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Warlock
Over 90 days ago
Heteroflexible Male, 77
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Quote by JennySavage
I've been raised around marines and they are pretty badass, so whats with all the guys wearing girls underwear and wanting their ass played with?
The short answer is this.. you're still young yet.. at some point you will recognize that real men are the ones who keep in touch with their feminine side.. and that doesn't necessarily mean wearing women's panties and having their ass played with.. nor does it mean mowing the yard on weekends wearing camo's and arm wrestling at the bar..
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Relationships.. and specifically sexual relationships are about privilege.. the first kiss.. the first touch.. the first time clothing is removed.. are all privileges being offered from one person to another for the sake of love, lust or momentary pleasure.. certainly all relationships are about sacrifice and negotiation in all things and not just sex.. and yes there is a certain amount of 'bartering' that does occur in sex but only to the extent of mutual pleasure and not singular.. but privilege has to be offered willingly and not cajoled through the use of drugs, alcohol, guilt, or just because you want it "really bad".. sex is about the pleasure of your partner more than your own.. and if she doesn't want or enjoy something then it should never even be on the menu.. depending on whether or not your GF is actually a mate you care for or little more than a booty call, the most important thing to happen is communication.. talk in depth about oral.. vaginal.. and anal sex and make sure you both know the boundaries.. it's all about privilege.. honor it..
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Quote by goose_74
lol warlock just a rebuttal...im not looking to get to the front of any line, and at no point did i mention anything about a motorcycle in this thread, im sure the women on this site are savvy and sophisticated...but honestly dont hide behind your computer and try to make fun of others when your a man in his 60's with a profile picture of a model in his early twenties with a six pack...so honestly...at least im not ashamed of who i am, honestly it looks as if you cant say the same. But its ok...plenty of people in here have been very enjoyable to go back and forth with, and it just seems like two of you have your own issues that you need to work out...and as one of them said... haters hate....so please try to take your insecurities out on me so you can feel better haha...cuz it doesn't bother me....but i would hope that before you try and come back at me again you at least put a pic of yourself...until then i have no more to say to you....
You're right son.. you have nothing more to say to me.. as for my avatar.. that is my actual pic.. I just look really good for my age.. and I need the wings so I can get a little bit off the ground and not drag my johnson on the sidewalk.. uh-oh.. I think your girlfriend is looking at me..
ps... don't feel obligated to respond.. no.. really.. don't respond..
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Hey Goose.. just a comment.. sounds like you had a good run in college.. you could have just put that in your bio.. you're barreling through here on your Ducati and juggling your 80 pound weights and waiting for applause.. this is an adult site where social skills are the way to meet and get accepted.. it's not 4th and goal.. dial it back a tad and let everyone catch up to you.. for the most part the women in here are elegant, sophisticated, very savvy and usually a lot smarter than us guys.. you don't get to jump to the head of the line.. you have to earn it.. so kick back and have another brew.. enjoy the site..
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lol.. Winky.. you could have said "I think I'll re-stain my deck today" and gotten pretty near the same results.. forums are energized by the dynamic people who enter the fray and comment.. sometimes it's like the playground at recess.. sometimes it's like watching paint dry.. it's all good.. so keep posting and don't worry about what path it will take..
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Quote by She
I don't mind it at all. You can still turn the course of the conversation back to original topic, if you want.
I see forum conversations on the same level as having one over beer with people, and it would be extremely silly to settle agenda with friends what we will talk about and nothing else; that we would ignore every possible association and every eureka that sneaks in..
Yes.. well stated..
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Online is just that.. if you are in a safe and happy relationship and you participate in some online adventure it doesn't "cheat" your partner out of anything.. are you cheating Wal-Mart out of anything because you shopped online at Target? in a perfect world your relationship is the cake and all of this other stuff is merely icing.. if anything it makes the cake better.. there's an old adage that says.. "it doesn't matter where you get your appetite from as long as you come home for supper".. a simplistic view I'm sure.. but online adventures are only relevant if you allow yourself to complicate them..
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Quote by chefkathleen
I especially like number 3.. expectations of society.. the same society that allows corporate greed and corruption to devastate economies for personal gain.. the same society that allows governmental excess with oversight.. the same society that says if you don't believe in God you are going to hell.. the same society that accepted Puritanism, witch hunts, and stockades for the poor.. yet an 18 year old boy bringing a 19 year old girl to the prom is totally unacceptable.. I didn't miss the point at all.. I was merely trumpeting the ridiculousness of the situation.. these "naive innocent underage kids" that you keep referring to are exposed to erotica and porn 24 hours a day on TV.. books.. movies.. cable.. dishes.. computers.. Ipads.. internet.. and general daily socialization with more enlightened peers.. yet on this night.. prom night.. a simple date between 2 teenagers is heralded as an attempt by the spawn of Satan to deflower the youth of America.. I ask that we all rise and turn to page 143 in our hymnals.. that's what society wants..
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Quote by chefkathleen
No it wasn't. The people that are under age will more than likely outweigh the ones over. Not counting faculty. They're not deciding what's best for you. You are a grown man for godsake. These are children. Like I said if there's enough of an upset among people attending the dance or controlling the school, let them send home permission slips for attending the prom that are underage but that's not even going to be an option. There's more to it than some boy needing attention, a porn actress needing to relive a childhood that she chose to leave behind and you. There's rules to follow and decorum to be met in a school situation. If you think she's going to go and dress up nicely and sip punch and no one is going to know she's a porn actress you're sadly mistaken or too far out of teen years to remember what happens at school dances. The point isn't that she's going to throw down and take on the males in the house. But it will be talked about and a high school prom isn't the place for that.
Chef.. Chef.. Chef.. I was using the 'me' in a general term.. not that they would ever decide a damn thing for me.. and I would counter that instead of sending home permission slips they should send home a policy statement of fairness and equality and offer that if the parents didn't like it they should keep their children home that evening.. and of course they would talk about it.. proms are made for memories.. can you imagine the high school reunions 20 years from now and someone says.. "hey.. remember when Doofus brought the porn star to the prom?".. it beats the hell out of smoking behind the bleachers and dry humping a cheerleader on the dance floor.. if anyone thinks that bringing a beautiful, hot, sexy 19 year old date to the prom (he's 18 by the way, not a child), is more a factor than the barrage of nudie magazines, pay TV, sex and killing in the movies, and our Republican congress.. then we need to go out on a date..
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I don't think it matters that she's a sweet little thing that's barely in the biz. Or that he should have kept his mouth shut and no one would have been the wiser. The boy knew what he was doing. Bragged about it, how else did the school get wind of it? And the school officials had a decision to make on behalf of the whole of the school and students. Not just him because he craves attention or her because she "chose" to miss her high school prom. So she's a member of the liberated modern women of the 21st century that chooses to be in the porn industry.So? There's more going to the prom than the two of them. Isn't it called a Junior/Senior prom? Doesn't that mean that there will be people under 18 there? She could be his sister but her lifestyle is going to come up in conversation and there are probably some parents that would rather not have their children involved with that yet. If it's that big a deal or not then they could have sent home a letter and permission slip to the parents of the underage kids stating that a person of the adult film industry is going to attend and if you agree that your child can attend please sign below. Problem solved.
Back to my original comment.. I have a problem with other people deciding what's best for me.. at one time blacks weren't allowed in schools.. there have been incidences where some people thought pregnant teenagers shouldn't be allowed to attend school.. they said gays shouldn't be allowed in school.. they can't attend prom together in most cases.. hair is too long.. dresses are too short.. religion can't be discussed.. evolution can't be discussed.. MTV videos were banned when they first came out as too sexual.. and here's the real fact.. I bet if you actually asked the students at that school if they minded her attending prom I will guarantee you that only 10% (if that) would have objected.. so let's not make this about the protection of the many.. it was the pre-determined biases of the few that caused this..
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Too much gear to haul around.. fuckin' knots are miserable to get out of wet rope.. some candle wax stains.. slap and tickle gets old.. and it's a real cock-block to keep hearing "oww!! dammit!!" If I want to work this hard I'll just re-pave my driveway during sex..
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I don't think we've been fair to the young porn star.. she's only 19.. so not too far removed from high school days yet.. what she does is just employment and may not be reflective of the rest of her life.. I don't think she had any plans of throwing her date over a table and putting on a show for the class.. and lastly a lot of kids nowadays go to school with minimal clothing and with every intent of being risque and enticing.. for the close-minded and moralistic "powers that be" to arbitrarily decide that a young 19 year old girl can't attend a prom because of what she does for a living is sheer nonsense.. I'm just sayin'..
