I am struggling to write a romantic story. Every time I start a draft, trying to avoid quick and graphic scenes, I lose focus. No matter what I try, it reads like rubbish. I could use some suggestions, some direction. I really want to expand my erotic writing horizon. Email or google chat me at please!

The categories listed don't quite define where my favorite category would fall. I'm into face sitting, primarily with dominant females, so that might fall under reluctant or BDSM or Oral or.....?

Ladies, please forgive the crude term "tit fuck" but since I've never had one I've always been curious about it - do any of you truly like it and what is exciting or pleasurable about it?

I only hope that the (obviously) man who invented the thong or string bikini enjoys all the women who are kind and proud of enough to show us their butts. I know I do. Even if you're not an ?"ass man", once you see a nice butt in a bikini, well, it's all over.....

In all honesty, the reason I began to read erotica, (and sometimes engage in sexts or emails with women) is for the mental and emotional stimulation since I haven't had sex since my wife died. If a woman wants to sext, email or chat to flirt just for fun to tease and maybe even get each other off, I find that a fun challenge. She doesn't have to look or be perfect except in my mind and telling each other what we would do in person, well, why not?

I like being teased and smothered and ideally if she weighs about 150 or so and likes to be orally pleased, she can spend a lot of time with me.

There are two erotic reasons to have sex with a hooker - one is that she might be prettier and have a better body anybody else you can have sex with and the other is that she will do practically anything to please you, get your money, and entice you to come back. Even if you're just butt fucking her, or getting blow jobs, you need to use condoms AND get tested because she probably doesn't. Your own health is something at risk no matter how hot she is, no matter how much you trust her, or what she claims about other partners. If she says she is not having sex with anybody else - why would a woman rely on one client for her only sexual needs. And if you secretly are fucking somebody else, don't you think she is?

Same here, it seems the marital status of widower draws women in their mid 30;s claiming they like older men, blah, blah, send me a photo handsome and they send those photos seemingly to be the same woman or sisters even, big boobs, thighs and ass dressed provocatively. Then quickly comes the sob story of how dire they are and could you send just a little bit to help. One drives a Jaguar but needed $800 for new tires and $25 for gas. No thanks. I too think they are generated by one source whose aim is to hit a bank account somewhere.

Although wearing one is a good way to advertise the size of your penis, I found it constricting and uncomfortable, especially when I began to get hard.

Sleep or have sex with her? Either - she would be safe if she needed it, or I would try to make her first experience fulfilling and exciting.

I prefer a blow job because, as one sexy lady commented, she can control the orgasm. Nothing like a woman who will take her time, edge me and make me wait, teasing all the time. Maybe stop just as I am about to come and make me eat her to orgasm and then continue with her blow job. Sweet.

While drunk, I listened to a hot audio story, read by a female, and the second time I listened to it I jerked off just like she told me to. It was an audio called "Femdom Cum Countdown" on Literotica by Wifey. Hot as hell when you're drunk and horny.

Having had some lesbians as personal friends, I think they and many bisexual women might prefer women for several reasons. Women are more sensual, more patient, especially when it comes to foreplay. Hot and heavy rough sex is fine with some women and sometimes, but especially when it comes to oral sex, women have the skill to do it best because they know what feels good, etc. without having to direct their partner or give instructions. My lesbian friends say men are goo eager to get a woman off so hey can get off as well. I also think that lesbians are more loyal, faithful than most men, except married men.

I've experienced a lot of things, including sex with two girls, which is the ULTIMATE sex experience. But something I would like to try is to drink the urine from a woman all day, or perhaps from two women, to see how much I could actually consume without getting sick. I've had it weak and strong but never more than I could consume. I know that's disgusting but it's a fantasy at my age.

Since my first wife would not let me cum in her mouth, and out of curiosity, I tried tasting my own cum at home once and did NOT like it. BUT....years later when a woman was dominating me (I was restrained) she sat on my face and made me eat it out of her and, well, under those circumstances, it was tolerable. Bu/t I have no need to try eating it from another guy.

I think good communication would include this info but it would have little bearing on the relationship as far as I was concerned, whether she dated guys or girls.

Being a kinky older guy and having experienced a lot in my life, I would say at this point if I had the right woman it would be...

worshipping her orally and often, multiple orgasms

eating her ass properly

begging or paying her to sit on my face

drinking her urine, in the shower

I've always been abhorred about the idea but lately, after reading about it, talking to some women who like to use a strap on their boyfriend....well....?

More than once, and after the first time, my female boss asked me directly who I had for lunch. I had her for lunch the next day, and the next, and the next.....

For some reason, most women think black cocks are bigger and better, and black girls seem to think white guys have longer and more talented tongues?

If I were a young guy, I'd like to kiss and make out with you because you're cute and sexy. But you wouldn't want to make out with a guy old enough to be your grandpa, so realistically from a fantasy standpoint, I'd "taste" you until you had an orgasm or two and then I'd flip you over and lick your butt until you giggled.

There once was a writer named Will

Eating pussy, he could not get his fill,

He said "I could still get my kicks,

If only between licks,

it came it the form of a pill."

A woman said to the man below,

There's something I want you to know,

Let's pretend it's a race,

While I sit on your face,

Don't stop until it's win, place and show.

There was a man from Deluth,

Who didn't mean to be uncouth,

But he, said, being blunt,

"When I drink from a cunt,

It's better than expensive vermouth."

The young girl, lacking any class,

Made a statement bold as brass,

Sucking my cock she swore

She'd never done it before,

And I laughed heartily into her ass.

Mine says "I like mustard on my mustard"

Broccoli (if broccoli and cauliflower cross bred is broccoflower, would cdauliflower and broccoli be collylilly?)

Pineapple or strawberry?

I know actresses in porn are paid to look like semen is like liquid candy, but in real life, do women really like the taste of their man's cum?

#2 - I'll do anything for her or to her that she tells me to.

I'm a sub for any woman who is confident and demanding enough to make me lie or stay perfectly still with no restraints while she does whatever she wants, especially teasing and denying my release.

If she starts doing it before i get morning wood, it is sexy and I love it. If i have morning wood and she does it, the tension of having to urinate while feeling the intense pleasure of her mouth is amazing. It takes me longer to come, but who's going to complain about that?

It's rock hard as soon as she opens her legs for me or kneels over my face, either one. I soak the sheets with precum but I never rush it. The longer she takes, the more she moans, the harder I get.

I've heard some women say they can come if a man spends enough time and knows how to suck her tits but I've never been good enough at it to make a woman come. But when it comes to eating pussy or ass, I put that in body worship category because I will do either for hours. I like to make a woman come giving her oral pleasure. A pussy is too delicious to abandon until she pushes me away or passes out. Her ass is too tempting, too naughty not go get in there and give it a good rimming. You can't rush eating a pussy or ass.