Sharing a toothbrush with someone you are intimately involved with is not a big deal but it’s also not recommended. It’s not at all difficult to get one’s own toothbrush.
Personally, I would rather share a toothbrush (with someone I was intimately involved with) than not brush my teeth or have to kiss someone with rank morning breath. But I also wouldn’t want it to be a regular thing by any means.
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I can’t quite recall but I think my record is six orgasms in a day through sex.
It was with an ex girlfriend that I hadn’t seen in weeks. We greeted at the door and ran to the bedroom for sex. We went back and forth with positions for a few hours while I got off three times. Later on, we had dinner and then retired to the hot tub for another round (orgasm 4) followed by relaxing and then yet another round after that (orgasm 5). Once we finally decided to call it a night, we went to bed and had sex once more before falling asleep.
It was with an ex girlfriend that I hadn’t seen in weeks. We greeted at the door and ran to the bedroom for sex. We went back and forth with positions for a few hours while I got off three times. Later on, we had dinner and then retired to the hot tub for another round (orgasm 4) followed by relaxing and then yet another round after that (orgasm 5). Once we finally decided to call it a night, we went to bed and had sex once more before falling asleep.
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Who here has plans for the summer months that involve good times and great music? Who / what groups are you hoping to see?
Last summer, I managed to catch a decent handful of shows but this summer is still up in the air. The only show I have tickets for yet is Weird Al but there are several others that I’d like to throw into the mix if things work out and my schedule stays open. I was going to get tickets to Woodstock 50 but that thing is shaping up to be the next Fyre Festival from the looks of it.
Last summer, I managed to catch a decent handful of shows but this summer is still up in the air. The only show I have tickets for yet is Weird Al but there are several others that I’d like to throw into the mix if things work out and my schedule stays open. I was going to get tickets to Woodstock 50 but that thing is shaping up to be the next Fyre Festival from the looks of it.
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It’s definitely a reflection of society standards changing but it may not be specifically a generational thing. My grandfather always wore suits in his 30s and 40s, especially to work but even around town on the weekends. When he retired officially, his outfits quickly shifted into jeans and t-shirts and towards the end he wore pajamas exclusively when he was home, no matter the time of day. I imagine that he no longer felt the requirement to dress a certain way and didn’t want to put forth the effort. Basically, if he could get away with flannel sweatpants then who was he to wear anything else?
I had a rather strict dress code in school, a public school, when I was growing up and now I see posts on social media of parents arguing against schools that sent their kids home for wearing tank tops and shorts that NEVER would have been allowed when I was in my middle teens. Granted, school dress code enforcement (and the inconsistencies there of) is a completely other topic but if workout clothes are going to be considered to be acceptable across the board, then there isn’t much reason to expect anyone to be wearing a shirt and tie in their leisure time a few years down the line.
Although this isn’t to say that casual clothing is a bad thing. Personally, I appreciate that I can get up quickly and get out the door to start my day without worrying too much about it.
I had a rather strict dress code in school, a public school, when I was growing up and now I see posts on social media of parents arguing against schools that sent their kids home for wearing tank tops and shorts that NEVER would have been allowed when I was in my middle teens. Granted, school dress code enforcement (and the inconsistencies there of) is a completely other topic but if workout clothes are going to be considered to be acceptable across the board, then there isn’t much reason to expect anyone to be wearing a shirt and tie in their leisure time a few years down the line.
Although this isn’t to say that casual clothing is a bad thing. Personally, I appreciate that I can get up quickly and get out the door to start my day without worrying too much about it.
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Me personally, sometimes I am wanting to talk but am not ready to talk. I would describe it like being exhausted and wanting to go to bed but being dirty and wanting more to take a shower first. He may want to talk and may have things that he wants to say but he may not be ready to do so at this time. Guys aren’t nearly as fluent when it comes to speaking about emotions so we’re not as quick about it. Perhaps he just needs time to collect his feelings, calm down a bit, and organize his thoughts. If that is the case (which it may not be but if it is) then really all you can do is continue to let him know that the door for communication remains open.
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In most kinds of pants and especially jeans: it’s not for me. I constantly feel like I’m going to get my dick caught in the zipper and the rough fabric doesn’t feel nearly as good as cotton/silk/spandex.
However, in basketball shorts? Yeah, there’s a chance that I might be. It’s freeing, comfortable, and kind of a little fun to go about with a secret like that. And around the house in sweats or lounge pants I can almost guarantee it.
However, in basketball shorts? Yeah, there’s a chance that I might be. It’s freeing, comfortable, and kind of a little fun to go about with a secret like that. And around the house in sweats or lounge pants I can almost guarantee it.
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I absolutely LOVE being undressed as a part of foreplay. It makes me feel handsome and desired in such a specific way that it gives me a rush.
As far as doing the undressing, I enjoy it quite a bit (like unwrapping a present) but I don't enjoy giving the treatment nearly as much as I enjoy receiving it. Although, it's like oral sex in a way: you gotta give it to get it.
As far as doing the undressing, I enjoy it quite a bit (like unwrapping a present) but I don't enjoy giving the treatment nearly as much as I enjoy receiving it. Although, it's like oral sex in a way: you gotta give it to get it.
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The length of any given session depends on a few factors. If I’m not overly pent up and antsy for release and if I’m not pressed for time then I prefer to savor a slow build up to a satisfying release. Sometimes I’ve gone for hours before reaching orgasm but usually it is within twenty or thirty minutes.
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I have a friend and she is not my type. Our personalities are too different and I don’t believe that either of us have ever found the other to be irresistible on a physical/visual level. She’s not hideous mind you (decently cute, actually), just nothing I am interested in romantically or sexually.
Several years ago, it was raining one day and she stopped by my apartment to drop off a box of stuff. I don’t remember the contents but it’s not important. What I do remember is that she was wearing a black leather jacket and her flame-red hair was completely soaked. For some unexplainable reason, I nearly forgot how to breath while seeing her in that jacket with wet, slicked hair and a friendly yet apologetic smile on her face for popping in with little notice and needing to immediately head back out. She looked more beautiful than I had ever seen her before. She looked hot. I had a brief fantasy of following her out into the rain and... well, I plead the fifth on the last part. ;)
Wet hair and a black leather jacket aren’t usually sexual triggers of mine but on that day, oh boy were they ever.
Several years ago, it was raining one day and she stopped by my apartment to drop off a box of stuff. I don’t remember the contents but it’s not important. What I do remember is that she was wearing a black leather jacket and her flame-red hair was completely soaked. For some unexplainable reason, I nearly forgot how to breath while seeing her in that jacket with wet, slicked hair and a friendly yet apologetic smile on her face for popping in with little notice and needing to immediately head back out. She looked more beautiful than I had ever seen her before. She looked hot. I had a brief fantasy of following her out into the rain and... well, I plead the fifth on the last part. ;)
Wet hair and a black leather jacket aren’t usually sexual triggers of mine but on that day, oh boy were they ever.
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Honestly, if the question were “what’s most attractive” then the answer would be confidence. Skinny/fit gals that fit that ‘socially-accepted definition’ of attractive do tend to have more confidence, likely because they fit that look and know it, but not fitting ‘the look’ is not even close to being a deal breaker. I’ve been attracted to many big girls because of their personalities while I’ve been completely turned off from some thinner ladies due to their negative behavior. Besides, that ‘socially-accepted definition’ of beauty shouldn’t be given too much stock. Every woman will have a different shape and for every shape there will be plenty of dudes who are attracted to it.
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I watch professional football every chance that I get, no matter the team. Same goes for baseball. Soccer as well but only somewhat. And of course the Olympics (go USA) when they are on every other year.
I’ve slowly been getting into golf, rodeo, and MMA but those are more because of the people I hang out with. Really though, I probably can get into absolutely anything if I’m watching it with people who are enthusiastic fans. Basketball is a sport that I’ve really been trying to get into but it’s been a struggle since I’m constantly doing statistics in my head, causing me to lose focus on the actual game.
I follow any Seattle team (Seahawks, Mariners, Sounders, Mist, Storm, Sonics - RIP) because that’s where I’m from and a childhood of rooting for everything in the 206 has forever tied me to those teams. I’ll also root for the Rainiers but for the Apple Cup I either don’t root or root for WSU because most of my family went there for undergrad (funny story: my little brother just graduated from UW Medicine and wore cougar gear every single day - some days including a custom stethoscope I had made for him). My college of choice for sports is Montana State (alma mater) but they don’t take the national stage all too often except for in rodeo and occasionally FCS (aka D1 with a real playoff bracket) football.
I may start cheering for the Minnesota Wild as I don’t have a favorite NHL team and they are the closest but Seattle is getting one so I should probably hold off. The Timberwolves might gain my allegiance though, considering. Them or Denver at least.
I’ve slowly been getting into golf, rodeo, and MMA but those are more because of the people I hang out with. Really though, I probably can get into absolutely anything if I’m watching it with people who are enthusiastic fans. Basketball is a sport that I’ve really been trying to get into but it’s been a struggle since I’m constantly doing statistics in my head, causing me to lose focus on the actual game.
I follow any Seattle team (Seahawks, Mariners, Sounders, Mist, Storm, Sonics - RIP) because that’s where I’m from and a childhood of rooting for everything in the 206 has forever tied me to those teams. I’ll also root for the Rainiers but for the Apple Cup I either don’t root or root for WSU because most of my family went there for undergrad (funny story: my little brother just graduated from UW Medicine and wore cougar gear every single day - some days including a custom stethoscope I had made for him). My college of choice for sports is Montana State (alma mater) but they don’t take the national stage all too often except for in rodeo and occasionally FCS (aka D1 with a real playoff bracket) football.
I may start cheering for the Minnesota Wild as I don’t have a favorite NHL team and they are the closest but Seattle is getting one so I should probably hold off. The Timberwolves might gain my allegiance though, considering. Them or Denver at least.
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I’ve been spending quite a bit of money on experiences lately (concerts, theme parks, museums, etc) and although my savings account rings hollow some days, I take solace knowing that I’ll look back and be grateful that I took the opportunity to do things when I did. Additionally, donations to charities, churches, and children’s fund raisers never leave me with the slightest sense of remorse or regret.
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Yes. I have a farmer’s tan. I hate it and try to soften the lines by mowing the lawn in a tank top or performing yard work (planting, pulling weeds, etc) shirtless but I still stay rather pale in the middle compared to my darkened arms. I suppose that I could just deliberately tan in the back yard but who has time for that.
However I do love the tan line that forms from the strap of a watch or a pair of sandals.
However I do love the tan line that forms from the strap of a watch or a pair of sandals.
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This was the first time that I've attempted to write in the 'Flash' category and was surprised at how difficult it was to stay under 1,000 words. I had to ditch quite a bit of exposition although that's likely for the better. My admiration for the authors that excel at this category has grown immensely.
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Honestly, I don't feel that I vote or comment all that often unless I have something worthwhile to say or really want to give something that I feel deserves a great score, a great score. By having them linked, it makes it more difficult since I need to want to do both things before I can do either. However, I totally understand why people set things that way. It's nice to have specific feedback instead of just an arbitrary number (which are mostly fives anyway).
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Years ago, my relationship ended with this particular girl. I was devastated and it took me months to recover but in the end, we really just weren't right for each other. In the aftermath of the breakup, I'll admit that I retained feelings for my ex, feelings strong enough to fuel fantasies during those lonely hours of the night. Even now, after so much time has passed and with the knowledge that I have moved on, there still exist small traces of those feelings. It's extremely rare that those lingering scraps collect enough to warrant another fantasy on a lonely night, but I'll admit that it does happen, albeit very infrequently. After all, not all of those memories are bad. Some of them are quite good. Damn good, really.
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If you’re not much of a drinker and/or can’t stand the taste of alcohol, white wine.
If you’re new to the “wine scene” but eager to be involved, try a rosé.
Once you’ve settled down and can let your tastebuds really appreciate the flavors in a good bottle, then it’s time to uncork some reds.
If you’re new to the “wine scene” but eager to be involved, try a rosé.
Once you’ve settled down and can let your tastebuds really appreciate the flavors in a good bottle, then it’s time to uncork some reds.
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I can understand why some guys, probably many guys, would be threatened or intimidated by the mere idea of a size queen. Rejection isn’t something everyone takes in stride. Personally, I’m comfortable and confident enough within myself that I wouldn’t let something like that get to me should I be deemed too small by a gal looking for a massive porn-sized dong.
Some guys are only interested in huge tits. Some gals are only interested in massive cocks. To each their own.
Some guys are only interested in huge tits. Some gals are only interested in massive cocks. To each their own.
