I'd say its 50/50 whether I'm horny/desperate enough to message enough people near me on dating apps or people I've previously hooked up with AND they say yes.
What's a kink you got into much later in your sexual lifestyle?
It was my idea. She'd already explored my ass a little with fingers and tongue. We both were down to try it. It was fun but she was not at all a natural at using a "fake" penis when it was on the strap. Way more pleasurable when she just used the dildo with her hands