As long as I can get my arms around him... no preference.
Humor, wit, intelligence, confidence and kindness cannot be told with a measuring tape or body type.
What I DO prefer is someone close to my own height.
I top out at 6ft and I love my heels. I'd rather not date someone I tower over by a foot while in flats.
A job is a job... its not my life, it just pays the bills...
My loves are a totally different thing... and I even get paid for some of them.
I'm a full-time, single mom to two wonderful kids.
A freelance photographer (ever since I figured out how to use my moms old Fujica SLR at an early age, I loved taking pictures) I now collect old SLR cameras and built my own darkroom to develop my own personal photos.
I'm a certified umpire in the summer months and have been one for over 20yrs. I occasionally hold workshops for young kids wanting to learn how to be an umpire and helping them get their certification.
On the odd weekend, I pretend to be a rockstar in friends bands, playing around the area in small pubs and bars, singing backup and taking the odd lead.
I'd like to think it should be fairly easy for both...
But in reality, if a woman goes on the prowl she's labelled with some not very nice names.
Where as a man is cheered on and encouraged.
Makes it difficult to go looking for "some" without being trashed and labelled a sluttish whore by the same guys that cheer on their male friends.
When women go out with their friends and the guys stay home and BABYSIT the kids.
I'm thinking retroactive pay is in order for the year I took off. Who knew taking care of your own kid was BABYSITTING? Geez...
OH and the next time I see a guy in a bad mood... I'm going to ask him if its "that time of the month" or the ever-so-gracious "ragging it" and hand him a Midol.
I think I missed out on this trend when I was younger - I preferred my alcohol in a glass... not my cooch
But now that I think of it, when I was bartending it definitely explains a few of the shooters
For example: Juicy Pussy, Stunned Cunt, Electric Pussy Diver... I'm sure there's more but I can't remember them all
Sweet Snack - My Mom's homemade Peanut Butter/Butterscotch Marshmallow Squares... they are soooo good
Salty Snack - Pistachio's (not the red ones - I don't want to get caught "red handed")
I like both movies for what they are. That said, Shawshank is in my personal Top 5. But my favorite corny movie quotes come from Forrest Gump.
Three Days Grace - Just like You
I'm so sorry to hear. My thoughts are with you and I'm glad everyone is safe.
I've learned a few things over the years... and I try very hard to live this way.
Always say whats on your mind - People aren't mind readers; if you love them, tell them. If they hurt you, tell them.
Never say anything you'll regret - Think before you speak; you can't take back hurtful words.
Treat everyone you meet with respect - Everyone deserves it; treat others how you would like to be treated.
And remember to laugh - Find the humor in any situation; the world is gloomy and depressing enough, try not to take it too seriously.
The Junior Deputies make a valid point (Sorry Felix)
The mods can't be everywhere on here and its up to a few of us to sometimes point it out to them.
After reading alot of this girls posts its quite clear to me that she's a minor.
I deal with teenagers everyday and can see the signs
What I don't get is why is Bigguns gone and she's still here?
(Granted he's a HUGE pain in the ass, but c'mon?)
As for the point of the topic, once I get past the obvious typos, poor grammar and juvenile text speech its seems its a matter for the police. This is a predator preying on a young girl and should have the authorities called upon him.
I had an interesting conversation with a friend of mine recently and I had some questions after that discussion.
Her husband has joined the ranks of Alcoholics Anonymous which is highly commendable of him since it was an issue that was slowly tearing their marriage apart. Being friends with both of them, I heard more and learned more than I ever cared to know. He did try going "cold turkey" before to please her, but of course he fell off that wagon quickly.
This time, it seems, he's doing it for himself. It was affecting his job, marriage and health. And he seems to be dedicated by going to AA meetings and his wife is going to Al Anon meetings weekly.
The problem now, it seems, is in the bedroom. He's no longer interested, and when he is, she says its over in 5mins or less. No foreplay before or cuddling or anything after. She mentioned it seemed like he was going through the motions and doing his duty as the husband and nothing more.
The only advice I had for my friend was to talk about this with him but it seems she has. He's all gung ho during the conversation but rolls over and goes to sleep that night after she's taken great care to spice it up for the evening with whatever she's done. (I didn't press for details)
I had a few possible explanations (which I kept to myself):
He has no idea how to interact with his wife sexually while sober and may need to relearn some of these skills.
He is more focused on his own well-being right now and doesn't have the capability to take care of his wife sexually at the moment.
His sex drive has dropped drastically since quitting drinking. (Is this because of the lack of alcohol?)
I suppose my question would be if this is "normal" and can it be overcome? Or does it go away by itself?
And also, did I miss anything? Is there another reason I didn't see or think of?
I'm curious, as I used to be slightly jealous of both of them and their very open and active sex life.
Any advice or insight from a recovering addict or alcoholic would be appreciated as well. Thanks!
I take offence at being called emotionally unstable. Of all my imaginary friends I am the most sane... even the voices in my head say I am.
But in all seriousness... I remember a friend discussing the emotional instability of his girlfriend once. He was always complaining how she would go "psycho" on him.
Once I dragged the details out of him I very gently reminded him if it wasn't for his actions she wouldn't go "psycho" on him.
Cause really, if my guy is going to make a big fuss out of some random girl's ass while were out and he follows that same girl around like a lost puppy...
Well, I do believe I'm gonna go a little unstable on him in a fantastic fashion.
As for the original question, I want no one if I can't have them all.
I'd like to be able to have an intelligent conversation, enjoy seeing them everyday, and NOT have them dissecting dead birds in my kitchen before breakfast.
I refuse to settle for anything less now.
Definitely, Facebook has its pros and cons...
I personally like catching up with old work or school friends that are strewn across the country...
I haven't seen them for years and I think its a great way to keep in touch without the hassle of tracking them down or going to those god awful school reunions.
I also found it was a great way to network. I used to own a restaurant and could put up the friday evening specials as my status update.
Lo and behold, there would be 4 or 5 different people I know on my friends list in for dinner.
I'm not going to tell them what I've eaten for breakfast or that I've clipped my toenails or some other useless piece of info that not even I care to know.
But if I have achieved something I've been working towards... you're damn right I'm going to tell all my friends. And thats what my facebook friends list consists of.
I could never decide between Daniel Craig or Jason Statham...
After much thought on the subject and watching guys for years, I know EXACTLY what I'd do if I had a penis for the day...
BRAG
oh and "write" my name in the snow...
Filthy
You scored 84% Dirtiness!
Judging by your score, your mind is a wasteland of perversion and impurity. Congratulations! You are officially in possession of a dirty mind. You probably enjoy dirty jokes very much and appreciate the sexy things in life. Thinking about sex is something you do often, and you probably wonder why other people can't loosen up.
Phew!! Thank god there's still room for improvement...
I'd hate to think I'd hit my peak already ;)
Hey now! I only said for you to FOCUS twice! Third times the charm...
Text speak is fine in its proper place. It saves time when jotting a quick note off to a friend. Ppl=People Tho=Though are just a couple of shortforms I'll use.
If I use LOL it usually means I've laughed or giggled at whatever was said. If something makes me really laugh I'll use LMAO.
But when I see "Wot" or "Dis" it drives me crazy. It takes one more letter to make it a proper word so I consider it pure laziness when I see it used.
I use to use acronyms alot when I worked as a bartender... I think my favorite one was FOCUS
We (me and my coworkers) used it as a passive aggressive way in dealing with the drunken idiots while still keeping our jobs, but able to have a good laugh about them.
So if you ever hear someone say FOCUS it means "F*ck Off Cause Ur Stupid"
Bwahahaha I do think I own that particular thong!!
that I will continue to not think for another good hour or two.
And here I was admiring your self control!!!! Ha! Sorry to drag you down in the much with me!!
