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WellMadeMale
1 week ago
Straight Male
0 miles · Kansas City

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Type it up and show us what you've created.

You can further enlighten your audience by including parody in your tag line to hopefully lighten any possible hostilities or butt-hurt.

I always try to scope out the tags which authors include, so I have some pre-knowledge of what I'm about to spend some time with.
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I just got to thinking about this response as I was doing some house cleaning which I have done throughout my adult life as a husband and father. I got a little angry at first but then realized you are probably a selfish and unhappy person to begin with. I read some of your replies to form questions and I can see your not happy.
I am not blaming anyone for this issue I just wanted to know if anyone else has had this issue and could tell me how they handled the situation. I love my wife and want our relationship to flourish as it once did. I got some good advice from those that care and some bad advice from some assholes. Might I suggest you take care of your business before giving other your opinion.


You decided to air your dirty laundry on an erotic story website forum where you asked for 'HELP!' - aka opinions to reinforce your thoughts (apparently). There was nothing hostile or assholish about Shadowcat's reply. She didn't demean you nor belittle you in any way. She provided you with a coherent backstory anecdote and then an opinion/option - which you probably felt struck a bit too close to home and you don't like that shit.

Perhaps you're simply not mature enough to even be involved in a mutually beneficial relationship with another human being at this point in time. There's no shame in living alone at any age. Strong and weak people do it all the time, whether by choice or circumstance.

Perhaps, instead of asking for advice online from strangers who could likely give zero fucks - try discussing this with the person from which you wish to rekindle the magic with. Maybe things aren't broken beyond all repair - maybe they are. If so, move on and don't leave your friend/lover/wife in a ditch, emotionally or financially.

Deal with this situation of yours maturely. Find those characteristics and qualities about yourself your wife valued enough to consider throwing in with you and marrying in the first place. Act accordingly.

If that means you need to start purchasing escorts and call-girls to satisfy the physical needs you still have because your libido hasn't been extinguished - go for it. You can't control another person's sex drive no matter how much you might think you once influenced it. Don't assign fault nor blame and keep resentments away from this relationship.

Go ahead, attack me now.
I'd say that this type of physical relationship isn't a one size fits all type of thing.

Sometimes you're going to break up with someone and you instigated the break up.
Other times you're likely to be the one who is blindsided and being dumped.
At other times you both might mutually realize that you'd be better off apart, and to both go maybe meet someone else you might click with better.

Sometimes, you might both agree that the sexual chemistry between you two is worth keeping active. Sometimes you just can't continue with ex-sex and perhaps sometimes you simply don't want that person to ever touch you again - in any manner.

I've been involved in all above situations and sometimes the sexual relationship extends beyond the cohabitation relationship - and eventually even that may end. There are benefits to keeping it alive and there can be drawbacks to doing so also. You just have to be mature and honest enough with yourself and your 'ex' to keep everything amicable/friendly and respectful. Especially when all ties end.

Cause no harm to your ex - should be the overriding principle.
I'd like to attend a concert in a smaller amphitheatre (heart0,000 seating), preferrably outdoor and enjoy a 2-4 hour music jam with a couple of bands or solo acts I like.
Employ whatever it takes to lift yourself out of the debilitating effects of depression, I say.
Quote by NinaC
Thank you WMM! I was starting to think it was me.❤️


I quite enjoy snowballing, Nina. But I too have noticed that some of my male friends find it repulsive - however, they also don't care to perform oral sex on women and pretty much think that any sexual position aside from missionary is way too kinky for them to ever attempt.

People have hang-ups. I don't really let it bother me. Some women I've met can't stand the idea of any man unloading their ejaculation anywhere near their face or (eeek! - Not in my hair!!).

Yet the same women willingly probe a man's anus with their tongue or long to massage his prostate with their finger or a strap on.

If they are a one position women or man and they've never stepped a foot outside their comfort zone, chances are high they never will. I don't try to change their sexual attitude.

Jackie, above, writes stories about anal exploration and bliss, yet never really discusses what his male character(s) does/do with any ejaculation. Most men I know are all about shooting their load, to them - that's about all they can think about. It's certainly not gross.
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Cum is gross.


wut?

Your slip is showing, Jackie.

And you wonder why people wonder. Lush's resident anal sex-worshiping aficionado claims that all semen is gross (even 'his' own).

Danger, Will Robinson...that does not compute
Neither funny nor cool... But worth mentioning just the same.

Who would do this, indeed. This motherfucker, that's who.

Quote by krystalg
I usually don't wear any. I've only ever been around one lover, a man of course, that felt I should wear them when we're out in public. Good old what's-his-name


I for one, appreciate the commando 'look'.
An easy way to make new friends is to go for a slow Sunday drive in the fast lane. Everybody who passes you, waves enthusiastically.


If I were putting together a team to compete in the best humans category, Sprite would be my 1st choice.

Thank you for allowing me to get to know you, Rachel.
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I’m a bit ‘forum rusty’ Wellmade - if discussing the ‘ins and outs’ of anal sex is a bit too trivial for this section, maybe one of the lovely mods will kindly relocate it. ?


I'll volunteer to manipulate and lubricate your forum gearbox, Swollen. Perhaps with a little TLC we could have you back in the proper stroke of this game. Lickety-split!
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Is bad sex worse than no sex?



Orbit shattering sex > phenomenal sex > hierarchy fulfilling sex > no sex > clumsy/virgin sex > horrifying sex > illegal sex > brutalizing sex
Quote by Swollen
So I’ve just read an article pondering the ever-growing trend for anal sex. The question posed in the article; are people having it for pleasure, or having it because it’s continues to be presented as a new frontier?

What’s the opinion?



I think this topic is a welcome addition to the Think Tank! I'm all for anal sex as long as my anal canal is left out of the equation.
I never thought I'd see, in my remaining lifetime, a speaker who could fuck up our language worse than Shrub. Then this nitwit came gliding down an escalator.