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OMG The faces on the poor guys, it's like stunned disbelief. I couldn't stop laughing.
I couldn't stop laughing either... way too funny!!!
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TonyZ
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Penis' are awesome! It's usually what they are attached to, that's an issue.
I agree with you when you say that penises are awesome, but so are what they are attached to... love them. Then again being gay would explain my erratic behavior of loving other men... LMAO!
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Ha ha, what do you think about pussy?
Have you tried one on for size?
Have you seen this video? LMAO!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bd3gw3caSEk
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This video is way too funny... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QvWziE0o8dw
but seriously, what do lesbians think about penises?
but seriously, what do lesbians think about penises?
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I am so sorry to disagree with you AGAIN! Please watch the following youtube video, and if this kid's speach does not bring a tear to your eye and make you change your opinion, I do not know what will... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MLnn96n3Lpg
Here are more examples... and if you would like more, I can surely find more
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nFcnZWdZRK0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sLUnC3yP2_s
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9x_E7Gj2qw
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With same sex parents there will always be a lack of maternal or paternal instincts, there is a lack of one type of role model for gender behaviour. Children learn this both consciously and subconsciously. There is an even greater problem if one of the children is the opposite sex to the parents, the parents have never experienced things that the child is.
Now all these are not insurmountable as can be demonstrated by lone parents but they would be placed in that position as opposed to finding themselves in it. However by far the biggest reason is the prejudice they are likely to face, from other children, parents and society in general. Until there's full acceptance that sexual orientation doesn't matter, it will always be the children who suffer.
I am so sorry to disagree with you AGAIN! Please watch the following youtube video, and if this kid's speach does not bring a tear to your eye and make you change your opinion, I do not know what will... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MLnn96n3Lpg
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So you think I was a promiscuous slut for all those years.
I thought I was just looking for Mr Right, like buying a new car and test driving every available model, only to find you don't want any of them
I do not judge anyone... how could I when I have also tested and continue to test a million models? Isn't testing part of the quest?
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I think it would be adoption laws.
Yes, adoption is very important... I agree.
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For me the final frontier has always been the education of children, to make them understand that the world is a huge mix. That because a person is different that doesn't make them bad or a threat to society.
Education is also very important. But education starts at home, and schools reinforce it. Now days schools are a lot more tolerant and sensitive towards LGBT issues, but some parents are not. If the parents are haters, there is a huge chance that their kids will be too...
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No upsets today I hope.
Not today, honey... you did a great job ;)
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Is that because we've had SO MUCH practice, I've had some bad ones but from youger guys that's why I tended to avoid them.
Call me greedy, but I love younger boys because they stay harder, for longer periods of time, and once they cum they get hard and ready to cum again pretty quick ;)
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Let's say for arguments sake that women are better at giving oral sex to other women because we know our bodies better than a man does. Does that mean that a man can give give a better blow job to another man for the same reason?
I would have to answer affirmative... I have given BJs to lots of married or "straight" men, and they always say that gay men give better head. They say that we enjoy the act a lot more than women do, and that because of it our BJs feel a lot better and hotter
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On numerous threads in various forum rooms the idea of "the one" is mentioned, "the right one" "the one for you" "one true love"etc. Is there only one "one" or, if we've lost them, are there more "ones" out there for us?
Presumably with marriage you've found your "one" but why is the divorce rate so high? If youre partner dies are there more "ones" for us or are they a consolation? What if you let your "one" go, not realising until later but they moved on. Is there another "one"? Do we get a second or even third chance or have we missed the boat?
I think this is a hard question to answer. While you are with the "One" there should be no one else, and if there is, then perhaps that person was not your real "one". If you let them go, perhaps he/she was not your "One". If your soul mate (the real one) passes away, then you will always have him/her in your mind and heart... no one will come even close, and he/she becomes irreplaceable. I believe that looks don't matter, ways of thinking don't matter, age doesn't matter, money doesn't matter... for everyone of us there is always someone out there that can become our "One" if we are willing to take the risk of having our hearts broken. However as we get older, pass experiences will make us a lot more cautious as to whom we let into our hearts.
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After same gender marriage equality and all the issues that surround it (insurance benefits, succession laws, society's recognition, and a long etc...) is completely conquered and accepted, what do you think is the next step in terms of equal rights that has to be fought?
Is marriage equality the last frontier or should we fight for work force placement and education as recognized minority?
Is there anything else other than marriage, labor and education?
Is marriage equality the last frontier or should we fight for work force placement and education as recognized minority?
Is there anything else other than marriage, labor and education?
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I wonder if part of that is cultural conditioning? We are taught for a young again that women are supposed to settle down with that one person, while men are supposed to look around. Now I know that this doesn't mean that all women are homebodies or that all men are looking for a quick fuck. I'm just saying we are conditioned to look for a lasting relationship, for the good and the bad of it.
I do think its cultural... society's reasoning for instilling this behavior, at least in their minds, is that it preserves the species assuring human continuity. It is just as cultural as the maternal instinct and the biological clock.
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There's another thread posted by EdWolfe check out the answers, compare and contrast the guys and girls and you'll see where I'm coming from.
Derek honey, you have to weigh the information you get by their sources... first of all, if you get your information from Lush, you might get a lot of horny men saying what their dicks think. This is after all a sexually charged site. You might also get a lot of men that fantasize with an experience that perhaps they haven't had. And lastly but most important, when compiling statistics to draw a conclusion it is never a good idea to use just one source. If you only use one source, or perhaps two if we count your bad experiences which instantly make you bias (more on that later), the number of people asked is also very important. The wider amount of people you ask, the better the sample... its that simple. That's market research 101. Oh and by the way, women are usually a lot more reserved, romantic and mature when it comes to sex and maybe that is why you got the answers you got from our lovely female friends. That does not mean that they may not be sex crazed maniacs, but once settled in a relationship and even while searching for one, just like men (bisexual men included), it is all about just one especial person.
Now, regarding your bad experience or experiences... we are all influenced one way or the other by our experiences at one point or another, but that should not cloud our minds. We, above all people, should keep an open mind about different sexual orientations. This is a very important topic. And I say IMPORTANT in capital letters because I do not like to be treated badly, or having people making loose generalizations, or basing their conclusions on stereotypes, or even on bad experiences just because I am gay. Do you see the resemblance? I am gay, yes... but I am me. I am an individual and therefore think and act differently than other gay people. Sure we do have lots in common, but we are all different. Do you a fit perfectly as a gay stereotype? I know I don't... I could careless about hair dressing, I don't like to dance or dance music, I do not have a lisp. I am quite manly and like manly men, so that rules out the femme portion of the stereotype... should I go on?
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Monogamy for some bisexuals is a form of self denial, similar to closet gays.
Who said that closeted gays are in self denial? how can it be self denial when if asked they will tell you that they are gay and that they have sex with people of their same gender? The only difference between a closeted and an outed gay person is perhaps their fear of what society might think of them, but that has nothing to do with denial or sexual insecurities... I think you are mixing terms.
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That's beautiful, you didn't shut yourself off from the possibility of a LTR with someone of the same sex. I thnk it must be a bi men problem. I actually suspected it may be more prelavent among bi men.
So now you are beginning to see bisexual women in a different light, huh? I knew that invoking Rachel/Sprite would make you change your mind. But do you think is different between a bisexual woman and a bisexual man? If you ask me, there is no difference. It does not matter if men are straight, bisexual or gay, all of them may fall in love with a single person. A bisexual person does not carry a sign that tells other people that they are interested in threesomes or roman orgies. We are all human, and we all desire the same thing. That one person that will compliment our day, one person that will help us through thin times, but also laugh and enjoy the good times that life throws our way. I am sorry Derek, but I do have to disagree with you on this one.
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You're snipping me and some is taken out of context!
Monogomy: If a bisexual is monogomous long term they are in denial.
Generally gay men are more promiscuous.
You live in Gaytown USA so I think you're in an unusual and privileged position.
How can a relationship be stable if only one partner is craving cock or pussy.
You're ex, did you know he was bi before you started the relationship? Did he sleep with women during the relationship?
If so, were you okay with it?
Generally speaking bisexual people, although they may be attracted to one gender or another at a given point of their lives, stick to their relationship. Yes, they may like or fall in love with either gender but that does not mean that they have a need for the other sex. To say that a bisexual person will cheat on their partner is like saying that all married men will cheat on their wives. Neither is a given.
Yes, I did know he was bisexual before we started dating; and no he did not sleep with women during our relationship.
Oh, and by the way... yes, I do consider myself priviledge to be living in Gaytown, USA.
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Bisexuals? Are we accepted or maligned? How do you feel about bisexuals? Be honest, I am interested. I want to know what you think.
I never liked labels... I think they are useless because at the end of the day we are all human. That being said, I also think that bisexual people have it rough. Straight people think they are gay, and gay people think they are straight. People with a bisexual orientation are the least understood of them all and some times the least accepted.
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By their very nature they tend not to be monogamous and they tend to be hetero with a gay urge, very rarely gay with a straight urge, or so they say.
This statement is not a fair statement. I have lots of bisexual friends that are quite happy with their current boyfriend/girlfriend and are monogamous. Actually if you take this statement as true, you would also have to take the stereotype that says that gay men are promiscuos as a true statement. And you know what? although there are lots of gay people that are, I also know lots of gay people that are not. The same applies to bisexual people.
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They can never be in a stable relationship if they aren't prepared to be open and honest and their partner is willing to accept that they will go and get gratification elsewhere.
What? who says that they can never be in a stable relationship? I hope Rachel a.k.a. "Sprite" jumps on this one.
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So getting back to the question, I would never go into a relationship with a bisexual
My last and very good ex-boyfriend was bisexual, and he was as good if not better than my previous gay boyfriends. And no, he did not go looking for women or other men every free second he had. We only split because he had to move out of the country for work, but we still remained friends.
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I love to keep eye contact with my man while I blow his cock... this tells him that I am enjoying giving head as much as he is enjoying receiving it. Plus, while giving head I am constantly alternating and applying different techniques and I enjoy watching which ones gives him the most pleasure ;)
<3 <3
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Very helpful! Thanks
I am very happy to share and help in anyway I can... By the way, someone suggested that you should push out while your man begins to penetrate your sphincter. That works because as you release the outward motion and your rectum returns to its normal position bringing the cock head cozily inside of you, but I do not recommend that practice as you may later suffer prolapse. Instead I recommend that you breath in and relax...
