I think that only going for guys with huge dongs is, indeed, shallow (although it does not necessarily make you a bitch). I'd hate to have met you in a bar, really hit it off with you and made what I thought was a bit of a connection, only to get back to your place and get laughed out of the house for my slightly smaller cock.
I feel sorry for you, SQS, because, like MMonroe said, you might miss out on the love of you life (and perhaps the best sex you've ever had) because of this hang-up you have. There's nothing wrong with you feeling this way and I certainly don't think badly of you because of it; I think it would suck to be constrained in your love life by something so relatively trivial.
We all know what rings our bell but the majority of people don't end up with what they thought was their 'ideal' partner. I hope that if you can't get over this size issue then you can find a wonderful man with a humongous member to make you happy for the rest of your life.
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Clumeleon
Quote by itslikeuhoh
If it would be for the happiness of my girl, why not? I mean, I do lack in size so if that's what she wants, and if it's gonna make her happy then it's okay. It may sound too corny, but I care more about my partner more than myself when it comes to sex.
Ditto.
Clumeleon
Quote by 321ZoeF
I hope this goes for girls sleeping with girls too ? my partner lives with me in my tiny one bedroomed flat,I only have enough room for a single bed,this did take some getting used to let me tell you,but we take it in turns sleeping on top of each other,had to buy more pillows,the reason it took some getting use to is because we both have large firm breasts which are the same size as each other,but now we love sleeping this way,horny at times but we love it .
Thanks, Zoe, but you already told us. We're all very turned on, I assure you...
Clumeleon
Quote by deal1
Any thing Gilbert and Sullivan. My Fave out of them is the HMS Pinafore.
When I was in grade school, I was in a production of the musical, The King And I. I was the Royal Child who had the dirty hands.Excellent memories!
Clumeleon
Hey!
I would suggest patience. I know it's hard when you're really into someone but you've already recognised that you have a tendency to come on strongly so I think it's best that you stand back for a bit and see if she comes to you. She might just genuinely be really busy. I've been in similar situations and found myself getting angry about people not replying to me and then I do get a message about a week later.
If this goes on for a while (say, a week or two more), drop her a short, casual message saying something like, "Hey. Haven't heard from you in a while, hope you are well. Have a nice time in Mexico if I don't see you before you go." This gives her a reminder that you're still there and still thinking about her but it's not too pushy and leaves the door open for her to get back to you.
If she then never gets back to you then move on and try not to think about her too much (easier said than done, I know). You hardly know this girl, although it might seem like you do, and there are plenty more fish in the sea.
In the meantime, try not to obsess. If it's meant to be, it will happen for you. I wish you the very best of luck.
Clum
I would suggest patience. I know it's hard when you're really into someone but you've already recognised that you have a tendency to come on strongly so I think it's best that you stand back for a bit and see if she comes to you. She might just genuinely be really busy. I've been in similar situations and found myself getting angry about people not replying to me and then I do get a message about a week later.
If this goes on for a while (say, a week or two more), drop her a short, casual message saying something like, "Hey. Haven't heard from you in a while, hope you are well. Have a nice time in Mexico if I don't see you before you go." This gives her a reminder that you're still there and still thinking about her but it's not too pushy and leaves the door open for her to get back to you.
If she then never gets back to you then move on and try not to think about her too much (easier said than done, I know). You hardly know this girl, although it might seem like you do, and there are plenty more fish in the sea.
In the meantime, try not to obsess. If it's meant to be, it will happen for you. I wish you the very best of luck.
Clum
Clumeleon
So we're clear: Your husband doesn't want your daughter (not his daughter) having sleepovers with boys she is dating but is okay with her staying with her female friend (who happens to be a lesbian but with whom she is not in a relationship). Please correct me if I have misunderstood.
I don't think he's being narrow-minded but that he's making a few assumptions, mainly that your daughter is heterosexual. That's certainly the impression I got from your, albeit brief, OP. Therefore, he just sees this as a regular sleepover with a friend. She's not dating this girl and so he has no reason to believe that this would lead to anything sexual.
If he's also against her sleeping over with boys who she is not dating (i.e. boy friends rather than boyfriends) then there are double standards at play and I disagree with his stance. It may just be that he is a bit old-fashioned like that.
A lesbian friend and a boyfriend are not the same thing; I'll agree with him there. I think you should press him to explain his reasoning behind his objections. Also, if I'm right in thinking that this is not his daughter, then you can stand firm as her mother and make clear that it is your decision. Argue that it is very unfair on your daughter that she is being treated differently from her elder siblings.
I don't think he's being narrow-minded but that he's making a few assumptions, mainly that your daughter is heterosexual. That's certainly the impression I got from your, albeit brief, OP. Therefore, he just sees this as a regular sleepover with a friend. She's not dating this girl and so he has no reason to believe that this would lead to anything sexual.
If he's also against her sleeping over with boys who she is not dating (i.e. boy friends rather than boyfriends) then there are double standards at play and I disagree with his stance. It may just be that he is a bit old-fashioned like that.
A lesbian friend and a boyfriend are not the same thing; I'll agree with him there. I think you should press him to explain his reasoning behind his objections. Also, if I'm right in thinking that this is not his daughter, then you can stand firm as her mother and make clear that it is your decision. Argue that it is very unfair on your daughter that she is being treated differently from her elder siblings.
Clumeleon
What kind of smell are we talking about? It could very well be groin sweat and there's not a lot he can do about that apart from regular washing. However, if it's a different kind of 'funky' smell then either he is not cleaning his genitals thoroughly enough (if he is uncircumcised, say) or he could have some sort of fungal infection (although you probably would have noticed).
I would say, if the problem is persistent, have him speak with his doctor about it. It might (and probably will) be nothing.
To answer your actual question - no, not all guys smell bad "down there".
Happy Lushing.
I would say, if the problem is persistent, have him speak with his doctor about it. It might (and probably will) be nothing.
To answer your actual question - no, not all guys smell bad "down there".
Happy Lushing.
Clumeleon
Usually spoons with my arm wrapped tight around her, or my arm draped over her stomach (her facing up, me facing down). There's usually a point during the night when we separate for a while but we're usually still making contact in some way.
We almost always have our feet mingling.
We almost always have our feet mingling.
Clumeleon
I would think it was strange that she decided she was bisexual while she was in a relationship with me; that might be a warning sign.
However, in general, I would have no problem whatsoever with being in a relationship with someone who is bisexual. I do not think that it would, or should, affect the relationship positively or negatively.
However, in general, I would have no problem whatsoever with being in a relationship with someone who is bisexual. I do not think that it would, or should, affect the relationship positively or negatively.
Clumeleon
I am heterosexual in the sense that I am only romantically attracted to women.
I have been sexually attracted to men; there are some men I would do in a heartbeat (were I still single); I have done 'stuff' with guys. I still don't consider myself truly bisexual (although perhaps the most so of my circle of friends). I've never seriously considered having a relationship with a man and so I fancy myself as heterosexual (I dislike the word 'straight' in this context).
Many who meet me, even some who know me well, reckon I am bisexual, if not homosexual (I think my parents were expecting me to come out long before my sister actually did). I guess that's just my personality - I can be flamboyant and camp and FABULOUS! But at the end of the day, I only want to be with a woman.
To be honest, I don't see my sexuality as being a defining aspect of my character. Read my profile - there are a lot more interesting things about me than whether I like the cock or not.
I have been sexually attracted to men; there are some men I would do in a heartbeat (were I still single); I have done 'stuff' with guys. I still don't consider myself truly bisexual (although perhaps the most so of my circle of friends). I've never seriously considered having a relationship with a man and so I fancy myself as heterosexual (I dislike the word 'straight' in this context).
Many who meet me, even some who know me well, reckon I am bisexual, if not homosexual (I think my parents were expecting me to come out long before my sister actually did). I guess that's just my personality - I can be flamboyant and camp and FABULOUS! But at the end of the day, I only want to be with a woman.
To be honest, I don't see my sexuality as being a defining aspect of my character. Read my profile - there are a lot more interesting things about me than whether I like the cock or not.
Clumeleon
I tell my mum every time I speak to her, likewise with my sister. I tell my dad on occasion. There's still a bit of macho-ness there but it has lessened over the years.
I have brilliant relationships with both of my parents and most of my family. We've always been close and we all know how we feel about each other.
I have brilliant relationships with both of my parents and most of my family. We've always been close and we all know how we feel about each other.
Clumeleon
In a similar situation. I'm taking it as an opportunity to show that I can be creative and that I listen to what they say. Maybe something they said offhand one time could be your inspiration for a gift idea.
Make it specific to the person but not extravagant. It's tricky, I know. Best of luck to you.
Make it specific to the person but not extravagant. It's tricky, I know. Best of luck to you.
Clumeleon
As a stand-alone book, I would probably say Markus Zusak's The Book Thief.
However, once I start reading a Harry Potter book, I can't put it down, and Phillip Pullman's His Dark Materials series was fantastic. I've also recently become an Austen fan, with Emma being my favourite thus far.
However, once I start reading a Harry Potter book, I can't put it down, and Phillip Pullman's His Dark Materials series was fantastic. I've also recently become an Austen fan, with Emma being my favourite thus far.