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SydneySider
2 months ago
Straight Male, 53
Australia

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People should take a look at the thread that contains over 2300 posts discussing what can be done to make the site better. Then think about the resources, hardware, software, programming, and the costs involved in trying to satisfy those requests. Then you'll understand why some of us want to do this when people complain about 3c a day to keep a membership. If Lush opened its doors on 01.01.15 and this was the current model, we would not even be having this discussion. But, people dont like change. Understandable, but change is always inevitable, with everything in life.
Quote by TabooReina
As a gold member, that feels empty coming from you. It simply does not affect you. This whole argument needs a compromise not a back and forth debate.


You're right, it doesn't affect me. Why? I supported this site when I first joined, so much so, I was made moderator. So its my free time that I volunteer to help the site stay clean and free from all the nasty pieces of work out there. And as a bi product, making people pay for certain privileges is one way of weeding them out. Trust me, there are plenty.
Quote by dpw
I rarely use block capitals but STOP SLAGGING OTHER MEMBERS! EVERY MEMBER HAS A RIGHT TO EXPRESS THEIR OPINION.


Careful, you did a whole lot of quoting in this thread, as you so on others. Most of which expressed a different POV than you, or said something you didn't like or agree with. Just saying.
Everyone who was a member before the 1st January will have 6 months to deal with the impending changes. So for those who think that this has been dumped on everyone suddenly, like the changes took affect as of the 1st, need to just take a chill pill. Or, leave. Its really not that complicated..
Quote by bigdtx8
Why am I unable to post from Tumblr directly, or indirectly to a Chat room ?

I've saved the pic's to my hard drive and tried to drag and drop. That doesn't work.

I've right and left clicked and tried to drag and drop. That doesn't work.

I have been able to copy/paste the url address into Chat but the url address is what shows on the chat window, not the pic.

I'm tired of just lurking and would like to be able to comtribute more than my witty repartee, lol.

Brian


You need to copy the Image URL..not the page URL..then paste that directly into the chat window and hit enter..
Quote by stridepower
Have you fucked or been fucked at work or on the premise at work? If yes, was the experience Fun, Not Fun, something other than?


Have you fucked Yes, I have fucked.
been fucked at work No...
on the premise at work Isn't that the same question as above? No..
I like both, but I much prefer to give. Feeling and hearing her react from my touch is a huge turn on and I know its doing the same for her. I love to give a good foot rub. From there, the only way is up and we all know where that leads...
I consider myself pretty handy. I'll attempt anything. I have done retaining walls out of brick and render, I built a large outdoor deck at my old house and hand drilled and hammered in all the nails for almost 500 lineal meters of hardwood decking. With that came the footings and all the correct specs of which a carpenter friend of mine helped me work out. It took a few weeks of hard labour to complete, but the result was so worth it. Now I have been commissioned to do one at my mums overlooking the pool. I did woodworking all the way through high school. Im much better with my hands with tools than pushing a pen in an office. My daily job requires it when it comes to fixing machinery, handling stone and putting a finish on it. I have also done walls and plastering. Hell, why pay a tradie for that stuff. Got the right advice, take your time, and expect nothing but the best from the final result. My attitude is, if you want something done right, do it yourself..so I do..
I don't have a favourite song of all time. Too many to list. But one that instantly comes to mind that I never tire of is Pearl Jam, Black...
A pint of Fat Yak pale ale. it's so much better on tap..(actually, it's my 3rd)
Quote by dpw

What is "over sexed?" What does it mean? What is a "normal sex life?". How is it measured?
To me being over sexed is when the need to have sex affects your everyday functioning. When you don't care who you're having sex with as long as you're having sex.
Having a high sex drive doesn't mean you're over sexed. It is often a term used by people whose libido has waned or didn't have much to start with.


Isn't that a sex addict?
Quote by KatieElizabeth


Gav sorted it for me a week or two back, but thanks for looking out for me


well, crapola..I didnt look at the date stamp on the original post. Silly me..
Quote by KatieElizabeth
I have definitely written and posted 10 stories. None are hidden and you can count all 10 on my profile. Yet my profile info says it's only 8. A bug?


I see 10..try CTRL/F5 to flush the cache for your page..
Quote by thatindianguy
Virginity is a state of mind..a guy or girl can be defined virgin every time if they just remain complete in their action and don't think of previous things with each other or others...something like movie first 50,dates..and last thing don't judge people by the notion of a perfermonce..you get it all wrong from the start..


Say whaaa?? Its not a state of mind. Its not emotional or psychological. Once you have sex, and I mean, real sex (not masturbation as some people in other threads think sex is), you're done. Its over, its gone. It cant even be born again even if you dont have sex in the next 30 years.

As for the OP, I dont think it matters if you are a virgin or have been having daily sex for years. That part of them, that makes them caring and sensual is part of their personality. You have it, or you dont. Can a virgin having sex for the first time be more sensual than that other more experienced person? Yeah, of course. But I would steer clear of saying that they are more sexual or sensual in general because would that then disappear once they have sex for the first time? I think those you have heard that from are virgins too and have no idea what they are on about. Probably talking themselves up..
Quote by thatindianguy
Virginity is a state of mind..a guy or girl can be defined virgin every time if they just remain complete in their action and don't think of previous things with each other or others...something like movie first 50,dates..and last thing don't judge people by the notion of a perfermonce..you get it all wrong from the start..


Say whaaa?? Its not a state of mind. Its not emotional or psychological. Once you have sex, and I mean, real sex (not masturbation as some people in other threads think sex is), you're done. Its over, its gone. It cant even be born again even if you dont had sex in the next 30 years.

As for the OP, I dont think it matters if you are a virgin or have been having daily sex for years. That part of them, that makes them caring and sensual is part of their personality. You have it, or you dont. Can a virgin having sex for the first time be more sensual than that other more experienced person? Yeah, of course. But I would steer clear of saying that they are more sexual or sensual in general because would that then disappear once they have sex for the first time? I think those you have heard that from are virgins too and have no idea what they are on about. Probably talking themselves up..


Happy Birthday to a very special lady who never fails to put a smile on my face every single day. Who's warmth, passion, and generosity never ceases to amaze me and whose beauty always has me under her spell. Big tight hugs and many kisses, Peaches. I love you...Have a wonderful day heart
Quote by OldDog_BlackHeart


OMG It's like the whole Piss on my leg & tell me it's raining thing, All over again. You keep telling me to go into chat rooms that have nothing of interest to me. You want to lean towards an either or scenario, fine. If I don't like it build my own. Look if I want A hamburger I go to A Burger King. I don't build one. When I want to chat I go to A web site that has the kind of chat I'M looking for. I don't expect Long John Silver to start serving hamburgers just for me.I know just like Long John you have your own agenda, fine. I also don't expect Long John to tell I'M wrong for not eating fish or building my own Burger King.You don't want to admit that your bias, fine. You don't have to.You want to say it's my way or the highway, Fine. But don't get your panties in A bunch when I fire up my rig & head on down the road. As A professional driver I have spent A lot of years on the road. One thing it's taught me is, theres always another joint to check out around the next bend.I hope this will bring this ment to A close. Because quite frankly it's getting old fast.


Then stick to that other whatsitcalled site you mentioned when it comes to chatting to people who like what you like. That seems like the easy solution.

Besides, you have totally derailed this thread and made it about your own personal issue..
Quote by BethanyFrasier
Definitely! It works best when the guy is the introvert and the girl is the extrovert though! I've also been in two girl/girl relationships where my girlfriends were both introverts, while I'm a TOTAL extrovert! I think introverts NEED extroverts to bring them out of their shells!


or vice versa.

Yeah, I'm not sure how two extroverts would feel about sharing center stage.
I think this discussion is better suited in here. I didn't see photos of a virgin not sucking cock..
When I say something to her and she shifts in her seat, along with the facial expression that goes with it...I know exactly whats going on "down there"..