I'd never met her and to this day I do not remember her name. My son was in the hospital, and I had volunteered to take the night shift.  My wife and other children were safely ensconced at home, and I had my cell phone and laptop. Back in 1996, the internet was slow dial-up and AOL. There were adult Usenet groups, but AOL was basically adultery online, if you knew how to play it. And I knew. We'd been talking for a few w...