Hello Olivia and greetings from South East England. I have a question that you might like to give an opinion on. (And be gentle because up until last year I led a very sheltered life in a sexually dull marriage). Three weeks back I went bareback for the first time in my life (I told you I led a sheltered life). When I orgasmed she told me that I was finally no longer a virgin and that sex with a condom doesn't count. What do you think?
Koch. xx
Well it's never happened to me but, if it did I would feel it impolite not to join in. But I wouldn't expect it to go any further, although it would be nice if it did.
Thanks to LittleBambi and Poizenivy. I'll post on the 'Ask the guys' forum. I'm not concerned about it, I love it and would hate to be common and boring. Oh and thanks heartoftheweb. xx
i type wth one hand,usally the lft leavng my oter han freee. of coursse it means i cant do captals nd my tpng gets wrs wen i get cloose tooo orgmmmm. Oops. As I was saying typing with one hand whilie masturbating can be difficult. Would be easier if you had an understanding lady friend who could give you a hand job while you are typing ;-) (virtual threesome? hmm).
Well I'm happy to play it cool and wiat until the moment is right, be it the 3rd, $th or even 5th. Trouble is that recent experience is that the woman has made the first move by the second date and, as I am a total slut, I haven't been able to hold back. :-)
I have always believed that most problems in relationships happen because people are not honest and open with each other. You need to speak with all three of the girls (either together or individually) and tell them how you feel. Of course there is no guarantee that it will turn out in your favour but you (and they) will know where you stand. I've had to do this in a slightly less complicated situation and the outcome was that we ended up going our separate ways. But I knew that, if we had not been open and honest with each other, the realtionship, such as it was, would not have been what either of us were looking for.
Good luck.
K
Well until a month ago I would have said that lingerie makes no difference. But when a friend of mine came round we started kissing and fondling on the sofa. She said, "Shall we go upstairs?" Silly question really but when I agreed she told me to wait 5 minutes. When I walked into the bedroom she had changed into black lace bra and panties, suspender belt and pink stockings. I don't know why a simple piece of material has the effect it does on a man but I was extremely aroused by it. The feel of flesh through nylon is very stimulating and the process of removing clothing to reveal what is underneath made my hornier than I've ever been. I have to say that what followed over the next four hours is testament to the effect of lingerie.
But insist on choosing lingerie yourself and never leave it up to your partner. It needs to be comfortable and provide easy access. Silk and nylon is probably best. And choose a colour that suits your hair colour or skin tone.
That's a tough one, but I would have to say breasts. But the size is not important. It's the nipples, especially pierced.
Well thats how the saying goes but I'd love to know whether I am unusual or in the minority among men. I find that I, like most men, love sex. But I find that I get more pleasure from pleasing a woman than simply 'getting my end away' to use a typical British turn of phrase. Massaging a woman's body, touching her, kissing her and making her orgasm is more satisfying to me than orgasming myself. Is that odd? Would love some honest feedback on this please.
FYRESTARTER (LIVE AT MILTON KEYNES) PRODIGY Currenlty bouncing around the room!!!!
As I own two beautiful resuce greyhounds it will always be dogs.
giving pleasure or getting pleasure?
I'm with My Pleasure on this one. Especially if they come into my office and say "Do you want me to take anything down?"
It has to be Salma Hayek. The first time I saw her was in Desperado. An intelligent woman with the body of a goddess.
Well today i had boiled egg and some toast.
I've got a 12 inch penis... but i don't use it as a rule.
Ready and Willing - Whitesnake
Desperado (Antonio Banderas) Let's play!
Nice one!
A policeman spots a nine year old boy in a school uniform walking around Soho, in London.
"What are you doing here? Are you lost?" asks the Policeman.
"No," said the boy, "I'm looking for a prostitute."
The policeman is horrified. "Why are you looking for a prostitute?"
"Well," said the boy "I want to have sex!"
"But why? You are too young to be thinking of sex." said the Policemen.
"I thought I could catch herpes!"
The policeman can't believe what he is hearing. "Why would you want to catch herpes?"
"Because," explained the boy,"then I could have sex with my babysitter and give her herpes. Then when dad has sex with her he would catch herpes too. Then when he has sex with mum she would catch herpes. And she would give it to our gardener."
The policeman is aghast. "But why would you want that to happen?"
"The bastard trod on my pet hamster and killed it."
dead cellphone
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What typically happens when I'm in the middle of a particularly hot sex texting session?
An empty bottle of Frascati
Thought it might be interesting to create a bucket list of unusual places to have sex. Where was the most unusual place that you had sex? Sadly I've never had sex in an unusual place so would welcome suggestions.
A slow naked full body massage.
Boogie wonderland... in my pants (Earth Wind and Fire)
Killer on the loose...in my pants. (Thin Lizzy)
Sex and Drugs and Rock n Roll... in my pants (Ian Dury and the Blockheads)
