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Quote by WellMadeMale
You and I, Gabe..would be good friends in real life. I wish we had met in that sphere. You are my kind of person.
Darling Authority Figurine Man;
If you build it they will come. Whoops! Wrong movie!!!
I agree with you... there are a few of you on here I'd love to nibble at your brains and see what makes you tick. You never know what the future holds!!!!
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PS- I know. You just want to see my parts! I know it!!
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My mind. Most definitely my mind. Stimulate my mind and my body obeys.
My ears... I do love to have words whispered in my ears of things to come
Right below the fullness of my breasts, a lick, a slow finger nail over it while I am tied to something, a kiss and I am helpless.
My ears... I do love to have words whispered in my ears of things to come
Right below the fullness of my breasts, a lick, a slow finger nail over it while I am tied to something, a kiss and I am helpless.
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Personally, (if I was the marrying type that is) I would want to test out my long term purchase before committing to one man. It is a lifelong purchase and one that you cannot return for a refund where applicable, or even ask to be recycled. I would say yes, have sex before marriage to ensure that all the parts work, and that they work with my parts. Or draw diagrams.. insert Part A into my Part B, at times Part C and more often than not... enjoy Part D. Sometimes between the co-Parts E and F.
The above being said, if the man I was with was dead set on waiting, and I loved him, I would be willing to make some sort of compromise with him to wait.
I can understand some people wanting to wait, and I respect them for it.
I guess in this day and age; the question of should couples live together before marriage is the new sex before marriage.
The above being said, if the man I was with was dead set on waiting, and I loved him, I would be willing to make some sort of compromise with him to wait.
I can understand some people wanting to wait, and I respect them for it.
I guess in this day and age; the question of should couples live together before marriage is the new sex before marriage.
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I always feel frisky.
And I enjoy getting on cam with those few who I have come to trust not to take photos and share them; ok I lied. I really really enjoy getting on cam with the rare few I've come to enjoy.
As for letting people I do not know? That is a tough one. If I didn't live in China, I'd probably be game for it if my head was not in the shot appearing on a screen. And the amount of money involved. I think it would be hilarious...
"So Woman, where did you get that stack of cash from?"
"Oh! My new job of course!"
"What is your new job?"
"I masturbate for peace on my webcam."
And I enjoy getting on cam with those few who I have come to trust not to take photos and share them; ok I lied. I really really enjoy getting on cam with the rare few I've come to enjoy.
As for letting people I do not know? That is a tough one. If I didn't live in China, I'd probably be game for it if my head was not in the shot appearing on a screen. And the amount of money involved. I think it would be hilarious...
"So Woman, where did you get that stack of cash from?"
"Oh! My new job of course!"
"What is your new job?"
"I masturbate for peace on my webcam."
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Facebook.
In my opinion... one of the weirdest things on earth.
When it still worked here in China... I only really had one to share pictures with my family and friends back home on my private account. It was actually one of the best ways to share pictures. I did get more than a few requests for old school chums to be-friend them. I used this rule... if they are not someone I communicate with on a regular basis (at least monthly) or people want to visit when I visit Canada, then they are not added to my list. I had a great laugh when I went back to Canada this past summer and actually popped into Facebook to try to delete my private account (word to the wise? It's virtually impossible to do so) and I had well over 700 friend requests, do-dahs for groups things whatever those are called and all sorts of things for this mafiaville and gardens. Of those 700ish people who wanted to be-friend me, I only communicated with about fifteen of them, and hadn't seen the rest in over twelve years.
I just really don't see the point in it all to be honest. People have tried to explain it, and many people here were very ticked off when Facebook was blocked by The Great Firewall of China. Me? Email. Love it.
And here is a question for some of you... do you add you online friends to your Facebook? Or have you created a new account for the online people in your life? Or if you add them to your general Facebook listings, do you ask them to keep your online life out of it?
In my opinion... one of the weirdest things on earth.
When it still worked here in China... I only really had one to share pictures with my family and friends back home on my private account. It was actually one of the best ways to share pictures. I did get more than a few requests for old school chums to be-friend them. I used this rule... if they are not someone I communicate with on a regular basis (at least monthly) or people want to visit when I visit Canada, then they are not added to my list. I had a great laugh when I went back to Canada this past summer and actually popped into Facebook to try to delete my private account (word to the wise? It's virtually impossible to do so) and I had well over 700 friend requests, do-dahs for groups things whatever those are called and all sorts of things for this mafiaville and gardens. Of those 700ish people who wanted to be-friend me, I only communicated with about fifteen of them, and hadn't seen the rest in over twelve years.
I just really don't see the point in it all to be honest. People have tried to explain it, and many people here were very ticked off when Facebook was blocked by The Great Firewall of China. Me? Email. Love it.
And here is a question for some of you... do you add you online friends to your Facebook? Or have you created a new account for the online people in your life? Or if you add them to your general Facebook listings, do you ask them to keep your online life out of it?
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I firmly beleive that love stories need not have sex or even masturbation or even petting in them to be a good erotic story.
The anticipation... the build up... the expectation... the desire... all those what if's that run through your head from that first look across a room, that feeling you get the first time his hand brushes the bare skin over your arm... to build a story around this, to drag your reader by their teeth and nails to get them captivated by your words alone... to put off the body to stimulate the mind and heart... this is what separates a good erotic writer from a smut writer.
To put feelings to words, to explain the passion, the desire and the need for his (ok hers too) touch.... the buildup behind it all... that is the story for me. Not the sex.
This is very true, but it comes with one caveat, these stories are harder to craft because the writing needs to be good to convey the love--or I should say they need to be stronger than a plain straight sex story to be profound and to achieve the good erotic story. Not to discourage anyone.
I was having an argument with someone else yesterday actually about that very same topic. I claimed that writing a solid romance story that moves a person is just as difficult as writing an erotically sexual story that arouses a person. The person I was arguing with said that writing an erotically sexual story is much more difficult than writing a solid romance story.
A story, written by a story teller will be good no matter if it has sex in it or not.
The hard part is just learning how to become a story teller!!!
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Maybe it is not you. Maybe he is dealing with something and just has lost respect for himself.
The only good advice one can give you is to open the lines of communication with him.
And you never know. It could just be somewhere along the line, you both stopped connecting, work, life etc... got in the way... and didn't even realise when it became a habit.
Good luck!
The only good advice one can give you is to open the lines of communication with him.
And you never know. It could just be somewhere along the line, you both stopped connecting, work, life etc... got in the way... and didn't even realise when it became a habit.
Good luck!
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Personally I prefer trimmed. Just like many a men complain about "the bush factor" or "flossing" when they go down on a woman, there is nothing I hate more than coughing up hairballs.
Fair is fair. If the man I am with asks for me to be shaved smooth, I ask the same of him.
Fair is fair. If the man I am with asks for me to be shaved smooth, I ask the same of him.
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NO!!!! (wait, let me stomp my foot to really make that point)
I firmly beleive that love stories need not have sex or even masturbation or even petting in them to be a good erotic story.
The anticipation... the build up... the expectation... the desire... all those what if's that run through your head from that first look across a room, that feeling you get the first time his hand brushes the bare skin over your arm... to build a story around this, to drag your reader by their teeth and nails to get them captivated by your words alone... to put off the body to stimulate the mind and heart... this is what separates a good erotic writer from a smut writer.
To put feelings to words, to explain the passion, the desire and the need for his (ok hers too) touch.... the buildup behind it all... that is the story for me. Not the sex.
PM me with the link to your story when its published... if you can do it... I want to read it!!!!!
I firmly beleive that love stories need not have sex or even masturbation or even petting in them to be a good erotic story.
The anticipation... the build up... the expectation... the desire... all those what if's that run through your head from that first look across a room, that feeling you get the first time his hand brushes the bare skin over your arm... to build a story around this, to drag your reader by their teeth and nails to get them captivated by your words alone... to put off the body to stimulate the mind and heart... this is what separates a good erotic writer from a smut writer.
To put feelings to words, to explain the passion, the desire and the need for his (ok hers too) touch.... the buildup behind it all... that is the story for me. Not the sex.
PM me with the link to your story when its published... if you can do it... I want to read it!!!!!
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I don't know if I agree with cheating in a sexless marriage or not. If it is just sexless, get a toy. Masturbate for peace for gosh sakes. If it is the loss of intimacy; that feeling of closeness, then figure out how to get it back.
I am not married, so I might be just talking out of my arse here. But I have seen people get more lazy over time and taking the easy way out of difficult situations. Rather than work at being happy (for it is hard work to be happy), people would rather just walk away to the next thing that floats their boats.
It all depends on the situation, the people involved, and what one has done about it. For me personally, I'd be more likely to emotionally cheat than physically cheat.
I am not married, so I might be just talking out of my arse here. But I have seen people get more lazy over time and taking the easy way out of difficult situations. Rather than work at being happy (for it is hard work to be happy), people would rather just walk away to the next thing that floats their boats.
It all depends on the situation, the people involved, and what one has done about it. For me personally, I'd be more likely to emotionally cheat than physically cheat.
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If I am in a relationship with the man.... nope. I'd go buy something special for him to take off me later on. Or buy a new toy. Yes. New toy!!!!!!
If I am not in a relationship with the man? And he just handed me money willy nilly? I'd look at it and say, "That's it?????" Maybe I might be able to get more from the idiot then go on vacation.
If I am not in a relationship with the man? And he just handed me money willy nilly? I'd look at it and say, "That's it?????" Maybe I might be able to get more from the idiot then go on vacation.
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Smartballs.
Gosh. Yes. Smartballs.
One of my favourite exercise thingies I have ever invested in. And the most used. And the most satisfying. And the most turnonable exercise equipment I've discovered.
If you are worried, and you enjoy sex (gosh, I should become a sales Woman or something....) and you enjoy being sneaky in public (or private sneaky???) insert these balls, and jump rope. Go to a book store. Meet the girls for coffee. Go to work. Just don't climb stairs. Big word of advice. Don't climb stairs. Maybe while vacuuming you will wear them. If you haven't guessed it, you can wear them anywhere.
They are a ball within a ball, inserted into your vagina, and they help to strengthen your pelvic floor. This increases the intensity of your orgasm, makes you tighter by toning those muscles, and helps to prevent those little pees when you sneeze or laugh too much later on in life. I can't spell the word I want to spell here.
Another item you might want to try, but I cannot remember what the specific name is, but they are similar to ben-wa balls, are what I call The Stones. They are three precious stones, that are egg shaped in various sizes. You insert the largest to begin, and clamp your walls tight around it and go about what you need to go about doing. Over time, you use the medium sized stone, then finally the smallest. It helps to strengthen your muscles.
Now the bonus. Using both of these, I've discovered that my period pains are much less and little to no cramping either.
I use either or on a daily basis, and I have been told that I have an amazing pussy. Although, that one guy who was just... well wow... thick as my wrist, he said I was way too tight for him. I told him he was just way too big for me.
Gosh. Yes. Smartballs.
One of my favourite exercise thingies I have ever invested in. And the most used. And the most satisfying. And the most turnonable exercise equipment I've discovered.
If you are worried, and you enjoy sex (gosh, I should become a sales Woman or something....) and you enjoy being sneaky in public (or private sneaky???) insert these balls, and jump rope. Go to a book store. Meet the girls for coffee. Go to work. Just don't climb stairs. Big word of advice. Don't climb stairs. Maybe while vacuuming you will wear them. If you haven't guessed it, you can wear them anywhere.
They are a ball within a ball, inserted into your vagina, and they help to strengthen your pelvic floor. This increases the intensity of your orgasm, makes you tighter by toning those muscles, and helps to prevent those little pees when you sneeze or laugh too much later on in life. I can't spell the word I want to spell here.
Another item you might want to try, but I cannot remember what the specific name is, but they are similar to ben-wa balls, are what I call The Stones. They are three precious stones, that are egg shaped in various sizes. You insert the largest to begin, and clamp your walls tight around it and go about what you need to go about doing. Over time, you use the medium sized stone, then finally the smallest. It helps to strengthen your muscles.
Now the bonus. Using both of these, I've discovered that my period pains are much less and little to no cramping either.
I use either or on a daily basis, and I have been told that I have an amazing pussy. Although, that one guy who was just... well wow... thick as my wrist, he said I was way too tight for him. I told him he was just way too big for me.
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I met a boy in high school.
We didn't hit it off then.
He was WAY too intense.
And I enjoy laughing too much.
We stayed friends.
I moved to China.
We lost touch. (curse you Great Firewall of China!!!!)
Again, we met up online.
Chatted for ages.
So I went to visit.
Had a fabulous time.
Short choppy sentences... such fun!!!
Seriously... online dating? Whatever. It doesn't really matter where you meet a person, how you meet a person, where a person comes from. All that matters is that you compliment the other (and not just oh wow! You cut your hair! How nice! but the I mean your strengths and weakness, beleifs etc... compliment the other) and you hit it off.
Online dating is grand fun. It is a meeting of the minds, a place where you really must communicate with your partner and voice your thoughts and opinions. It gives you the courage to be you without societies sillyness. And when you meet? All the more fun.
I've met a quite a few people from online, as friends, and I've always had a blast and enjoyed myself. Even with my online friends, meeting them in real life was nerve racking for me. And the hardest part of it all, was remembering we were face to face and I did not have to type.
We didn't hit it off then.
He was WAY too intense.
And I enjoy laughing too much.
We stayed friends.
I moved to China.
We lost touch. (curse you Great Firewall of China!!!!)
Again, we met up online.
Chatted for ages.
So I went to visit.
Had a fabulous time.
Short choppy sentences... such fun!!!
Seriously... online dating? Whatever. It doesn't really matter where you meet a person, how you meet a person, where a person comes from. All that matters is that you compliment the other (and not just oh wow! You cut your hair! How nice! but the I mean your strengths and weakness, beleifs etc... compliment the other) and you hit it off.
Online dating is grand fun. It is a meeting of the minds, a place where you really must communicate with your partner and voice your thoughts and opinions. It gives you the courage to be you without societies sillyness. And when you meet? All the more fun.
I've met a quite a few people from online, as friends, and I've always had a blast and enjoyed myself. Even with my online friends, meeting them in real life was nerve racking for me. And the hardest part of it all, was remembering we were face to face and I did not have to type.
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Pffffft!!!!
When ever I hear someone say there is no such thing as bad sex I do get my knickers in a twist. For everything in life has two sides. A good and a bad side. Sex is no different.
Now on the other hand.... if you've not had sex in a long while... and you actually get to have sex.... it is better than nothing. So!!! Gentlemen and those Ladies who do say it... I have unbunched my knickers and I salute you. You are filled with optimism!!!!!! Way to go!
the above was said with no sarcasm whatsoever... disclaimer over
When ever I hear someone say there is no such thing as bad sex I do get my knickers in a twist. For everything in life has two sides. A good and a bad side. Sex is no different.
Now on the other hand.... if you've not had sex in a long while... and you actually get to have sex.... it is better than nothing. So!!! Gentlemen and those Ladies who do say it... I have unbunched my knickers and I salute you. You are filled with optimism!!!!!! Way to go!
the above was said with no sarcasm whatsoever... disclaimer over
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Who I like is their right hand, they are self-confident, smart and excelllent in bed.
In my personal opinion, I generally find that the "right hand" of the men who are cocky, egotistical etc... are the alpha males and not the loud ones. In my personal life, I've discovered that the louder a person is, the more that they have a need to prove to themselves and others that they are seen/heard etc... it is the men and women who do not need to prove themselves to anyone but themselves (an a small select few for whom they are close too) that I would consider to be an alpha type personality.
For an alpha I think, has quiet strength and does not need to show it. You see the puppet, but rarely see the puppeteer who puts on the show.
To me, an alpha male is a man who is confident enough to let me continue to grow to discover who I am as well as let me take care of myself. And someone who will be there with a helping hand when I need help. SilverArdorDragon I think said it best. These men are hard to find!
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Quote by thepainter
I'm a Dragon.
Pardon my insane desire to share little interesting tidbits of cultural information!!!!!!!!
But...
HAIL TO THE CHIEF!!!!!!!
Dragons mean the Emperor, and The Phoenix, is the Empress. And rule The Middle Kingdom.
If you want to know your sign, and more about your specific traits, here is a wiki link that will lead you through your elements and your sign. But if you want just a general over view that is pretty decent, try this site.
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Quote by nicola
I wasn't sure I had the Chinese right, hopefully it's close enough
Oh.. I was just going to say Hello Cock Lady! But that would be very bad on my part!!!
You got it right!!! Xian nian kuai le is just Happy New Year.
I am a Hoe. I mean Monkey.
"Monkeys are fun and loving people who are always cheerful and energetic."
I think they got it all wrong!! LOL!!!