Quote by Dancing_Doll
I tend to like first person narrative when reading short-story erotica. It gives the illusion (whether the story is true, or just imagined) that the fantasy encounter is a dirty dark confessional that the writer is choosing to share with an audience.
However, I have found that writing in first person is also much more personal and vulnerable for an author. I do feel like I'm sharing a part of myself that very few people will ever know of me. Sometimes that can put me a bit on edge in an unexpected way. It's more intense.
I also appreciate a good third personal narrative if it's well. It's less personal for the author, and I find that creating the characters and the plot line can be done with fewer inhibitions.... At least in my own experience, anyway.
In fact, I think I like the fact that they enjoyed my writing style is even more of a kick. Like maybe this new hobby isn't a waste of my time. :)
Quote by WmCutterBlack
Everything is foreplay if you do it right: a look, a smile, a touch, a thought, a feeling. Of course, sometimes the foreplay leads to direct, hot, "immediate" sexual stuff like sucking and fucking: through the door and push her against the wall for untamed sex, wild and fast. Other times, it's the slow, slow agonizing build-up, tender, sweet, lingering, teasing that goes on forever. Either way, the conclusion has already been reached, the question answered, the ending pre-determined: "Are we going to do this?" "Oh, yes, we are!"
So... sometimes, you can have a bit of both... ;) 
I'm pretty shy in person, too, so I can really let go by text or over the phone, and say stuff that I've always wanted to, but couldn't, face to face. ;) 
