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1 month ago
Bisexual Cis Male, 35
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Clumeleon
If you don't mind, I'm going to be a 'Gal' for the moment.
Bad/cheesy jokes and cheap puns have worked for me. Don't be constantly flattering and complimentary; have a laugh and be natural. Don't abandon the clichés but put a spin on them to give them a new lease of life.
Also, if you're doing this by text, text like a grown-up please.
Okay, now I'm a 'Guy' again.
Tell her that your cock is huge and how much you want to pound her tight sweet pussy with it all night (lie about your stamina, too). Throw in some lewd innuendos and you're golden.
Quote by Shylass
I do love absolutely crap jokes, though, and terrible puns.
Bad/cheesy jokes and cheap puns have worked for me. Don't be constantly flattering and complimentary; have a laugh and be natural. Don't abandon the clichés but put a spin on them to give them a new lease of life.
Also, if you're doing this by text, text like a grown-up please.
Okay, now I'm a 'Guy' again.
Tell her that your cock is huge and how much you want to pound her tight sweet pussy with it all night (lie about your stamina, too). Throw in some lewd innuendos and you're golden.
Clumeleon
Leaving it a bit late, aren't we? I suggest Easter candy and a jar of hammers.
Clumeleon
I'm a sock hoarder (which is ironic because I hate wearing socks) so I totally know where you're coming from. It's not too many unless you think it's too many (or you start selling your possessions to pay for new panties).
I couldn't possibly say how many pairs my girlfriend has (fewer than 85, I imagine). She's always bugging me to get new underwear because the elastic has gone in most pairs.
You go get your panties, girl!
I couldn't possibly say how many pairs my girlfriend has (fewer than 85, I imagine). She's always bugging me to get new underwear because the elastic has gone in most pairs.
You go get your panties, girl!
Clumeleon
Quote by Mazza
BUT, I rarely drink soda at any other time, but when I do... It's got to be Irn Bru - and if you've never tried it, you really ought to!!
(Irn bru is a bigger seller in Scotland than Coke or Pepsi)
You could probably guess, but I'm a Bru man myself. Nothing like it, especially when hungover.
(I voted Pepsi, btw.)
Clumeleon
1. Why do you like eating pussy? What do you like about it?
(a) It's yummy; (b) It makes her feel good; (c) I'm pretty good at it.
2. At what age did you start eating pussy, in relevance to the age at which you lost your virginity? Did performing oral come right away, or later?
The first night I ate pussy was also the night I lost my virginity. I ate her out pre- and post-coitus.
3. When performing oral on a lady, what pubic hair style do you like best? Is it different from your general preferences on the subject?
Ideally, a reasonable amount of hair is nice but I'm not fussed if there's a lot. This is pretty much in line with my general preference.
4. What can a woman do to make your experience of eating her pussy even better? What can she do to turn you on?
Pull my hair; thrust into my face a little; clamp her thighs around my face.
5. What can she do to turn you off from eating her pussy?
Too much specific instruction; bucking her hips.
6. Think of the first time you went down a woman. Did you like it or no? Was your love of cunnilingus immediate, or did that come later?
The first time, I loved it. It's probably my favourite sexual activity.
7. Have you gone down on a lady in any unusual locations? If so, where?
Sadly, no. Not yet, at least.
8. When a lady moves around a lot while you perform oral on her by actions, including: swirling her hips, legs shaking, pulling your hair, digging her nails into your back, wrapping legs around your head, etc., does this bother you or do you find this distracting at all?
I love when she does any and all of those things.
9. Honestly: do you like the smell/taste of pussy?
Hells yeah!
(a) It's yummy; (b) It makes her feel good; (c) I'm pretty good at it.
2. At what age did you start eating pussy, in relevance to the age at which you lost your virginity? Did performing oral come right away, or later?
The first night I ate pussy was also the night I lost my virginity. I ate her out pre- and post-coitus.
3. When performing oral on a lady, what pubic hair style do you like best? Is it different from your general preferences on the subject?
Ideally, a reasonable amount of hair is nice but I'm not fussed if there's a lot. This is pretty much in line with my general preference.
4. What can a woman do to make your experience of eating her pussy even better? What can she do to turn you on?
Pull my hair; thrust into my face a little; clamp her thighs around my face.
5. What can she do to turn you off from eating her pussy?
Too much specific instruction; bucking her hips.
6. Think of the first time you went down a woman. Did you like it or no? Was your love of cunnilingus immediate, or did that come later?
The first time, I loved it. It's probably my favourite sexual activity.
7. Have you gone down on a lady in any unusual locations? If so, where?
Sadly, no. Not yet, at least.
8. When a lady moves around a lot while you perform oral on her by actions, including: swirling her hips, legs shaking, pulling your hair, digging her nails into your back, wrapping legs around your head, etc., does this bother you or do you find this distracting at all?
I love when she does any and all of those things.
9. Honestly: do you like the smell/taste of pussy?
Hells yeah!
Clumeleon
I don't think that some people are "meant to be single" necessarily but nor do I think there's someone for everyone. Human relationships are infinitely more complex than the idea of soul mates. Anyone can find love but that doesn't mean that that person is meant for you; that's just the way things panned out.
Clumeleon
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I´d go a little further and say that this "fluidity" can happen even if its not a sexual. I ahve had many friendships that started like this.
I completely agree. In the experience I shared in my OP, I didn't know what it was between us, I just knew it was something worth taking notice of. Over time I began to realise what the spark was but on that first night it was just this inexplicable feeling of connectedness.
Clumeleon
I despise Glee with all my heart. Every second I have watched has been cringe-worthy. It has ruined so many fantastic songs and I can no longer stand to be in the same room it is being played.
What makes it worse is that everyone thinks it's the kind of thing I would love because I'm really into musical theatre and love singing. The reality is that it isn't a musical, it's just shit.
What makes it worse is that everyone thinks it's the kind of thing I would love because I'm really into musical theatre and love singing. The reality is that it isn't a musical, it's just shit.
Clumeleon
If you don't reply to me, I'll have a little bitch to myself about how rude you are. However, I'm likely to concoct some excuse(s) for you like that you're really busy and/or in high demand. Perhaps it's just my nature but if you don't reply then I'll probably forgive you.
If you send me a little note saying, "Not today, thanks," then it's harder for me to invent excuses for you and I'll just be offended.
If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.
If you send me a little note saying, "Not today, thanks," then it's harder for me to invent excuses for you and I'll just be offended.
If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.
Clumeleon
I don't think one person here can justify a belief in "love at first sight"; it's just impossible, in my view. Even after one meeting, it's highly unlikely that you could be much more than infatuated with someone.
Lots of people talk about "lust at first sight" but I'm not really interested in that. There will always be people who we see and instantly go, "DAYUM!". C'est la vie.
However, I don't think it's so unlikely that you could make a real connection with someone almost instantly. It's not love but sometimes there's an undeniable spark between two people that makes you sit up and take notice and think, "There might be something to this."
The first night I met my now girlfriend, I was dumbfounded by the girl. The conversation was so fluid, so natural. The more I found out about her, the more I began to think that there was something really special about this girl. I didn't think I was falling in love with her or anything silly like that, only that there was some reason why we had been brought together to meet like that. After that first meeting, I thought about her a lot.
As unlikely as it sounds, I knew from the first time I met her that our relationship would not be a trivial one. I didn't know if that meant we would be together or become great friends (or great enemies) but I knew there was something between us.
I would like to invite the members of Lush to share their experiences of making an unmistakeable connection with someone the first time you met them, or even laid eyes on them. When was the last time someone really made an instant impression on your life that you knew would last a long time?
Lots of people talk about "lust at first sight" but I'm not really interested in that. There will always be people who we see and instantly go, "DAYUM!". C'est la vie.
However, I don't think it's so unlikely that you could make a real connection with someone almost instantly. It's not love but sometimes there's an undeniable spark between two people that makes you sit up and take notice and think, "There might be something to this."
The first night I met my now girlfriend, I was dumbfounded by the girl. The conversation was so fluid, so natural. The more I found out about her, the more I began to think that there was something really special about this girl. I didn't think I was falling in love with her or anything silly like that, only that there was some reason why we had been brought together to meet like that. After that first meeting, I thought about her a lot.
As unlikely as it sounds, I knew from the first time I met her that our relationship would not be a trivial one. I didn't know if that meant we would be together or become great friends (or great enemies) but I knew there was something between us.
I would like to invite the members of Lush to share their experiences of making an unmistakeable connection with someone the first time you met them, or even laid eyes on them. When was the last time someone really made an instant impression on your life that you knew would last a long time?
Clumeleon
It's perhaps too early to say whether or not she is the "perfect" person (if, indeed, such a person exists) but...
Since the first day I met who is now my girlfriend, I knew there was amazing chemistry between us. We have obscene amounts in common and totally get each other. We have a joke that we're actually the same person but she's just a year behind. There's something special about this and I've got a really good feeling. We haven't been together very long but we've known each other a while and I've always thought we'd make a great couple (as have many of our friends).
Anyone who's more perfect for me would have to be pretty unbelievable.
Since the first day I met who is now my girlfriend, I knew there was amazing chemistry between us. We have obscene amounts in common and totally get each other. We have a joke that we're actually the same person but she's just a year behind. There's something special about this and I've got a really good feeling. We haven't been together very long but we've known each other a while and I've always thought we'd make a great couple (as have many of our friends).
Anyone who's more perfect for me would have to be pretty unbelievable.
Clumeleon
Schade.
Hope you can maintain your friendship and that you can move past this in a healthy way. The 'Friend Zone' (check out the thread in Olivia's Corner) ain't all bad when it comes down to it as long as you aren't constantly trying to claw your way out of it.
Tread carefully for a while. Best of luck in love, HB.
Hope you can maintain your friendship and that you can move past this in a healthy way. The 'Friend Zone' (check out the thread in Olivia's Corner) ain't all bad when it comes down to it as long as you aren't constantly trying to claw your way out of it.
Tread carefully for a while. Best of luck in love, HB.
Clumeleon
Quote by Curlygirly
OK, I agree with you on this and talk to pretty much anyone who pokes me unless they prove to be an asshat. HOWEVER, I've had people complain that I accepted their friend request and WON'T cyber with them. Me accepting your (not you specifically, Clum) friend request does NOT mean I owe you something.
Well, I was just about to add you, CG, but now it seems like a lost cause.
Nah, I totally agree; acceptance of a friend request does not equate to an agreement to cyber.
