Quote by angela39
I love when stupid questions come along, like how was it, how did it taste. Those questions are asked to get the guy off.
Quote by angela39
So many posts asking what it was like, how did it taste, when did you do it first time, etc. If you haven't discovered yet, then get out of the house, find a girl or guy and discover each other in the world of sexual sensuality.
Then share it with the Lush community.
Quote by verde22
i have it only ok for me but she loves it so i do it
Quote by trinket
How do you know the person you are pitying isn't considering YOU to be the pitied one and is sleeping with you to do you the favour? How would it make you feel to know that?
Quote by trinket
I haven't because I couldn't have sex with someone I don't have at least some small amount of feelings for. Having sex with someone because I pitied them is not something that would occur to me. To think that I personally am "all that" and could therefore do someone a "favour" by sleeping with them is a bit arrogant. That's how I would feel. Not judging anyone else.
Quote by SereneProdigy
I actually created a thread about 'pity fucks' in the first few weeks I joined Lush, probably just a short while before you joined yourself.
I don't quite understand the phenomenon honestly, as you can read in this thread.
Quote by oshkrozz
Confidence is a big one. It can be very hard to build that up especially if you had rejection after rejection.
I can suggest a few things off the top of my head that you can try:
1) Greet every single person you see one day with a smile and a good morning (you can stop after 11 am ... people will no longer smile back), when you do that force yourself to look in their eyes. You will be surprised by how many people smile back and respond. This helps with confidence somewhat
2) Join a group, running groups are good, along with art or other activities that are group oriented and involve talking to others .. at the same time allow people to not talk if they don't want to.
3) Start random conversations with people next to you on a bus/train/plane , this helps with having confidence in conversation.
Also .. perhaps you are overall critical of the women that you meet, maybe you are trying to find the perfect one, while passing up the right one?
The best way to build up confidence in conversation is to go and have them (with real people .. not online :P ) go out and start talking
Quote by JessieCD
I started out in my teens, sneaking an occasional item and trying it on. Back then it was more for the thrill of it. As I got into my 20's, I started getting envious of the soft fabrics that my girlfriends always wore, yet I could rarely find the soft fabrics with men's clothing. Now I just wear women's clothes when I feel like it. My favorites that I wear around are thigh high pantyhose and bikini panties. I can wear them under my clothes without others knowing, and still feel a little sexy. I like women's clothes as they make me feel more in touch with my sensitive side which I have had since I was a teen. There are times though that I will wear something sexy just for the thrill of it, but mostly I just feel comfortable felling the nice fabrics.
I remember when I was younger, I never understood a woman's fascination with shoes. Once I bought a pair of black 5"heels for a Halloween costume, and wore them, I started to understand. Now I have several pairs of heels, and have started to get that little high from getting a new pair of shoes. Now if I could only find that woman that would accept me for who I am.
