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SummerLeigh
2 months ago
Straight Female
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Candyland Kitten
There is something to be said about revealing your "dirty secrets" to a person who loves that about you. Who makes you feel normal, protected, safe and loved. Lush allows you to be yourself without any filter. And when you meet someone that you enjoy without their real life filters, it can create an intimacy unlike anything most will ever have in our daily physical life. I don't like to call life outside of lush "real life" as life on Lush can be real as well.
People come here that are "in love" with their partners in their physical lives but say they cannot share Lush with them. It always makes me wonder what they are hiding from each other and what would happen if they just shared all their secrets. If there isn't truth in their relationship, is it truly a fully committed loving relationship? I'm not saying those couples don't love each other, but it seems a surface level love based more on tradition, convenience, obligation, affection, finances, etc. Those relationships don't seem like they are the Romeo and Juliet type of 'I'll die if I can't have you' kind of love.
Yes, love is rare. But after experiencing the depth of affection, lust, and love that I have with my love here, and comparing that to past "loves" that I've actually touched, there is no doubt in my mind who is my real life love.
Yes, you can get hurt here. But that can happen anywhere. Yes, there are liars here. But there are liars everywhere.
Yes, you can find love here. Love happens whenever two people connect at a soul level and put in the work to make it continue to grow. It takes incredible amounts of work, time, tears, heart and total commitment, but it can bring you a love like you never imagined could exist-not even in your best daydreams.
And that is truly rare anywhere.
People come here that are "in love" with their partners in their physical lives but say they cannot share Lush with them. It always makes me wonder what they are hiding from each other and what would happen if they just shared all their secrets. If there isn't truth in their relationship, is it truly a fully committed loving relationship? I'm not saying those couples don't love each other, but it seems a surface level love based more on tradition, convenience, obligation, affection, finances, etc. Those relationships don't seem like they are the Romeo and Juliet type of 'I'll die if I can't have you' kind of love.
Yes, love is rare. But after experiencing the depth of affection, lust, and love that I have with my love here, and comparing that to past "loves" that I've actually touched, there is no doubt in my mind who is my real life love.
Yes, you can get hurt here. But that can happen anywhere. Yes, there are liars here. But there are liars everywhere.
Yes, you can find love here. Love happens whenever two people connect at a soul level and put in the work to make it continue to grow. It takes incredible amounts of work, time, tears, heart and total commitment, but it can bring you a love like you never imagined could exist-not even in your best daydreams.
And that is truly rare anywhere.
Candyland Kitten
Like when you try to scratch your ankle and you end up scratching your penis. That must suck balls. Well, assuming someone can get at them. 
Candyland Kitten
When I was first married I would try to create multi-course meals and would cry when I would get distracted and forget something on the stove. Usually it seemed to be broccoli or green beans. Now when I get teary, hubby asks, "What happened? Did you burn the beans?"
Candyland Kitten
Please be sure to describe in detail the height, weight, cup size (or dick size), so that we cannot rely on our own imagination at all to supply the details. Remember, this is your fantasy. Your readers should just feel grateful you've made sure they understand exactly what your fantasy looks like.
And to be sure they keep up, do two things: 1) Use your characters name before or after every time they speak or perform any action whatsoever; 2) Use the phrase 'And then' at every possible opportunity, and especially after every sentence in a sex scene.
And to be sure they keep up, do two things: 1) Use your characters name before or after every time they speak or perform any action whatsoever; 2) Use the phrase 'And then' at every possible opportunity, and especially after every sentence in a sex scene.
Candyland Kitten
Congratulations Hannah! This seems a natural progression for your Lush experience. I am around the forums much less often than I would like to be, but it is clear even from my sparse visits that you are a natural, kind, encouraging, funny and honest contributor. As for your talent, that is unquestionable too as is your all-around awesomeness!
Candyland Kitten
What an amazing accomplishment for an amazing author! Congratulations!!
Candyland Kitten
I've always thought of Sasha as a girl. But I agree with Just A Guy, write what you like. Only a few readers will respond to the thread. Good luck!
Candyland Kitten
Why look at you go Miss Thing! What wonderful things you do here. Can't imagine what you do up on the moon and all. 
Congratulations!
Congratulations! 
Candyland Kitten
Hope you have a lovely birthday! Go out and do something fabulous!
Candyland Kitten
JULY BABY
Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people’s feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. spazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.
I'm not secretive except I do well at keeping others secrets. The rest seems pretty accurate.
Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily consoled. Honest. Concerned about people’s feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Moody and easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. spazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive and forms impressions carefully. Caring and loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people through observations. Hardworking. No difficulties in studying. Loves to be alone. Always broods about the past and the old friends. Waits for friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt but takes long to recover.
I'm not secretive except I do well at keeping others secrets. The rest seems pretty accurate.
Candyland Kitten
Congratulations to all who have been mentioned here today. I'm certainly not surprised by the top three. The winning entries were outstanding (special congrats Reggie, Liz and Rach)! But to be honest, I wasn't sure that anybody was a clear winner. I felt several other entries were absolutely amazing too. I read each one, and the more I read, the less confident I became about the quality of my own offering so I'm thrilled and surprised to have been given a mention.
Though I never met Alan, his influence is clearly felt through the rich abundance of poetic talent and through all those who keep his memory alive. I feel honored to be part of a site such as this, where yes there is erotic, filthy, fun, but there are also contributions and interactions that tug at the heart strings.
Though I never met Alan, his influence is clearly felt through the rich abundance of poetic talent and through all those who keep his memory alive. I feel honored to be part of a site such as this, where yes there is erotic, filthy, fun, but there are also contributions and interactions that tug at the heart strings.
Candyland Kitten
Sorry I'm late. Hopefully your day was as special as you. Happy Birthday!
Candyland Kitten
Happy Birthday to one of the nicest ladies around!! Hope you have a wonderful day!
Candyland Kitten
What a sophisticated poem! I loved the piece. Great job! Welcome to Lush!
Candyland Kitten
Downhill skiing (my favorite outdoor activity)
Latest foodie restaurant or Classic BBQ joint that's been popular for decades
Latest foodie restaurant or Classic BBQ joint that's been popular for decades
Candyland Kitten
I'd love to have a coffee with you John-it's been awhile. Please throw in the prerequisite doughnut too (glazed please). 
Candyland Kitten
I think that unless you have a true soul to soul connection with a Dom/sub, you can only have a very surface level understanding of what a couple experiences. BDSM is more than ropes and clamps and wax and spankings; those are only a few of the instruments used to bring the couple to a heightened state of awareness.
I cannot explain what a Dom feels, but as a sub, there is a profound feeling of freedom when experiencing a complete lack of ego. Feminists may feel this is degrading but males are subs too as are those within same-sex couples; gender is irrelevant. There is nothing degrading about someone taking you to a level of pleasure that you would be completely unable to find on your own.
I've had vanilla orgasms and orgasms from a scene-they are as completely different from each other as an apple is to a fish. The rush of chemicals when in a state of submission is akin to a drug high and can be intense to the point of oblivion (coincidentally the theme of my poem below). The connection deepens even "vanilla" interactions with each other, no ropes, handcuffs or floggers required.
That said, the lifestyle isn't for everyone. If it doesn't feel right, move on.
I cannot explain what a Dom feels, but as a sub, there is a profound feeling of freedom when experiencing a complete lack of ego. Feminists may feel this is degrading but males are subs too as are those within same-sex couples; gender is irrelevant. There is nothing degrading about someone taking you to a level of pleasure that you would be completely unable to find on your own.
I've had vanilla orgasms and orgasms from a scene-they are as completely different from each other as an apple is to a fish. The rush of chemicals when in a state of submission is akin to a drug high and can be intense to the point of oblivion (coincidentally the theme of my poem below). The connection deepens even "vanilla" interactions with each other, no ropes, handcuffs or floggers required.
That said, the lifestyle isn't for everyone. If it doesn't feel right, move on.