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belle02026
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I used to have my hood pierced. The piercing itself is far less painful than any other piercing I've ever had, and I had 14 piercings.
When I got mine pierced the piercer placed a little metal tube over my clit to avoid piercing it along with the clit. It took less than 2 minutes and it felt like a pinch. I had sex the same night eventhough I was adviced not to. I never experienced any type of pain while I had it. Unfortunately I was changing the jewelry and became aroused. I thought I screwed the bead on tight enough but was unable to make sure as I was rather wet so I lost the jewelry. My guess, it happened in an airplane toilet enroute from Boston to Turkey. I was rather sad at the time. It's been years but I may get it done again sometime.
When I got mine pierced the piercer placed a little metal tube over my clit to avoid piercing it along with the clit. It took less than 2 minutes and it felt like a pinch. I had sex the same night eventhough I was adviced not to. I never experienced any type of pain while I had it. Unfortunately I was changing the jewelry and became aroused. I thought I screwed the bead on tight enough but was unable to make sure as I was rather wet so I lost the jewelry. My guess, it happened in an airplane toilet enroute from Boston to Turkey. I was rather sad at the time. It's been years but I may get it done again sometime.
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I remember the first HUGE penis I ever saw. I was terrified of it! That thing was definitely over a foot.
My current dude is roughly 11.5" with some incredibly girth. While it can be painful, it isn't always painful. Anal sex with him, is absolutely painful yet a delight! Maybe I'm just crazy though...
My current dude is roughly 11.5" with some incredibly girth. While it can be painful, it isn't always painful. Anal sex with him, is absolutely painful yet a delight! Maybe I'm just crazy though...
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Absolutely! I would never date a guy who works at McDonald's or something similar. Education is of high importance to me. I value my education and I hope my partner does as well. If we can't carry intelligent conversations I will not be interested. This is not to say that every person who works at McDonald's is uneducated, by any means.
When I think about it, I know I would be embarassed to introduce my boyfriend, fiance, husband to my circle of friends or coworkers who would ask "So what do you do for a living?". Judge me if you want but that's my honest answer. It has nothing to do with his ability to buy me gifts or take care of me. I don't care if he's the manager who overseas ten McDonald's. I still couldn't and wouldn't do it. Also keep in mind I am only stating I wouldn't be involved in a relationship as it's a different ballgame if it was solely sex.
When I think about it, I know I would be embarassed to introduce my boyfriend, fiance, husband to my circle of friends or coworkers who would ask "So what do you do for a living?". Judge me if you want but that's my honest answer. It has nothing to do with his ability to buy me gifts or take care of me. I don't care if he's the manager who overseas ten McDonald's. I still couldn't and wouldn't do it. Also keep in mind I am only stating I wouldn't be involved in a relationship as it's a different ballgame if it was solely sex.
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*Like* the guy was pushing me all day long insisting I was 'ripe', whatever that is supposed to mean? I'm a plum or fig, perhaps, ready to be plucked?
This totally made me laugh.
I think he was trying to translate literally from Spanish. In which case, you'd actually literally say the girl was ripe sort of like fruit would be ripe for picking. This was literally lost in translation.
Anyways...
The day I lost my virginity I wasn't pressured. I was dating my then boyfriend for almost three years before I ever had sex with him.We had sex during those three years just not vaginal sex. Weird, I know. Long story though. He always tried to push the boundaires further but I always stopped him. This one time, when he tried to see how far I'd let him go I never stopped him and he was quite shocked. I remember we tried and tried but I was too scared, I suppose. We resorted to anal sex and tried vaginal sex the next day. It was under no pressure whatsoever.
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I often masturbate in the bathroom after lunch and very seldomly in my office. I always wonder if people will know that I've just masturbated. As far as I know, no one has ever caught on. LOL!
Not someting naughty at work but I often have extremely vivid and sexually explicit dreams about my boss. It's so weird because I'm not physically attracted to him at all. The day following my dreams I always feel funny around him. I have also started mentally recalling my dreams when I'm sitting in his office. I have caught myself sitting across the desk from him, looking at his fingers and wondering what they would feel like inside of me, wondering how he likes sex, how often to has sex, how good he is in bed, the size of his penis, etc.
Just the other day, I took a picture of myself naked from the waist down in a conference room at work. I took the picture during lunch breaks. The risk involved in capturing the picture made it that much more exciting. I turned the lights off, opened the window shades and set up the camera on a tripod. Quickly removing my pants I snapped a few pictures and sent them to my boyfriend.
At a previous job, I would often have sex at work. On airplanes, in hotels, etc. and with coworkers.
Not someting naughty at work but I often have extremely vivid and sexually explicit dreams about my boss. It's so weird because I'm not physically attracted to him at all. The day following my dreams I always feel funny around him. I have also started mentally recalling my dreams when I'm sitting in his office. I have caught myself sitting across the desk from him, looking at his fingers and wondering what they would feel like inside of me, wondering how he likes sex, how often to has sex, how good he is in bed, the size of his penis, etc.
Just the other day, I took a picture of myself naked from the waist down in a conference room at work. I took the picture during lunch breaks. The risk involved in capturing the picture made it that much more exciting. I turned the lights off, opened the window shades and set up the camera on a tripod. Quickly removing my pants I snapped a few pictures and sent them to my boyfriend.
At a previous job, I would often have sex at work. On airplanes, in hotels, etc. and with coworkers.
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I've been waxing for over ten years now. I love the smoothness. I have found over the years the pain becomes less and less the more you do it. Definitely get it done by a professional. As a guy, you may have a harder time finding a place that does it. I know in my area, a lot of places do not do brazilians on men. Find a place that uses Blue wax over the traditional wax. Blue wax can be peeled off without using a strip of paper. The other wax requires a strip of paper over it to pull the hair. In South America a lot of places use traditional wax and when my American friends would come along to get waxed they would never last during the entire process as it's quite painful with thr strip.
It will hurt your first time. Definitely take a couple Advils before going to help with the pain. Once you are smooth,you'll absolutely love it.
It will hurt your first time. Definitely take a couple Advils before going to help with the pain. Once you are smooth,you'll absolutely love it.
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I've had hair past my butt and I've had hair super short like a guy.
All of my hair fell out once and I was lucky if I had 1" left all over. At first, I was devastated. I equated my sexuality with the length of my hair. To be honest, I learned to live with it and although I wouldn't cut my hair that short ever I did realize it wasn't what defined how sexy I was or wasn't.
If I was in a serious relationship and a guy expressed his love for short hair I may do it once but I doubt I'd ever keep it short long term. Personally, I feel my face shape looks best with longer hair.
All of my hair fell out once and I was lucky if I had 1" left all over. At first, I was devastated. I equated my sexuality with the length of my hair. To be honest, I learned to live with it and although I wouldn't cut my hair that short ever I did realize it wasn't what defined how sexy I was or wasn't.
If I was in a serious relationship and a guy expressed his love for short hair I may do it once but I doubt I'd ever keep it short long term. Personally, I feel my face shape looks best with longer hair.
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Ha, it says I will live to be 100. Not too sure I'd want to live THAT long! I do wonder what sex at such an old age would be like.
My paternal grandmother just turned 90 this year and is showing no signs of slowing down.
My father on the other hand died at 64. His father died around the same age.
My maternal grandparents lived to be closer to 90.
We'll see.
My paternal grandmother just turned 90 this year and is showing no signs of slowing down.
My father on the other hand died at 64. His father died around the same age.
My maternal grandparents lived to be closer to 90.
We'll see.
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If the sex was great I think about all the fun we could have doing this, that and the other.
If it sucks I think about what I have to tell him to make sure I never see him again.
If it sucks I think about what I have to tell him to make sure I never see him again.
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I once met a guy whom I referred to as Elephant Trunk. He was a great conversationalist, funny, intelligent and full of spunk (no pun intended). I rememeber all the fun we had together traveling between Florida, NYC and Boston. We'd call each other up and meet up in different cities. What I most vividly remember about him was the night things went further. When I saw his penis I was seriously scarred. The thing hung down his thigh, seriously. I couldn't even put my mouth around it and to stroke it fully I had to use two hands. Needless to say, I told him that thing would not be entering my orifices at any point. I woud guess he was at least a foot long and as slightly smaller than a can of soda. Many years later, I now regret trying to see what that would of been like...
On the other hand, some years after that I found myself lusting after the IT guy at my job for about a year. I was dating someone at the time so I appreciated the eye candy from afar until I was single. I would make things "break" and put in a service ticket to have him come out and look at it. One day we were alone and I asked him if he did side work, fixing computers. He gave me his number and we started meeting up for lunch the following week. We flirted heavily in the office while trying to remain discreet. We emailed each other all day long. I even set up an email rule so I would be alerted every time he emailed me. (Ha!) The sexual tension was incredibly high on both accounts. This continued for weeks until one weekend he invited me to one of his soccer games. Afterwards, we went to my house and we started fooling around. Eventually it got to a point were sex was next. When I saw his penis I definitely thought, "Is that it???!!". I was so disappointed and that's an understatement. I kid you not, his erect penis made a vienna sausage look like a keilbasa. I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I proceeded with the activities we started but I was more than disappointed. I had to play it cool though since we worked together.
On the other hand, some years after that I found myself lusting after the IT guy at my job for about a year. I was dating someone at the time so I appreciated the eye candy from afar until I was single. I would make things "break" and put in a service ticket to have him come out and look at it. One day we were alone and I asked him if he did side work, fixing computers. He gave me his number and we started meeting up for lunch the following week. We flirted heavily in the office while trying to remain discreet. We emailed each other all day long. I even set up an email rule so I would be alerted every time he emailed me. (Ha!) The sexual tension was incredibly high on both accounts. This continued for weeks until one weekend he invited me to one of his soccer games. Afterwards, we went to my house and we started fooling around. Eventually it got to a point were sex was next. When I saw his penis I definitely thought, "Is that it???!!". I was so disappointed and that's an understatement. I kid you not, his erect penis made a vienna sausage look like a keilbasa. I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I proceeded with the activities we started but I was more than disappointed. I had to play it cool though since we worked together.
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I think as a woman's number gets higher, she starts to 'black out' certain experiences in her own mind to keep her number lower and see what she can avoid counting as something that increases her number (ie. Clinton's "I did not have sex with that woman" philosophy). And, even on a personal level, in so far as being bisexual, I don't even count female sex partners (those are freebies to me! LOL).
I think in the end, for those who keep track, you just end up with women lying to keep her numbers low, and men inflating to make themselves look like a stud. I'm not sure how meaningful these numbers end up being after the official stats have been rearranged.
I'm not even sure what's considered 'low mileage' vs 'high mileage' anymore...
I'm not so concerned about numbers (provided they've led a 'safe sex' kind of lifestyle), but I do like hearing about sexual adventures and crazy sex stories from my partner's past because I find it hot to listen to those 'tales from the vault'... Quality over quantity has always been what's interested me. And that philosophy can be applied to my own 'number' as well.
I agree 100%.
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I may be in the minority here but in a sexless marriage there isn't always the opportunity to talk about it, figure out the issues that have made the marriage sexless. In order for that to happen, both parties need to admit there is a problem. What happens when one party feels the lack of sex isn't an issue? What if one party feels strongly against marriage counseling? Point being both parties have to be willing to admit there is an issue as well as willing to work on resolving the issue.
Are you then saying if someone doesn't want to recognize there are issues and doesn't want to invest in getting through the issues, the other party should still remain faithful since cheating is the absolute evil? Hell no! Not me, and I doubt the large majority would feel loyal to their partner if they weren't willing to admit the issue and work through it. Which then brings us, hopefully, to another point; divorce.
I was in a sexless marriage. Although I was the one who refused to have sex with him. I withheld it because there were other issues in the marriage. I tried to talk to my husband about the issues that prevented me from wanting to have sex with him. He thought I was nuts. I suggested counseling, he felt we didn't need it. Well, I still had needs and I cheated. He wanted to save the marriage but kept using the blame game. All the problems we, as a couple were having, were because I was the issue. (This was the case before I cheated on him.) He still to this day doesn't know I ever cheated on him.
Would I cheat again if I was to be married again? Well, I can't say no for sure but I'd definitely be wiser in choosing a partner in the future. Hopefully one who is far more mature and can effectively communicate so cheating would never have to cross my mind. LOL
Are you then saying if someone doesn't want to recognize there are issues and doesn't want to invest in getting through the issues, the other party should still remain faithful since cheating is the absolute evil? Hell no! Not me, and I doubt the large majority would feel loyal to their partner if they weren't willing to admit the issue and work through it. Which then brings us, hopefully, to another point; divorce.
I was in a sexless marriage. Although I was the one who refused to have sex with him. I withheld it because there were other issues in the marriage. I tried to talk to my husband about the issues that prevented me from wanting to have sex with him. He thought I was nuts. I suggested counseling, he felt we didn't need it. Well, I still had needs and I cheated. He wanted to save the marriage but kept using the blame game. All the problems we, as a couple were having, were because I was the issue. (This was the case before I cheated on him.) He still to this day doesn't know I ever cheated on him.
Would I cheat again if I was to be married again? Well, I can't say no for sure but I'd definitely be wiser in choosing a partner in the future. Hopefully one who is far more mature and can effectively communicate so cheating would never have to cross my mind. LOL
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¿Tiburones? ¿Quieres que te muerdan? Ahí parece que te gustan las cosas caliente. Y el mete-sace dentro del agua alde muchisimo chico. Pobre muchacha. Mejor en la playa.. dando vuelta en la arena.
Bueno, la verdad es que nunca lo he hecho dentro del agua, es una de esas cosas que todo el mundo tendría que hacer al menos una vez en la vida.
Que pena. Lo deberias hacer entonces. Buena suerte en hacerlo. Te puedo decir que era una fantasia mia. Era...
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I would absolutely not accept a man just giving me money. It makes me feel uncomfortable to accept money from people in general.
Culturally I am in the minority. It is acceptable and often expected for a man to randomly give a woman money just because she has needs and he is her man. To me that's part of the Latina subserviant world that I don't agree with but that's a different story.
Okay then, if we meet in Ecuador, I'll let you invite me for a few drinks. And what the hell, something to eat too...and then a movie and some soccer match, dont worry, I dont like fancy meals.
Funny, you are.
I see nothing wrong with a woman paying for a date or even splitting the cost. What I see a problem with is our culture's machistas feeling a sense of ownership over a woman whom they randomly give money to. Which is what this thread was about, right?
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Es verdad, no hay nada tan anti-cmlíax que terminar con rozaduras y picores....el mete-saca tendrá que ser dentro del agua, espero que no haya tiburones.
¿Tiburones? ¿Quieres que te muerdan? Ahí parece que te gustan las cosas caliente. Y el mete-sace dentro del agua alde muchisimo chico. Pobre muchacha. Mejor en la playa.. dando vuelta en la arena.
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I would absolutely not accept a man just giving me money. It makes me feel uncomfortable to accept money from people in general.
Culturally I am in the minority. It is acceptable and often expected for a man to randomly give a woman money just because she has needs and he is her man. To me that's part of the Latina subserviant world that I don't agree with but that's a different story.
Culturally I am in the minority. It is acceptable and often expected for a man to randomly give a woman money just because she has needs and he is her man. To me that's part of the Latina subserviant world that I don't agree with but that's a different story.
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I am amazed by technological adavances. Specifically technological aids available to visual impared individuals. A completely blind person can now use a device to make sure they don't over pour liquids, to determine paper money denomination, find out the color of their clothing to make sure they match, read a newspaper, read regular mail.. all non braille.
It's quite amazing!
It's quite amazing!
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Palm Islands in Dubai
From Wiki...
The Palm Jumeirah ( Coordinates: 25°06′28″N 55°08′15″E ) consists of a tree trunk, a crown with 17 fronds, and a surrounding crescent island that forms an 11 kilometer-long breakwater. The island itself is 5 kilometers by 5 kilometers. It will add 78 kilometers to the Dubai coastline. The first phase of development on the Palm Jumeirah will create 4,000 residences with a combination of villas and apartments over the next 3 to 4 years.
Residents began moving into their Palm Jumeirah properties at the end of 2006, five years after land reclamation began, according to project developer Nakheel Properties. This signaled the end of phase one of construction, which includes approximately 1,400 villas on 11 of the fronds of the island and roughly 2,500 shoreline apartments in 20 buildings on the east side of the trunk.
Nakheel Properties will mark the arrival of the first residents by bringing one of the world's largest airships to Dubai. It has agreed to a deal with Airship Management Services Inc. for a 197 feet (60 m) long, 250,000-cubic-foot (7,100 m3) Skyship 600 dirigible.
According to Nakheel Properties officials, the process of adding 78 kilometers of beach is under way, while eight of the 32 hotels on The Palm Jumeirah have begun construction, including the Taj Exotica Resort and Spa, which was planned for completion in late 2008 or early 2009, is delayed and now expected to open in early 2010. The first phase Atlantis, The Palm Resort, is scheduled to be completed by December 2008. Atlantis, The Palm opened on 24 September, 2008.
The "Golden Mile", the strip of land located along the center of the trunk overlooking the canal, is set for completion in the first quarter of 2008. The tenants started moving in 30 April 2009. Construction has also begun on the Palm Jumeirah Monorail, which will take three years to complete and will serve as a transit system between the Gateway Station at the trunk of The Palm Jumeirah and the Atlantis Station on the crescent. (Emirates News Agency, WAM).The Monorail opened May 6 2009 only using Atlantis Hotel and Gateway Towers Stations.
I was in Dubai when Palm Island was being built. It was pretty cool. The other islands are pretty awesome too. Especially the atlas one. It's crazy how a nation with so much money will chose to show their wealth.
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Leggins.
Men with leggins!
Skinny jeans wearing men. EWW! EWW! EWW!
Men wearing capris.
Pants falling off their asses.
Women with words across their butts.
Women wearing those tanktops that look like mens tanktops with their bra showing through. Eek, have they looked at themselves in the mirror??
Anything 80s inspired.
Cowboy boots with shorts, skirts, the likes.
overalls
Crocs - the most hideous creation ever!
Men with leggins!
Skinny jeans wearing men. EWW! EWW! EWW!
Men wearing capris.
Pants falling off their asses.
Women with words across their butts.
Women wearing those tanktops that look like mens tanktops with their bra showing through. Eek, have they looked at themselves in the mirror??
Anything 80s inspired.
Cowboy boots with shorts, skirts, the likes.
overalls
Crocs - the most hideous creation ever!
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Quote by javierQuote by belle02026Quote by javierQuote by belle02026
I have pics of me in my profile.
Nice pictures, Belle. By the way, I noticed you are from Ecuador, I spent there (Guayaquil and Quito) a month in 2007, and I am supposed to be back in Manta the next year, I'll keep my eyes wide open in case we come accross ;)
Gracias.
Veo que eres de Barcelona. ¿Hablas español? Lamentablemente no vivo en Ecuador. El año proximo tambien espero regresar.
Sí, tengo planeado comprarme una casa en Manta, y pasarme el día chumado y haciendo el mete-saca todo el día en la playa, es como una especie de sueño decadente, ojalá que se cumpla.
¡Jajaja! El mete-saca. Ojalá que se cumpla. Pero ten cuidado. Tener arena en algunos lugares puede ser malo.
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Quote by javierQuote by belle02026
I have pics of me in my profile.
Nice pictures, Belle. By the way, I noticed you are from Ecuador, I spent there (Guayaquil and Quito) a month in 2007, and I am supposed to be back in Manta the next year, I'll keep my eyes wide open in case we come accross ;)
Gracias.
Veo que eres de Barcelona. ¿Hablas español? Lamentablemente no vivo en Ecuador. El año proximo tambien espero regresar.
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If you are solely atfer avoiding pregnancy and have no desire to become a parent in the next ten years I'd suggest an IUD. You should be in a monogamous relationship if you decide to go that route as your chances of infection increase if you are with multiple partners and have an IUD. There are two kinds of IUDs- hormonal (Mirena) and non hormonal (ParaGuard). I have the ParaGuard and have been extremely happy with it. I forget if I've had it three years or two years but regardless I haven't had a pregnancy scare since having it. I like the IUD because it doesn't cause side effects being that it's non hormonal. It's not something that I have to even think about. I am forgetful in taking medication or just get bored with it after a while. Also, its long term "protection" against pregnancy. I don't have to do anything once it's placed and it's long term. Once I am at a point, where I decide to become a parent I won't have to wait for anything to get out of my system before conceiving. It can be removed today and tomorrow I could be pregnant. Of course that's an exageration.
Some doctors will not place an IUD in a woman who has never given birth as the risks increase slightly. The risk is really in the device puncturing your uterus if your body tries to expel it as a result of a smaller uterus. I never had this problem. The pain from insertion is said to be hellacious but for me it only felt like menstrual cramps. Nothing too terrible. I did have bleeding the day of insertion but otherwise I was without any symptoms. You can always check to make sure the device is still there by feeling the little string. If it bothers your partner you can get it trimmed shorter. I had to do that once and since haven't had any problems.
I've also heard great things about charting. It's the best way to know what your body is doing. Although a lot of people use it to conceive it can similarly be used to prevent pregnancy. It involves knowing which cycle day you are on, identifying your fertile days and either having sex those days to conceive or abstaining to avoid. It involved tempting, testing your cervical fluid, etc. If you are interested in that, theres a great book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Fertility Friend is a great website to read up on this method.
If you are looking for STD protection, sadly there's nothing to replace a condom unless you abstain.
Some doctors will not place an IUD in a woman who has never given birth as the risks increase slightly. The risk is really in the device puncturing your uterus if your body tries to expel it as a result of a smaller uterus. I never had this problem. The pain from insertion is said to be hellacious but for me it only felt like menstrual cramps. Nothing too terrible. I did have bleeding the day of insertion but otherwise I was without any symptoms. You can always check to make sure the device is still there by feeling the little string. If it bothers your partner you can get it trimmed shorter. I had to do that once and since haven't had any problems.
I've also heard great things about charting. It's the best way to know what your body is doing. Although a lot of people use it to conceive it can similarly be used to prevent pregnancy. It involves knowing which cycle day you are on, identifying your fertile days and either having sex those days to conceive or abstaining to avoid. It involved tempting, testing your cervical fluid, etc. If you are interested in that, theres a great book, Taking Charge of Your Fertility. Fertility Friend is a great website to read up on this method.
If you are looking for STD protection, sadly there's nothing to replace a condom unless you abstain.
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Lamb Shanks and Orzo
This sounds divine, Eiotis .... thinking this weekend a good new recipe to attempt!
Thanks for sharing!!
Van
You're welcome, sorry for not having exact time down, I usually go by the visual and the yummy smell. next up spinach pie and tzatziki, I just have to write them down first.
Bon appetit. Merlot would go best with this dish, and a little feta cheese on the side never hurts.
I think I must of been part Greek in my past life. I could eat tzatziki on everything. I look forward to your recipe.
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I was 16. I seduced her. I had been planning it for almost two years. I knew she was a self proclaimed leasbian. I say that because years later she is married to a man and has a child.
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I just know I'm tight because guys are always telling me, "Oh my God, you're so tight!"
Things don't go in or come out too easily. And when I put my finger inside, I can feel the walls of my vagina around them.
Same as me. Its just something im worried about.
I realize I'm not a girl, so my take on this may be a little different than you want to hear, but the only way I'd worry about it (were I you, that is) is if I were in a committed relationship, and I heard him complaining about it to someone. Or if I started hearing echoes when I was at my Gynecologist appointment. Other than that, if you're feeling pleasurable sensations, and so is he, then it all should be fine, I'd think...
This was my exact thought.
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I've always had a thing for older men. My entire life. And before anyone says I must of had daddy issues, absolutely the opposite. I grew up in a household with both of my parents- married, til death did them part.
I would say my attraction to older men extends from my own maturity. I have always been wiser beyond my chronological age. I never felt I had anything in common with men my age as a young lady. Now, I sort of do but still prefer guys older.
My first boyfriend ever was 24 when I was 17. I didn't have sex with him until I was 20 but still.
After him my second boyfriend was 39 and I was 21.
My third boyfriend was 39 when I was 23.
I dated a guy whom I later married (huge mistake but that's another story) that was 30 when I was 25.
My current boyfriend is 32 and I'm close to 30. Closest age difference but we are unique. LOL
I would say my attraction to older men extends from my own maturity. I have always been wiser beyond my chronological age. I never felt I had anything in common with men my age as a young lady. Now, I sort of do but still prefer guys older.
My first boyfriend ever was 24 when I was 17. I didn't have sex with him until I was 20 but still.
After him my second boyfriend was 39 and I was 21.
My third boyfriend was 39 when I was 23.
I dated a guy whom I later married (huge mistake but that's another story) that was 30 when I was 25.
My current boyfriend is 32 and I'm close to 30. Closest age difference but we are unique. LOL