'I won the bet, you should see the other guy.'
Hmmm, I would try to divulge most every secret (not all at once, as that's a bit of a beta technique) to the woman I was wanting to get to know better. And I'd hesitate to 'fall in love' which implies an accidental kind of thing.
Grow love by sharing, listening, experiencing, discovering boundaries, etc...If you divulge your wildest fantasies and find yourself rebuked...move along to the next fish in the aquarium.
camping in tents near Michael Jackson's mausoleum, praying for His resurrection and second...
From the perspective of someone who has been invited a few times to participate, I would not say that the primary principal was in any possible manner....degraded, humiliated nor abused.
I would not have participated if it were otherwise, or I would have attempted to reign in the other (man/men) if the situation appeared to begin spiraling outside the agreed upon boundaries...previously discussed.
I've enjoyed four such occasions in my life, and each woman - called the shots and directed her production. And it's certainly not for everyone. But we all have our limits, don't we?
makes ya wanna rip your eyes out too, eh?
