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23 Oct 2013

Quote by sprite
both are important to me, i will admit.... if it was a hard choice, tho, i can't imagine living with someone who didn't have a whole lot going up stairs.

I think that attraction starts with the eyes, but ultimately ends with their brains... that being said, I have had boyfriends that weren't all that cute, but their smarts captivated me to the point of ending up loving them for quite some time. Sure, I would love to find a hot hunk with gorgeous abs and pecs, a nice sized dick that remains hard forever, a smile that that disarms all of my barriers of inhibition, eyes that makes my knees quiver, lips that scream to be kissed over and over; but in reality I know that I can also find a man that gives me butterflies in my stomach every time I see him without him being my ideal hot hunk, a man full of imperfections just like myself that compliments my soul, my existence. Love can be strange sometimes, don't you think?

23 Oct 2013

Quote by dpw

Well I sure don't mind a himbo for a night or two, I don't even care if there's no conversation at all if the sex is good.
To share my life with they'd have to be cute, dark hair, a bottom with a nice ass, good in the sack and intelligent.
Ring any bells?

That sounds just like someone I know... oh yeah, meeeee.... LMAO!

23 Oct 2013

Quote by dpw
That's based on your own good memories and an assumption that they would be repeated. What if you were persecuted or isolated, would you feel the same?

Although you posed a valid point, I can not erase from my mind the experiences that I already have had... I know what I like and what I want. Would it be difficult to be in those situations? sure it will, but my life wasn't rosie growing up either. Admittedly my situation was better than most, if not all of the situations you posed, but my guess is that given the choice I would still be who and how I am... perhaps a little bit more in the closet, but gay nonetheless.

23 Oct 2013

Quote by dpw
If some barman who looked like an Abercrombie & Fitch model, got his cock out and started jerking off, I'd be saying fuck the drink just give me the swizzle stick. I'd be causing a huge queue.

Hey, hey... don't cut the line... I was here before you!!! LOL kickbutt

kickbutt

23 Oct 2013

Quote by sprite
in my experience, Sprite and semen do not mix. *giggles*

I love your comments... you always seem to bring a smile to my face and in some cases like this one, to laugh out loud (literally)... people around me must think I am crazy for laughing without an apparent reason... too funny, LMAO! f-hihi

f-hihi

23 Oct 2013

Quote by sprite
omg, no! segregation? that's such an ugly concept. no matter what the intent, it would feel more like an iternment camp for gays. at best it would lead to an attitude of "us and them" - in my opinion, that's going in the wrong direction.

I think we've come a long way in terms of society accepting us, but there is still a long way to go. If we segregate ourselves we will turn back instead of going forward, or are we? How do you see cities like the Castro in San Francisco or Wilton Manors in Florida (where I live)? Are they an utopia way of gay living? I don't think so, but it sure is fun. I also think my city brings awareness to the community as a whole... these days, it does not matter if I am in my little ghetto or outside of it, as people seem to be a lot more tolerant than when I was growing up, there are more and more tv shows depicting gay couples and gay lifestyles, and we owe that to LGBT organizations and to gay cities all over the country.

It is true, though, that every coin has two sides. And I may be more mature about the whole concept than a younger version of myself, but that is why I posed the question...

23 Oct 2013

Quote by sprite
otherwise, i look good in blues, preferably lighter shades - if i could get the above in a pale blue, it would be perfect.

aww honey, I am sure that you looked absolutely stunning on that very special day, and that in Kate's eyes she had the most beautiful bride in the whole wide world love7

love7

23 Oct 2013

What is more important when choosing a person to share your life with... looks (physical attributes) or smarts?

Would you change your mind if you only wanted to spend a one night stand?

and lastly, if you are or consider yourself a bisexual... would your choice change depending on the gender of the person you want to be with?

23 Oct 2013

Quote by dpw

Absolutely hilarious!
Personally I prefer mine straight from the tap. I agreed with one of the comment a mouthful of cum followed by a vodka chaser, better than a mouthwash.

Too funny! lol

lol

Lfunny

23 Oct 2013

Quote by Liz

Awwwww

I have no idea, but I'd like to get married one day. I'd look okay in a white dress I reckon.

Honey, your day will come... we all deserve to get married and live a happy life smile

smile

23 Oct 2013

Quote by sprite
btw, had we done it fancy, i'd have gone for it being colorful - no black and white.... my wife looks amazing in red

Rachel sweetie, once again congratulations... 3601

3601

by the way, you mentioned that Kate looks amazing in red, what color would you wear if you had the chance to repeat it?

23 Oct 2013

Quote by Magical_felix

I would imagine that one difference would be that a lot less male family members would try to catch the garter the groom throws behind his head.

ROTFLMGAO!!!

23 Oct 2013

Quote by Poppet
It's not a choice and even if it was, I'm sure those who are gay and lesbian would still be. It's just who they are.

Couldn't have said it better smile

smile

22 Oct 2013

Quote by dpw

I don't think that there is a clear distinction any more. I think with the advent of ecstacy and then with garage, techno, balearic and tribal music in the clubs the music is the same in straight and gay clubs. Btw I don't know about USA, I'm talking about England (London really).

Fair enough, but culture goes beyond music and into other forms of art...

22 Oct 2013

Quote by secretgem69
Everybody seems to be into it and I'm curious. Any tips or experiences people would like to share?

Being a gay bottom I guess you can say I am some what of an expert on this subject. Please do not try doggy style as someone suggested because this is definitely not a beginner's position. That position allows for a deeper penetration and gives control to the man behind you which may not be in tune with what you are feeling in terms of pain. The two of you facing each other can also be challenging because you would have to adopt an uncomfortable and unnatural position, especially for the first time (you do have to remember that our anal passages are way back in our bodies, so we have to lift our legs and lower torso even higher in order to allow for the penetration to happen and if the anal passage is not straight, the intruding member will bend opening the hole even more causing lots of more pain, the beginner will feel it 100 fold) and again, the man has complete control, even more so than doggie style. At least in a doggie style position, you may go forward and escape the pressure that he is applying. The same thing would apply to you being on your belly. You would surrender all of the control to your man which may not be so good for the beginner.

For the first time, a good position is for both of you to be spooning (on the side) because even though the control is still on his hands, you may still escape if the pressure is applied to fast, plus he may hug you while you both kiss. In this position you will feel lots of reassuring and loving body contact so you may concentrate on relaxing your anal muscle. You may also flex your knees a little while bringing them (together) towards your head (but not too high up on your body either, just about 90 degrees off of your torso), your legs should move parallel to the bed, not towards the ceiling. This knees and legs position is very important because it will naturally part your ass cheeks giving him a better and easier access to your anal cavity. By the way, penetration in this position is not only a good and loving beginners position, but also provides a penetration that is not as deep as doggie style. My advice to a beginner though (the best position), is to try riding your man. The man has to be laying flat on his back as you lower yourself on his hard shaft. This gives you full and complete control... you will decide how fast and how deep you want to go and can wait as long as you like to accommodate to a new feeling and sensation. There are lots of people that have tried anal sex and didn't like it, and the reason is because they did not have the luxury of riding their first man.

But before you try out any of these positions you still have to think about using an fleet anal cleaning solution, and work on gently massaging and stretching your sphincter with a small finger at first and gradually insert more and more. In my experience, stretching before sex is more important to relax the sphincter of the beginner than the actual act of stretching your hole. The key to anal sex is to relax your sphincter and use lots and lots of lube. The best are water based like K-Y, Anal Ease or Astro Glide but these will last a lot less and will have to be reapplied a lot sooner than lubes that are oil based. Also, water based lubes are much easier to clean and wash than oil based lubes. The reason I would not use oil based or non-water based lubes is that they will heat up and cause a burning sensation, and if a condom is worn (which I highly recommend) may break it out of friction. I have done it without lube using spit instead and it works wonders for those improvised moments of intense heat between me and my man but would not recommend it for the beginner. Cum also works great and there are quite a few men that pre-cum rivers which will also work quite nicely (not for the beginner). I have had men ask me to suck on their cocks as sloppily as I could, drooling all over their shafts so that we may use my own spit as lube. By the way, without lube it may also be painful for your man although I imagine not as much. I am not sure of this because I am 100% bottom, but I have heard a few men complain.

22 Oct 2013

What are the differences between gay and hetero weddings? Would you marry dressed in white or black? How about your boyfriend/girlfriend? Do colors mean anything in gay weddings?

22 Oct 2013

Do you think there should be a separate LGBT society, with our own school system, hospitals, police and fire department, retail stores, etc...? It may be a utopia as the burden on a LGBT society as a whole might be way too expensive, but if given the choice, would you like to separate LGBT from Hetero Societies?

22 Oct 2013

How influenced is pop culture by gay men and/or women? Is there a different or separate "Gay Pop Culture"?

22 Oct 2013

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18 Oct 2013

Quote by mountaingaljanelle29
Why are there so many afraid of the word, ''choice"?

Who says that we are afraid of the word "choice"?

18 Oct 2013

Quote by dpw

Homosexuality is not genetic, there is no gay gene. This has been proven through a study of identical twins as they exactly the same genetic make up.
The latest theory is it is epigenetic, with epi marks not being erased in a certain region of the X chromosome. It is thought that gay men inherit the epimarks from their mother and lesbians from their father. This study is ongoing so it isn't known if the marks can be partially erased leading to bisexuality. Nor if marks can re-emerge leading to straight to gay.
Upbringing, friends, school and society have an affect on how we act and wether we follow our orientation or supress it but it is still there.

Whether it is a gene or with epi marks, some gay people are born being gay… others are not. Either way there is nothing wrong with their sexual orientation or preference smile

smile

17 Oct 2013

Quote by Beckey
The guys do not admit that they are gay and it is less socially acceptable ( not cool)

Who says that the guys don't admit they are gay? I am a guy and I am gay. Oh... and I know plenty of other gay guys that admit they are gay!

17 Oct 2013

Quote by sprite

yeah, but that's because you've experienced life as a gay man already - if you had the choice, and had no experience as either, and looked around at how gays are, too often, still treated as second class citizens, would the choice be as cut and dried? that's not a rhetorical question, btw, but something to truly consider.

Anything that I answer would be subjective because I can't erase the experiences that I already have, but I like to think that I would still chose to be gay. By the way, I have never been treated as a second class citizen, but then again I've been very lucky to be able to live in a very nice gay community.

16 Oct 2013

Quote by dpw

After all that can your ass be my pillow?

ROTFLMAO!!!

16 Oct 2013

Quote by dpw

That surprises me!

it does? how so?

16 Oct 2013

Quote by dpw
It may sound wierd but I love to rim, can do it for hours, but being rimmed does nothing for me

We would be a perfect match, honey... I love to be rimmed because it relaxes my ass muscles and makes me want to be fucked even more (as if that could be possible). But I do beg for his cock to penetrate and caress my always willing prostate ;) However, I have not brought myself to like or enjoy returning the favor. Can I suck your cock instead? I'll even eat your man juice... yummm!!!

16 Oct 2013

Sweetie, Rome was not built in one day, but we will get to see in our lifetime how people become much more tolerant towards us. We have come a long way in a very short period of time, but there is still lots to do, many more battles to fight and win.

The only parameter that I can think of that, in a certain way, parallels what we are currently going through is how we as a world have come to rightfully accept our fellow brothers and sisters of color. We are all human, period! And how about interracial marriages? They are also quite common these days, but they weren't so 40 or 50 years ago. We as a society have fought for various things that are now common and even taken for granted, and so this also will pass and become normal in the years to come.

16 Oct 2013

I think that this is a very complicated question... for some, like myself, we are born gay. I always knew what I wanted and what I liked. Perhaps my parents had something to do with my sexual orientation when their genes and chromosomes mixed to make me. Having said that, I know for a fact that for others their sexuality comes through past experiences and their environment... but even then, I do not think that they actually had a choice. Once they came in contact with the experience that triggered the behavior or in this case the sexual orientation, that was it, they were either hooked or repelled by the actions of others.

For another group of people, especially bisexuals, they do get to chose between male or female partners... so you see this whole issue is not as easy as you might think, but it is worth talking and discussing smile

smile

16 Oct 2013

Quote by sprite
if sexuality was a choice, i doubt very much that people would choose to be gay, considering the amount of prejudice leveled against homosexuals. trust me, it's not easy being green... um... gay... sorry kermit!

Rachel honey, if I had the possibility to chose in another life, I would still chose to be gay... I just can't see myself as anything else!

16 Oct 2013

Quote by Juniors_world
what are some things that can be found around the house that can be used as sex toys?

All sorts of vegetables like cucumbers, brush handles, broom sticks (covered with a condom), and a long etc...