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black1
9 hours ago
Straight Male, 62
0 miles · England
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Quote by yurigagarin
Sorry folks, but can I buck the trend here ?
It's a particularly horny thing for me, but I just adore the sight of a beautiful lady
totally naked apart from a pair of sexy killer heels !
Perhaps a little body jewelry, just to accentuate her lovely tanned skin ??
You get the idea ............
That's fine just a different taste. So that's an off then
How long is a piece of string ?
Its upto a couple to decide how much is enough and if the couple have mismatched sex drives then some compromise will be needed otherwise the relationship, if there is one could turn stale . This could be done by use of toys etc and then make sure when sex is done ,the quality is there.
Its upto a couple to decide how much is enough and if the couple have mismatched sex drives then some compromise will be needed otherwise the relationship, if there is one could turn stale . This could be done by use of toys etc and then make sure when sex is done ,the quality is there.
They will never find out as what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. The implements and toys are all carefully removed and hidden if we have guests around a bit like Operation Cover up in Thunderbirds Lol. The wardrobe full of costumes stays ( role players) as we do attend quite a few fancy dress parties.
Bent over a desk or chair with a short skirt removed or pinned up and panties down around the ankles. . Then spanked very gently which stimulates her. I usually give her oral after, whilst still in the same position but with her legs further apart. This brings her to orgasm . Its normally part of a roleplay.
Just wondering what everyones thoughts on this. Personally I find women sexier just wearing a bit of something than being totally naked . And ladies surely you wouldn't spend all that money or his money on sexy lingerie to end up on the bedroom floor after 60 seconds ?
Just curious on this one.
Just curious on this one.
I think everyone has there different types and tend to go for those types. For me confidence is everything and sexy regardless of the shape . I enjoy the company of confident women as it makes conversation much easier and more enjoyable without it seeming like work ,interviewing people .
Quote by Hasabrain2
Most of these replies concern the use of vulgar language. Certainly what is acceptable for longshoreman is not acceptable for banker.
My issues was the double standard. The female supervisor (albeit in a casual setting) used that F word, but as a guy I never.
Here is another double standard: A few women were discussing the UPS delivery. She remarked that one of the delivery guys was hot.
Yet, as I guy the woman in the office would be all over me (in a bad way) if said the floral delivery girl was hot (occasionally, spouses/significant other will send their loved one flowers at work).
The best way to get around that problem is to report it if you see something . Its upto guys to report things if you thnk a woman is out of order in her behaviour.
I am just wondering how many guys would report a woman for pinching his bum say at a bar? This happened to me some time back and I decided to report it and got the woman removed. If I had done that to her the doormen would automatically be all over me like a rash . I made that point to her before I reported it. She couldn't believe I was making an issue out of it . My view its not acceptable and I shouldn't have to put up with it .
So I can see were you are coming from but it will take time to change .
Well going back to the original question as I know nothing about US Politics .
The message I give to most singletons is just get out there. Being at home sulking or sat in front of the TV isn't going to find you a partner unless internet dating is your thing. Socialising is a key issue and one of the ways to do that is to get out with a group of friends or join a club ( eg hobbies) , gym etc whereby socialising opportunities will occur. Small steps as they say .
If you feel close enough to this guy then with your Oh's permission , why not act as his wingman ?
The message I give to most singletons is just get out there. Being at home sulking or sat in front of the TV isn't going to find you a partner unless internet dating is your thing. Socialising is a key issue and one of the ways to do that is to get out with a group of friends or join a club ( eg hobbies) , gym etc whereby socialising opportunities will occur. Small steps as they say .
If you feel close enough to this guy then with your Oh's permission , why not act as his wingman ?
I work in the UK as an Operations Manager ( EX Bank Officer) for a firm of Electrical Contractors. Industrial language is used on building sites in most cases without exception. In my office the F word is not used that often but perhaps under my breath at most.
I think it all depends on the environment you work in .
I think it all depends on the environment you work in .
Another factor is perhaps the weather . If its baking hot like in certain parts of the UK ,our town centre will be busy with people having a night out this coming weekend .
If its bucketing it down with rain then the town centre will be relatively quiet.
We are probably more seasonal and go out more in summer and perhaps stay in more in winter.
As regards conversation its no holds barred for us . We even do our 6 monthly sex survey on each other in a pub.eNsUqvkcz8LF2zDK If people want to eaves drop then that is upto them . I have heard the expression " Why can't we do something like that ? " in the background normally from a disgruntled wife .
If its bucketing it down with rain then the town centre will be relatively quiet.
We are probably more seasonal and go out more in summer and perhaps stay in more in winter.
As regards conversation its no holds barred for us . We even do our 6 monthly sex survey on each other in a pub.eNsUqvkcz8LF2zDK If people want to eaves drop then that is upto them . I have heard the expression " Why can't we do something like that ? " in the background normally from a disgruntled wife .
Never had a 3 some nor do I really want one. Its is many peoples fantasies but for it to work the core relationship needs to be 100% strong and trusting and the 3rd person needs to be just into sex only without developing any feelings for either of the other 2 people . It tends to work better in Swingers Clubs were people tend to have more open relationships.
Never been cheated or done cheating. IMO its playing Russian Roulette with peoples feelings and usually someone will get hurt .
Never been cheated or done cheating. IMO its playing Russian Roulette with peoples feelings and usually someone will get hurt .
IMO I is something that is going out of fashion. It was featured in the film "10" with Bo Derek and Dudley Moore and British comedies such as "Whatever Happened to the Likely Lads" .
To a degree its replaced with "types " now. That's why I here amongst the younger ones things like "She's nice and so much my type" .
I have been on the receiving end of "Your lovely and gorgous but your not my type" from a younger woman . That still confused me a little ! Perhaps the nicest "putdown" I have ever had.
To a degree its replaced with "types " now. That's why I here amongst the younger ones things like "She's nice and so much my type" .
I have been on the receiving end of "Your lovely and gorgous but your not my type" from a younger woman . That still confused me a little ! Perhaps the nicest "putdown" I have ever had.
Quote by ms_vicky
If for no other reason just to keep track of this thread I thought I should update it. I did remain single as I promised myself for the most part of 2016/2017 and now in 2018. The biggest different in 2017 I got involved as part group of volunteers who up to 10 times a year get together and work together at certain events. The reason I started doing this because it looked like a perfect opportunity to expand my friendship circle and become part of a sport I love. At the events I was involved in last year I met such a lovely bunch of people, both male and female. Most of us don’t even live in the same cities but manage to keep in touch and get together when we volunteer. As it so happened during one of these events I did work with a guy who does live in the same city as me. Over a period of months we got chatting and got to know each other better and he invited me to a concert. One thing lead to another a few meets after work we have become friends. We now see each other at least 4 or 5 times a week, he’s come to mine for dinner, we’ve gone out for drinks, dinner cinema all the usual things. We’ve been away together but nothing else has happened, think this is because neither of us have the courage to ask if it’s more than friendship. Our mutual friends think they can see we both like each other. As long as I don’t loose the nerve I am going to ask him this week if we can be more than friends. This to me would be ideal because we spend so much time with each other anyway, my kids have already met him, and think he is really nice. We’ve made plans to do things together not just this week but over the next few months. So hopefully as long as I have the courage I might have found a decent man.
Sounds promising. Good luck .
Quote by Sirene_Jaune
A night on the town. Haven't been clubbing in years and would love to go out dancing and being in a fun atmosphere.
That's what we do. We enjoy dancing to Northern Soul and worked hard in regaining our fitness as it is a very energetic dance. The term Northern Soul may be alien to some overseas peeps but if you google Northern Soul you will see what it is all about.
Therefore when we do go out we tend to dine fairly light with salads and drink wise I tend to drink Vodkas instead of beers. Not fun dancing on a full stomach.
This is my view. I think you should just look after your wife and care for her, if you still love and cherish her of which I hope you do . Remember the wedding vows in "sickness and in health" I think finding another partner isn't the right way to do things and is a tad selfish ( trying not to be too harsh here) and could destroy your relationship with your wife of which I am sure that you don't want to do . The medical professionals have already informed you that it will return in time . For now, can you not turn to sex toys to get the sexual relief that you need ?
I am sorry perhaps this is not the answer you wanted to see but I cant condone affairs . You No1 priority is with your wife .
I am sorry perhaps this is not the answer you wanted to see but I cant condone affairs . You No1 priority is with your wife .
Quote by Hasabrain2
Yes holding the door open for someone with a knee brace , or holding a package, or child, is a basic courtesy. The other day I was at the cleaners and held open the door for a young woman with a child in her arms. However, she clearly was reluctant to receive help. What is this world coming to?
Some women don't think this should be done any more. They tend to be in the minority however and its normal common courtesy to hold the door for anyone behind you regardless the gender of the person .