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Clumeleon
Quote by KingOfLove
It is from Buddha
Yes, it's the basis of the Buddhism of Nichiren Daishonin. Chanting this phrase is the means of changing your karma and becoming enlightened in this life.
I am a member of SGI-UK. It's the only religion that has ever clicked with me. You can find out more about the international organisation here.
Clumeleon
While holds zero interest for me in my personal life, and it is of course viewed as , I have read some really touching (non-sexual) stories of incestuous relationships (usually sibling) where there are real, uncontrollable feelings of love and desire there. I find it difficult to admonish someone in this situation. As they say, the heart wants what it wants and I think a certain amount of tolerance is due to some people. This is the kind of relationship I tried to convey in my 'A New Kind Of Love' series of stories.
That said, I have no sympathy for the 'daddy-daughter' scenarios where it's all about sex and deception and it borders on perversion. In my mind, there's something fundamentally wrong about that.
Other than that, my biggest is fantasy. I'll never understand it. To me, sex is about an emotional and physical connection between two people and that is lacking if they are pretending that one person doesn't want it to happen. I have strong feelings about (as do most people, I'm sure) so I'll never approve of anyone who partakes in this sort of sexual activity.
That said, I have no sympathy for the 'daddy-daughter' scenarios where it's all about sex and deception and it borders on perversion. In my mind, there's something fundamentally wrong about that.
Other than that, my biggest is fantasy. I'll never understand it. To me, sex is about an emotional and physical connection between two people and that is lacking if they are pretending that one person doesn't want it to happen. I have strong feelings about (as do most people, I'm sure) so I'll never approve of anyone who partakes in this sort of sexual activity.
Clumeleon
Haha, strange. The two posts above are a game I know as 'Ring of Fire'.
More often than not, drinking games slow me and my friends down. We don't need much incentive to knock back a beer or two and we usually just play music and banter. However, we do enjoy the classic 'I've Never' (aka 'Never Have I Ever'). I'm sure you all know it, but basically:
Each person takes it in turn to start a sentence with "I've never..." and whoever in the room HAS done that thing has to take a drink. It often turns very sexual very quickly and it's a good way to find out some dirty secrets about your friends. Often the participants will agree to a 'No Questions Asked' policy, so that people don't have to explain why they are drinking. The speculation caused by this adds to the hilarity.
More often than not, drinking games slow me and my friends down. We don't need much incentive to knock back a beer or two and we usually just play music and banter. However, we do enjoy the classic 'I've Never' (aka 'Never Have I Ever'). I'm sure you all know it, but basically:
Each person takes it in turn to start a sentence with "I've never..." and whoever in the room HAS done that thing has to take a drink. It often turns very sexual very quickly and it's a good way to find out some dirty secrets about your friends. Often the participants will agree to a 'No Questions Asked' policy, so that people don't have to explain why they are drinking. The speculation caused by this adds to the hilarity.
Clumeleon
Being a student, I'll drink just about anything (except vodka, I hate vodka).
Out at a pub, I prefer a beer. Belhaven Best is my favourite but I occasionally sample some other ales.
I will drink bottled beer at home. Usually San Miguel or Corona, but I'm not overly picky.
When the mood strikes me, I like a gin and tonic. Gordon's is excellent but I prefer Bombay Sapphire if I can get/afford it.
I like tequila-based cocktails as well as tequila shots. The taste is sublime.
In a more sophisticated setting, I am partial to a glass of red wine or even port. I dabbled in sherry once.
Some might say I am overly fond of alcohol. I say, "Fuck 'em." I like a good bevy and I am not ashamed of that.
Out at a pub, I prefer a beer. Belhaven Best is my favourite but I occasionally sample some other ales.
I will drink bottled beer at home. Usually San Miguel or Corona, but I'm not overly picky.
When the mood strikes me, I like a gin and tonic. Gordon's is excellent but I prefer Bombay Sapphire if I can get/afford it.
I like tequila-based cocktails as well as tequila shots. The taste is sublime.
In a more sophisticated setting, I am partial to a glass of red wine or even port. I dabbled in sherry once.
Some might say I am overly fond of alcohol. I say, "Fuck 'em." I like a good bevy and I am not ashamed of that.
Clumeleon
Very similar to this topic:
http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst18344_In-general-do-younger-men-have-a-chance-with-older-women.aspx
http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst18344_In-general-do-younger-men-have-a-chance-with-older-women.aspx
Clumeleon
Quote by Dancing_Doll
I do a great full-body deep tissue massage with hot oils (love the Aveda massage oils for this) while semi-naked. Candlelight and sexy slow tunes or a bit of ambient/trance music sets a nice mood as well.
That sounds wonderful, DD. It's a lucky man that gets that kind of treatment from you.
I would find it incredibly romantic if a girl did something creative for me with whatever talents she has. It might be a drawing or painting; it might be her playing piano or singing a song to me; it might a poem or a dance or a collage. Someone putting in that kind of effort to show me how much I mean to them is one of the most romantic things I can think of.
However, if I were in a relationship, I would be happy just to know that she is happy. A woman doesn't have to go out of her way to let me know that she cares, she just has to tell me. A cosy night on the couch, watching a rom-com would be just fine by me as well, as long as she's content.
Great topic. Not something people really think about that much.