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alittle2horny
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 55
0 miles · San Diego

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Cheating is anything that makes your partner lose trust in you.

The problem is that you two may not have the same definition of cheating. Also, your loss of trust may be completely internal to you and have nothing to do with your partner or their actions.

I looked at porn and fantasized about intangible fantasy women, but I never displayed even the perception of actually cheating. The one time she thought I was cheating, she lied and came home early to catch me but I was putting together a surprise bday party for her that weekend.

My ex thought that I was cheating because I was violating a commandment to not covet another. (she was very selectively religious). But on the other hand, I thought she was cheating because she was texting a local guy and sending him sexy pics, deleting most of her texts to him and then she initiated a meeting in a darkened parking lot at night. Did they have sex? I guess not but to me that was emotional cheating and they would have physically cheated if circumstances would have allowed them to meet that night.

Everyone's definition is different. A couple, whether monogamous, swingers or poly, needs to define the rules early.
I would love it. I would love to walk in on her watching porn...love for her to tell me what she likes. And then leave her alone or hopefully she'd let me watch and play with her.
not sure I understand why you wouldn't be considered attractive by anyone, much less older guys like me. You're beautiful, college educated, obviously somewhat naughty for even being on lush, you like football, you're a self proclaimed "very bad girl" when it's the right person...whether you're 23 or 46, who wouldn't be interested? I'm sure you'll have this problem for the rest of your life smile
Before Bed and when I get up...and then at least once during the day/night....to keep up spontaneity...minimum 3 would be ideal....in reality 2 is perfect
I've been told I'm very good and the goal is to make her cum long before my dick even makes it's appearance but I know that I'm probably an 8. There's more I can learn...there's always something new...plus I just strive to do better each time...always working and improving at something I love to do.
it's so much fun...it tastes good...I love the feeling I can make her have...having the control over her and just giving her complete unselfish pleasure is the goal.
I wouldn't say it was mandatory but I'm certainly looking for a bi woman first.
For me...some of it's the obvious...young, gorgeous body...firm soft skin...pert, tight...just a purity and innocence about her. It's not about teaching her anything. I've noticed a lot of younger women I've talked to have done a lot more than I have. I love the aspect...tell me why I can't have it and I want it more. I love the fact that we'd get looks if we went out. I get off on knowing I can attract someone in a different generation whether that's physically, mentally or, hopefully, both. I don't want to act my age and truthfully I feel the same as I was when I was 21...I like that...there's no reason to take everything so seriously.

Also, I love the dominance over a younger woman. Being in control is much easier and more fulfilling now that I'm older. I know who I am and what I want. If I can get it and make two people happy that's perfect. That idea of being Daddy and have her idolize me and think I'm great is intoxicating. I want to see that look in her eyes that I'm protecting her and giving her everything at the same time. I like when they trust you and tell you all their hidden desires and deepest thoughts.

And as much as there are advantages to younger women...there are just as many for older. It's not a competition. I can like both. If I were to give percentage it would be 50.1% younger women and 49.9% older. The difference is really negligible but if there's a choice to be made...I made it.
Concentrate on her more and you will get back your investment tenfold. Give her intimacy, some imagination, love and orgasms and she'll do anything.
My wife thinks porn and fantasizing is cheating. I think sexting guys and then trying to meet them alone and getting caught before they could meet is as good as cheating.

I would not trust anyone who cheats again but my next relationship will be very open from the start.
I'm not a big fan of these questions but I feel I had to answer. It's like the blonde or brunette question or thick vs thin.

If I had to vote, it would be a 50.1% in favor of teen and 49.9% in favor of MILF...it's so close the difference is negligible which makes the question moot...

I would love both and as Jay R above said "and all the better if its at the same time"
Mine was 50


How big is your ego?


Your score is: 50

According to your score on the test, you range from the humblest of the humble to a bigheaded show-off, depending on the situation. Chances are, you're pretty fond of yourself but are generally able to keep your ego in check. From time to time, however, you just can't resist the urge to overtly strut your stuff. Maybe you're extremely confident about your looks or proud of your career accomplishments - which is perfectly fine. Just be careful not to rub it in other people's faces or develop a superiority complex. If you really are so fabulous, there's no need to scream it off the rooftops - everyone will already know!
I went back through this list to see if anyone else got a 100. Whew...not the only one. Hey...what can I tell you? The screen name is true. I'm just happy I got a perfect score. Lol

Your score is: 100

What does your score mean?

This probably isn't much of a shocker, but you've got a one-track mind! Either your hormones have taken over your brain or you're feeling deprived in some way, because s-e-x is the first thing that pops into your mind on almost any occasion. This may or may not be a problem, depending on the point to which your fantasizing takes over your mental processes - thinking about getting it on is a vital part of any healthy sex drive, but it can bring trouble when it's too extreme. As long as you are still able to shut off that part of your brain when need be (while working, for example), there's no cause for concern.
I would watch silently and love to see you experience yourself. and...of course..masturbate myself because you're just so damn hot ;)
I've done it in places where the likelihood of getting caught is low..cars, cruise ship balconies...the beaches in Kauai have seen a lot of me, islands...somehow I like to have sex on islands, Santa Cruz Island CA, all over the Caribbean and Hawaiian Islands.

I have always been willing to get riskier...open hotel windows during the day, maybe quietly by a resort pool, club bathroom, restaurant or crowded movie theater...all sounds fun...Highway Overpass during the day..yes
FFM looks like a lot of fun but I think MFM because I'd want to see her overcome with with pleasure. Maybe someday.
How could anyone not like eating pussy? I love making them squirm. The more hip action the better I know I'm doing...plus I like to lick ass so it's kind of the gateway to ass licking ;)