. Realistic stories that people can identify with are what I strive to write. I fear "The Terrible Virgin (Part II)" is going to stretch me far beyond that comfort zone, but I won't know until I write it. I needed to write Part I as a way to help me put myself into Maggie's world, and to find some sort of comfortable place from which to create the action. I'm worried people cannot see the world and characters that I can see in my head, and if I can't lay it out for them, then I hope people are happy to bear with me as I take these tentative steps in trying to explore the very edges of a scene that, quite frankly, terrifies me. And if it sucks (in the bad way), then I shall know that I am quite right to only observe from a great distance!
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by sprite
i have no words for how i feel. i hate everything and everyone and nothing is ever going to be right in my world again and there's nothing i can do to help it and i am just so tired right now and i have no control over anything and i wish i could stop crying but i can't even do that.
I effing love you in an everso slightly effing GW. Effing
Effing doubleposted.
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by sprite
i have no words for how i feel. i hate everything and everyone and nothing is ever going to be right in my world again and there's nothing i can do to help it and i am just so tired right now and i have no control over anything and i wish i could stop crying but i can't even do that.
I effing love you in an everso slightly effing GW. Effing
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by eviotis
Why are these types of inquiries always in singular form?
Horns slowly protrude at the aspect of pluralism.
Sorry, who's horny?
Oh, that's right... ALL of us!
I don't know who I'd have it with. I try not to think of people in that way, because if I know them, or end up meeting them, I'd never be able to look them in the eye (any of them).
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Mazza
Ooooh, you could get special long tampons and actually paint with them inserted? You know, just swish your groin all around and stuff??
Shy, yes!! How about root vegetable didloes with shapes cut into the end for 'printing'???
Tell you what, who needs BenWa balls?? Huh???
The art of Veg Vag! Or... Vag Veg?
Do you know, I think there's mileage in this... Wanna be my agent?
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Magical_felix
But no, I took a bag to the dome instead.
Is that a euphemism?
Weed is illegal here, so I cannot condone it's use in any context, although I know the benefits for some people, and my mum would kill me (I suppose that would solve all my problems, though...). Maybe I'll go fishing with the lads - they usually have some funny ciggies with them...
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by Archadia
A passenger.....?
Ok all this gives me is a mental image of an apologectic girl trying to explain to the police how her taxi driver threw the car into a ditch..........
I honestly cant believe this question.........and what in the blue effing hell does ADD have to do with anything???
Who knows?
We're onto the next subject already! [IMG]http://i806.photobucket.com/albums/yy347/GrandadWigglesworth/WigglingGinga.gif[/IMG] 
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by adele
Is there anyway to get a list of all the entries? I did not realize the list would disappear and neglected to print out the final list. I was reading all of them and would like to finish.
If not, maybe everybody could post in a thread that they'd entered (arf arf)? Then again, it might get people who hadn't advertising anyway. Could be fun, though!
Anyway, I think they've read them all already, because the judges are intergalactic travellers who read at light speed, and are just doing that thingy like on Pop Idol and stuff where they draw it out as long as possible, and still wait until after the advert break to tell us who's going through to the next round.
Maybe they're doing research on witheld orgasms, but witholding the grand climax until we can bear it no longer. 
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by nicola
I get nightmares occasionally, but they usually delete their accounts before they become recurring.
Proper made me laugh, that one!Thank you very much for your replies, everybody. Thanks to those who PMd me (you know who you are). It's good to share, it seems I'm not so alone after all.
Gingerbread Lover
Some people will never change. But that is no excuse why they should not be challenged. Sometimes authority can challenge it where others cannot and/or will not. It isn't "sneaking" or getting people into trouble. It is pointing out harmful behaviour and trying to stop a cycle of pain. It is up to those who are bullying to change their behaviour, but unless challenged, why should they bother? Sometimes people don't realise they are bullying. Other times, they do, and should not be allowed to get away with it.
It doesn't need their names plastered over the forums if somebody is harrassing you in whatever way, a quiet report to a mod in person or through the Contact Us facility will ensure said parties are both watched and challenged for unreasonable behaviour. Lush is for FUN, and if people aren't having fun, then those issues need addressing. Just my opinion.
Clicky -->> CONTACT THE LUSH TEAM <<-- Clicky
It doesn't need their names plastered over the forums if somebody is harrassing you in whatever way, a quiet report to a mod in person or through the Contact Us facility will ensure said parties are both watched and challenged for unreasonable behaviour. Lush is for FUN, and if people aren't having fun, then those issues need addressing. Just my opinion.
Clicky -->> CONTACT THE LUSH TEAM <<-- Clicky
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by asleep
SHYLASS: You wrote:
By "come on to...", if that means a stranger going full-on "let's have sex a few minutes from now" type stuff, I'd HATE that. I like a lad who would be kind, tell me the crappest jokes he knows, and just have a giggle with me.
Come on now SHY...he's just...how's that expression again?...Oh yeah: "He's young, dumb and full of cum". Seriously though, LittleMissBitch started with some real advice. What she said is good...I'll lay out point #4 for you: slow down! SHYLASS is correct as usual in her answers.
He's allowed to be young, dumb and full of cum, but not all lasses like it showered on them minutes after meeting. A lad with self control is wayyyy sexy, I reckon. Like, he could be bad, but he won't.
I'm much more inclined to be comfortable and friendly to a lad who's willing to take time to get to know me, rather than getting to know if I'll let him cop a feel. In fact, chances are, I'll want him to cop a feel much quicker if I think he's not trying to get into my pants instantly, like he has more to offer me than just his porridge gun which I'd probably never get to see again if he just wants a shag and nowt else.Oh my god, I just typed "porridge gun" in a serious reply. It's nearly 6am and I haven't slept yet. I'm bowing out now!
Gingerbread Lover
Quote by DirtyMartini
Yeah, yeah, yeah...you keep telling everyone December...but you still haven't said what year...
You could be at least a bit more specific you know...
I think she meant last year, but she's behind schedule. Thankfully, Santa Claus is better organised!