I live to pleasure the woman in my life! (Check my profile, where I make that same statement). The thing I notice is the more effort I put into pleasuring the woman in my life, the more I get back!
The first time it happened in my presence, I was unaware of the phenomena, it was startling to say the least to have a girl squirt while I was performing oral sex on her. She went on to become my wife and I put in 110% effort every time we were together after that. To answer the question, it's definitely Hot, Hotter, Hottest!.
When I was a child and being taught to make responsible decisions, my parents told me, 'As you make decisions, pretend your Mother is watching over your shoulder. If you think she would approve of what you're doing, go ahead. If you think she would disapprove, don't do it. That advice would work here. If your mate was watching over your shoulder, would she approve? Based on what you've written, I'd guess no. That means regardless of whether or not YOU consider it cheating, she probably would consider it cheating. Why do you have trouble being honest with the most important person in your life?
I'm not in a sustained relationship with anyone at the moment, but when I am, my primary interest is that she be happy and comfortable. The girls I usually end up with look sexy to me regardless of what they wear. If she's comfortable, I tend to think she looks sexy, whether she's displaying a lot of skin, wearing tight, curve hugging clothes or not. I personally think any guy who tries to control what the girl in his life wears probably doesn't deserve her. Just sayin'.
You have to take risks in life, the more risks you take, the more likely some of those risks will be regrettable. I'm just happy none of the sexual risks I've taken have resulted in life-long or life-endangering consequences!
I took an actual photo of myself and cropped it down to the point where I believe most facial recognition software (and Google image search) can't find any other images of me. MY image gallery is only visible by friends but they're all me. I just wish this site was around when I was younger and better looking!!! I also figure that anyone who finds me has their own explaining to do! screw 'em if they don't like it!
I'd have to say a comment on 'My Neighbor's Teenage Daughter' (part one) from Milik_The_Red
"This is one of those rare stories that I wish was longer. Part 2 should be a really hot read. Dont make us wait long!"
He happened to be the moderator that approved my story and left this as the very first comment. Thanks again, Milik!
If I ever marry again I want it to be a woman within one generation of my age, but the question inquired about acceptable age gap with a sexual partner. I'd have to say if it's legal, consensual and the people involved are attracted to one another, what difference do the 'numbers' make?
It's the perfect way to turn a "Good morning" into a great morning! It always makes me want to reciprocate. Wake up sex is some of the best sex in my book!
The Beatles 'The End' - "and in the end, the love you take, is equal to the love you make"
and the Steve Miller Band 'Dance, dance, dance' - I don't know, But I've been told, If you keep on dancing, You'll never grow old"
There are more but these two remind me how to get the most out of a relationship and how to stay/feel younger.
I'm sure there are people who cheat with no intention of screwing up whatever relationship they're in, but I think a fair amount of cheating that goes on are people who are no longer satisfied with their current relationship but want to line up something else before breaking off their current relationship (like finding a new job before quitting your old one).
There are also women who lose their inhibitions after a few drinks. When I played and sang in bands I had lots of quickie sex or gotten blowjobs from married women who had no intention of leaving their husband.
I love that shirt. At least 2 of the girls I have purely recreational sex with need one of those shirts. Thanks for the gift idea!
Happy Birthday, Stephanie!
Under 50, but I think I'm kinkier than that - I'm just not into BDSM - I have other 'kinks'
Swimming, biking, I'd like to say sex, but frankly being single at my age, I don't get enough to make it a major part of my fitness regimen! LOL
Honesty! Girls seduced with less than total honesty tend to get a little psychotic after they succumb to seduction otherwise.
You gotta show the girl that you care about her, what worthwhile girl wants to be intimate with a guy who doesn't care about her?
I manscape (trimmed short, not shaved. I'm sure girls are no more fond of pubes in the mouth than I am.
I might be weird (I've heard that assessment a few times). An ex of mine used to wear nothing but loose-fitting, low on the hip, draw-string shorts to bed. Easy to remove, or push aside (when access is needed) and I kind of like spooning (or being spooned) with a topless girl. Something about bare nipples on my bare back - Wow!
Providing everything is squeaky-clean, rimming my girl is one of my favorite activities (and often a precursor to her asking me to put something else there as well). At least half the girls I end up rimming end up returning the favor. So my advice would be to take a nice, hot, soapy shower together and use it as foreplay and rim her, I'd be willing to bet she reciprocates without further asking! If she rims you while masturbating you with her hand (or giving you head while she uses a finger there in your ass, you'll come harder and longer than ever!