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TheDevilsWeakness
Over 90 days ago
Straight Female
Canada
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Quote by AngelHeart01
Homemade Chicken Tostada's
Cold Bottles of Beer
Well I was thinking of something else... but now I want that for dinner!
Looks Yummy!
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Quote by PersonalAssistant
don't ask .... one of his questions might be about donkeypunches .... then you'll be sorry you asked
Nahhhh, that would be in his "What's your personality type?" section of the questionnaire
That comes after you've been accepted...
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I've resorted to using duct tape with mine.
Sometimes you have to fly with kids... and they frown on dosing the "little angels" with enough drugs to drop a horse.
Duct tape, applied correctly, shuts up any kid...
Its the weird looks from the other passengers that makes me wonder if I don't have Child Protective Services waiting for me at the next airport.
Sometimes you have to fly with kids... and they frown on dosing the "little angels" with enough drugs to drop a horse.
Duct tape, applied correctly, shuts up any kid...
Its the weird looks from the other passengers that makes me wonder if I don't have Child Protective Services waiting for me at the next airport.
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Quote by BigDaddyRich
Well according to the Bible, if you have lust in your heart, then it's adultry, so yes it is.
Well damn... I just cheated on my cowboy boots over a pair of killer CFM heels in a store window earlier today
Personally, my thoughts are my own. If they start to interfere with my life (or the voices start yelling loudly) well then thats a whole different thing... and meds. *giggle*
Until then I'll dream on about Jason Statham doing filthy things to me.
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Homemade French Onion Soup and garlic bread... followed quickly by breathmints 
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Its like an itch you can't scratch.
My partner isn't even interested in hearing any ideas about it. From the milder to the wilder side of it. Nothing, none, nada...
I'm still struggling with the idea if its a dealbreaker or not.
While the sex is great, it has the potential to be greater (or at least I think so)
I've done everything from asking during sex, to trying to discuss it with him over a drink, to dropping hints (leaving out various accoutrements in plain sight), to putting copies of certain Lush stories on his pillowcase for him to read or in his lunchbox (actually that one was funny... he called me and gave me hell for leaving it in his lunchbox where the rest of the guys could accidently see it... but it was perfectly fine to leave a pair of my panties in there
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I don't think I would be totally satisfied, but I may be willing to make the compromise for the right person.
The question is if I'm with the right person, right now... or not.
My partner isn't even interested in hearing any ideas about it. From the milder to the wilder side of it. Nothing, none, nada...
I'm still struggling with the idea if its a dealbreaker or not.
While the sex is great, it has the potential to be greater (or at least I think so)
I've done everything from asking during sex, to trying to discuss it with him over a drink, to dropping hints (leaving out various accoutrements in plain sight), to putting copies of certain Lush stories on his pillowcase for him to read or in his lunchbox (actually that one was funny... he called me and gave me hell for leaving it in his lunchbox where the rest of the guys could accidently see it... but it was perfectly fine to leave a pair of my panties in there
)I don't think I would be totally satisfied, but I may be willing to make the compromise for the right person.
The question is if I'm with the right person, right now... or not.
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Quote by Dudealicious
I would still like that back come to think of it!
Do you remember which one is yours?
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"Here's my credit card... Buy yourself something pretty..."
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Wait... better at what?
I used to be able to do cartwheels much better when I was younger... now I just settle for a roll across the lawn...
I used to be able to do cartwheels much better when I was younger... now I just settle for a roll across the lawn...
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Ahhh well thats a whole different thing altogether.
I had a neighbor that was a crossdresser and I think he did it for his own satisfaction. I don't think he did it for the humiliation factor at all.
He made a great looking woman actually and I was quite envious of some of his outfits and his shoes. Ohhh... his shoes were gorgeous!
I asked him once (cause I'm just tactless and blunt like that at times) and he replied,
"Why not? I want the nice and pretty frilly things. Why should women get all the fun?"
Oh, and he was a bisexual. And a very confident one! I had to watch out for his hands around me AND my boyfriend. *giggle*
I had a neighbor that was a crossdresser and I think he did it for his own satisfaction. I don't think he did it for the humiliation factor at all.
He made a great looking woman actually and I was quite envious of some of his outfits and his shoes. Ohhh... his shoes were gorgeous!
I asked him once (cause I'm just tactless and blunt like that at times) and he replied,
"Why not? I want the nice and pretty frilly things. Why should women get all the fun?"
Oh, and he was a bisexual. And a very confident one! I had to watch out for his hands around me AND my boyfriend. *giggle*
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Men have been wearing skirts and dresses for a long time... think of the Scots and their kilts and the Greeks and Romans with their togas... its nothing new.
What I do find kinda new is... Crossdressing in the BDSM section of the forum?
I never realized it was a feature of BDSM... just a kink of a different nature I guess...
What I do find kinda new is... Crossdressing in the BDSM section of the forum?
I never realized it was a feature of BDSM... just a kink of a different nature I guess...
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1. Beeswax candles
2. Bread baking
3. The health food store I go to (it just smells good - like all kinds of spices)
4. Horse
5. Camphor
6. Chocolate
OH... and I love the smell of a puppy...
2. Bread baking
3. The health food store I go to (it just smells good - like all kinds of spices)
4. Horse
5. Camphor
6. Chocolate
OH... and I love the smell of a puppy...
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Fear is a distressing negative sensation induced by a perceived threat. It is a basic survival mechanism occurring in response to a specific stimulus, such as pain or the threat of danger.Fear is apparently a universal emotion;all persons, consciously or unconsciously, have fear in some sort.[1].In short, fear is the ability to recognize danger leading to an urge to confront it or flee from it (also known as the fight-or-flight response) but in extreme cases of fear (terror) a freeze or paralysis response is possible
I'm stealing the definition from Dudealicious...
The definition of fear right there has absolutely no place in a D/s relationship.
And I have to wholeheartedly agree with Fugs.
Because of MY FEAR I am NOT in the lifestyle.
Because of MY FEAR I won't be in a D/s relationship in any way shape or form.
I can and have and will be in a regular vanilla relationship, but until I can learn to trust again I won't be in the lifestyle.
While I may have concerns when entering a relationship, it has NO PLACE with your Dom in a BDSM relationship.
Trust and respect is earned and sometimes this takes shape in different ways for different people.
I fully understand where Fugs is coming from but I also understand where some might mix up the difference of a BDSM relationship and a relationship between two partners. The two are distinctly different. Or at least they are for me.
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Actually... I do have a very real fear... and this is something I need to work on.
I'm a sub, I hand over my control to my Dom. With that, I place my trust in them to do right by me.
It takes me a very long time to trust someone enough to do that.
I, like sprite, have been in an abusive BDSM relationship. It was a gradual thing, and not overnight. It was over years.
Since then, I've had issues with trust and giving my control to anyone. I am now "damaged goods".
So for me, I fear I will never be able to give control and learn to trust a Dom... ever again.
Especially in a lifestyle I used to love and enjoy.
I'm a sub, I hand over my control to my Dom. With that, I place my trust in them to do right by me.
It takes me a very long time to trust someone enough to do that.
I, like sprite, have been in an abusive BDSM relationship. It was a gradual thing, and not overnight. It was over years.
Since then, I've had issues with trust and giving my control to anyone. I am now "damaged goods".
So for me, I fear I will never be able to give control and learn to trust a Dom... ever again.
Especially in a lifestyle I used to love and enjoy.
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Before Lush... two
On Lush... just one
(All I can say is I'm extremely picky)
On Lush... just one
(All I can say is I'm extremely picky)
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Quote by lafayettemister
I have an All-Day Sucker, does that qualify?
Is this part of your 2-for-1 deal then?
Cause I still have shelving that needs to be put up...
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Quote by Buz
So picketing the front of her apartment with a sign that say's "I'm Horny!" while wearing a male g-string is not a good idea?
I want cartwheels, backflips and tacky christmas lights then... OH and candy!
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Quote by forgedsteel11
I was staying at a females friends house for a few days. While I was there I stayed in her bed every night. But when I tried to make a move she turned me down. Why would she want me to sleep in her bed if she didn't want to sleep together?
Oh... you DID sleep together... as in a SLEEPOVER
Put a little effort into it... Just because you shared a bed doesn't mean she's going to give it up so easily.
She did half the work to get you into her bed. Now wine & dine her.
If you don't put any effort into making her feel special before you guys go to sleep.... why should she make it any easier for you to get into her panties?
For example: Make her dinner (or get her favorite takeout if you don't cook) Draw her a bath. Set out towels and all kinds of bath crap nearly every girl has in their bathrooms (You can find bath sets at the drugstore or target/walmart). Set out a glass of wine w/a magazine, a book, or some puzzles. This lets her know you're taking an interest in her besides in the bedroom.
I'm totally with CG and PA... but I'm also not going to give it away freely without making you boys work a little for it.
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The weathers been gorgeous so I pulled out the BBQ
Seasoned pork tenderloin with a maple balsamic glaze and thinly sliced taters, garlic and onions in tinfoil on the BBQ
Served with mixed greens w/goat cheese and blackberries
Seasoned pork tenderloin with a maple balsamic glaze and thinly sliced taters, garlic and onions in tinfoil on the BBQ
Served with mixed greens w/goat cheese and blackberries
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Quote by LittleBambi
1) Do you ladies get aroused during a massage?
No.
2) Of course most guys have a fantasy about getting a happy ending, do women have similar fantasies?
No.
3) Has any massage therapist crossed the line with you?
No.
4)Ever wish he/she would move up just a little higher on your thigh?
No.
5) If you were turned on, would you allow him/her to "finish" you off?
No.
Damn, I'm such a killjoy.
What she said
Last time I had a professional massage I went to sleep...