My heavy silk sarong.
Its beautifully patterned and goes with anything. From flip flops and tank tops to heels and a corset.
My old Sri Lankan boss gave it to me as a gift for taking care of their business while they were gone on vacation.
I wore it through both my pregnancies, since I hate maternity clothes with a passion. Useless things. Only good for about 3-4months of wear.
I couldn't survive without it for those nights you want to go out but have no idea what to wear. I just feel great wearing it.
I'm going to go the opposite stance on this...
She could very well have been teasing you.
Men mix up signals that women give them all the time And vice versa. Its why there's so many couples in therapy.
My other thought on this is she's juvenile and likes to play mind games.
Some outgrow this behaviour when they leave high school. Others don't.
Common decency is what's missing these days. Its not even about someone holding a door open for me.
People, in general, don't respect anyone anymore. No one cares what's happening to their neighbors.
I'll wave someone through a stop sign before I go through, if we both get there at the same time.
Common practice twenty years ago was you always gave them a wave of thanks or some other sign for letting you go first.
Nowadays... Nothing.
People are too wrapped up in their own lives to see what's going on outside their own bubble.
I saw a pretty, young waitress in a diner the other day get grab-handed by a customer. No one cared or noticed that it upset her.
Sure, the guy was a dick for doing it. But what about the other twenty people that saw it and said nothing?
Alright... enough rambling from me... I've aired my major pet peeves
Yikes... sorry to be a killjoy, but neither.
I don't trust anything off the internet, including "meeting" people online. No one is that truthful, not when its so easy to lie.
And I've sown enough wildoats. So that stunning hookup thats dead behind the eyes just isn't going to cut it for me either.
As long as he didn't mind if I had it melted down and turned into another piece of jewelry.
I wouldn't want the same ring he had given an ex but I would reinvent it.
It wouldn't take much $$'s to redesign it and make it your own.
I am one of those people that send out a new story notice when I finally get around to writing one.
What I don't expect is for everyone on my friends list to like the genre of stories I write.
I don't hold anything against anyone that just delete's my mail.
There are topics and genre's that don't do anything for me so I extend the same courtesy to my friends.
I hate flying... I did it almost every weekend to go back and forth from home to work...
Now if I want to relax I go by train...
Oh ick... ick... ick... ick!!
If there's no baby in the room and you feel the need to do that...
SHUT UP!
Repress that need and forget you ever wanted to utter those words or you'll be out MY door faster than you could coo "Gaga googoo"
... and this goes for the girls that do the same annoying thing - It just creeps me the hell out *shudders* BAH!
How did you get interested in BDSM?
I was introduced to the lifestyle by a friend, fifteen years ago. I've flitted in and out of the lifestyle since then.
What factor of it attracted you to it in the first place?
The closeness, trust and commitment involved.
Were you always submissive?
Yes, but my job and my attitude confuse many and some tend to think of me as more of a dominant when I'm not.
My favorite saying is "I'm a submissive, not a doormat."
I always felt very uncomfortable when asked to switch, but did it for my Dom since they also have needs.
Do you think you were always into it now that you are in the lifestyle?
Yes. Hindsight's 20/20.
Unfortunately, I had an unhealthy and abusive dom/sub relationship for eight years and still have trust issues.
So much so, that I've abandoned the lifestyle for the time being, but I'm missing it.
As a Dom or a Sub
What are the qualities do you seek when looking for a new top/bottom?
Where do you look?
What DON'T you want?
Nope... not a chance
No exceptions
Getting a great comment (on a story or an outfit or a job well done)
Chocolate
A good joke or funny picture
A sunny day
Fresh Strawberries (also goes well with chocolate - double bonus)
Making someone else smile
