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SydneySider
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 54
Australia

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What if it happened in the reverse order?? You met a girl. Her mum was single, as was your dad. They met through you guys at some stage while you were dating and decided to marry shortly after. I dont see an issue either way. You're not related through blood. Its a little strange and awkward, but perfectly ok morally the way I look at it. Actually, its just too easy and convenient. I say continue seeing her, but keep it under wraps for a bit. You dont want to cause an issue with your parents and piss them off.
Its probably a double standard that guys would expect the girl to swallow, but wouldnt do it themselves. Personally, no. The closest I have come is kissing the missus after a blowjob, even though I didnt blow in her mouth. The anal thing, I tried it once, did nothing for me, but I wanted to see what the fuss was all about. If my wife wanted to finger me, Id let her, just the same as the girls on other topics have said they would do something for their partner even if it wasnt a turn on for them, and there would be a trade in there somewhere....
I love lesbians. Lets face it, I'm a lesbian. I love the same things they do. I would much rather watch a girl have her pussy licked (by a guy or girl) than a guy have his dick sucked, so with lesbians, its going to happen twice.
I did it once, but only after my ex asked me to do it. I wouldnt just do it while Im down there, I have no idea when she last backed one out.
I was about to ask a similar question about avatars. I know some are obviously not of the member, but some look pretty professional (being a photographer) and I always wonder if its the actual site member and not some random photo, while others are pretty obvious its them taken with webcams and phones. Annie, your avatar is just plain crewel....LOL
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Good phone sex really depends on a person's level of comfort with dirty-talk. If a person tends to be kind of "silent" during sex, then they will probably find phone sex a little more difficult to loosen up with.

You could try finding a story that you think is a turn on, or a sexual segment of a story that plays into a few of her kinks and do "bedtime story" reading on the phone. Sometimes it's easier to have a script to fall back on and then you can take pauses or talk about what part of the story made you hot... what you wish you could experience... how you imagine it... and go from there.

The phone sex I've had has always been really wild and raunchy and would probably drop a few jaws if they were listening in, but if the person isn't a natural dirty talker or used to writing erotica, then I'd definitely dial it down a few notches. The more you do it and once you get the right rhythm going, the more natural and intense it can be... it gets better the more you experiment with it, so if the first time is somewhat awkward, rest assured things will start to gel the more you try it. For a beginner or to set the right mood, I'd definitely go with a 'naughty-story' reading or maybe you can each pre-write a short little fantasy to read to each other... just to break the ice and get in the mood.


Thanks DD. I appreciate the input. I think you have hit the nail on the head about the comfort thing. Not with me, but the dirty talk thing. She usually has to be a little wasted before she starts telling me what she wants. Usually, I just watch her body language and gauge whats working and whats not other times. Like I said, I dont want to make her uncomfortable. She does have a few insecurity issues. All I'll do is push her away from what Id like. I like the story idea. She has a Kindle. Maybe I could find a short story and email it to her. Thanks again for the advice..a ladies perspective is always good on these kinds of things. Cheers..
My wife and I used to do it all the time before we met face to face. We have been married almost 12 years, but have never done it since we met the first time all those years ago (no need to). Now she is overseas and not due back for a couple months. She thinks that kind of thing these days is lame or just awkward. Im not one to pressure her or make her do anything she does not want to do sexually, but ladies, how do I go about getting her interested in it again for the time she is away from me?? She has a vibrator, and Im not sure she even uses it all that often anyway. I loved phone sex, and even sexting her, but is hard to get her engaged in it these days.
with flexibility like that, girls like that would be fun in the bedroom...or a cupboard...
This is harder than I though. The list, that is. I'll turn on the TV tomorrow or open a magazine and see I have left someone out. Anyway, here goes.

#1. Natalie Gruzlewski (most of you wont know her, just google some images). Just a stunning woman. Top of my list, hands down. Now in no particular order

Zooey Deschanel
Cheryl Cole
Jessica Biel (she blew my mind in Chuck and Larry, the scene after getting caught in the rain, sweet baby jesus)
Kate Beckinsale
Natalie Portman
Rachel Bilson
Scarlett Johansson
Beatriz Recari (LPGA Golfer)
Rachel McAdams (smoking in Wedding Crashers)
I know this is ask the gals, but I'll answer for my wife. We had been at her xmas party, so plenty of booze was consumed. Booked a hotel so we didnt have to drive home. Things got hot and heavy when we got back. I was doing the deed down there and she got so hot she asked me to lick her ass. I was so shocked I didnt know what to do. Naturally though, I kindly obliged. I had always thought about doing it, but it would have to be clean. She is a clean freak too, so obviously there was no issue that night. She loved it and I would gladly do it again. Think she was a little embarrassed the following morning.
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Jesus...an ass made for grabbin..oh to be a photographer at a women's sporting event..tough gig..
Ok, so just about everyone here doesnt mind. Thats it, Im looking at more boobs, but it will be a glance at the most, I promise.....Like Seinfeld says, you cant stare too long, its like looking at the sun, its too risky....actually, if you catch me checking you out (not a booby stare), I hate it, kinda puts you the girl in control. Its hard to do, but sometimes I like to flat out ignore a gorgeous girl if she is looking for attention. Thats a game I like to play. Besides, Im married, so whats the point in flirting. Its not going to lead to anything.
Doesn't the name "Miriam" ring a bell?? Maybe not everyone saw this show. Google it. The ending was the surprise.

Me, no thanks. Even if I did or didnt know the girl, Im touching that pussy in some way before anything else, so I would find out soon enough.
I know this is an "ask the girls", but how about Rose Byrne?? Bit skinny these days (thanks Hollywood), but just a stunning girl..and its the quite ones you have to watch
I have shaved and waxed my wife many times. The waxing was a little scary as it was painful the first time. She just has a beautician do it now. I love nothing more than getting some of that right after she has it done.
As many have said, as guys, we just love boobs, even if you are not primarily a boob man. Boob size does not make you more or less of a woman. Personally though, I like a handful. I like to be able to wrap my hand around the underside and be able to gently squeeze a boob. The nipple is also very important for me. I like a big nipple. One that that is big and round when soft but shrivels up a little when touched or sucked. I love my misses boobs, just a pity that they are not a really an erogenous area for her most of the time. High Beams, regardless of boob size are a big turn on for me, even just the hint of high beam.
Never had my ass played with. Id be up for a bit of licking if the wife was into it. While going down on the missus one night after a party (pretty drunk), she asked me to lick her ass while I was down there. Loved it. Then gave it another quick lick while in the doggy position. Its ok, but if she is into something like that, its a big turn on for me..
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This picture sums up my entire feelings on this subject!


+1, +2, and +3....
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well stockings yeah of course but love sheer underwear that glimpse of what lies beneath mmmmmmm


Could not have said it better myself
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CURVY!!! a woman needs to have the right curves in the right place...
really dont like the skinnny models...


those skinny stick models make me want to puke. I guess if I do I'll have something in common with them...
Although we dont watch it much together, when we do, I know Im going to get to do much more than just the quickie. I love going down on the misses, and when we watch it, she almost begs for it. Love it..
Definitely curvy. Its all about proportion. Even some thinner girls can be curvy, but definitely prefer the bigger side of thin. I dont even mind BBW. If she thinks she is sexy, then so do I. I love to have something to hold onto.
Last time I had sex was back in February. My wife has been overseas since then. I am craving some intimacy, some sexual contact. I still might have to wait til early next year, or I go there for xmas if I get some money that is owed to me. Its been pretty tough. Obviously its the longest Ive been since my wife and I first got together 12 years ago. Some photos of her would not go astray (nude of course). Its been months since I even got something like that and I hate hassling her about it as she is pretty self conscious. Oh well, the time has gone pretty quick. Few more months wont hurt me. I'll just take care of things myself..
As a guy, I much prefer to watch a woman get nipples sucked and her pussy licked, and licked real good, over watching a blowy. I think my misses prefers it too. SHe doesnt mind a bit of lesbian action in a movie either . I cant stand the fake shit. Fake acting, fake orgasms, fake tits. Hate it. Give me Cytheria any day of the week. At the end of the day, it makes me get to where I want to be much sooner. Come to think of it, its bed time and this place has me in the mood LOL..ciao..
gee, I lucked out in the "girl who likes to give head" department. I have to say though, my last 2 were her idea. One after watching some porn and the other while I was driving home from dinner one night. But apart from that, I usually only got them out of pity.