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Over 90 days ago
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Quote by crazydiamond
Red Ones?
Yes, until she lets me see the pink ones.
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Jump in SH, the water is perfect.
MadiPaige... sure I do. It's just hidden from the masses.
MadiPaige... sure I do. It's just hidden from the masses.
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I'd have no problem doing that. Then I'll swim over to you and give a nice good zero gravity underwater fucking!
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Quote by TheDevilsWeakness
Well you did post some pretty insulting things about the writers (Even the amateurs like me). People are going to take it personally.
You might want to rethink what you wrote before tossing more criticism out there.
This is not the way to make friends (You know... the ones you'd like to cyber with), but it is one way to get attention.
I, for one, have seen a change in Lush culture. People are getting meaner.
Pointing out spelling mistakes in the forums (I find that extremely rude) or getting their back all up about something totally irrelevant that someone else has posted instead of taking the time to read between the lines or see it from their point of view instead of jumping down their throats and ganging up on them.
It's time to back away from the computer and get outside for some fresh air if you find something on Lush insulting and it makes you mad.
What she said.
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Quote by CurlyGirly
Honestly, I have to agree with you.
It's the same thing for men, right? No small dicks need apply. I've always thought a big dick is what makes a man. No point leaving the house unless you've got more than 9".
Thinking about getting this sign made: Big Dick or Bust!
Thank you for the thought-provoking post. Well done!
Sincerely,
Womans
That's....
Big Dick or Big Bust
Get it right, CG.
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Quote by CurlyGirly
This...I agree with (I think I just channeled Yoda).
I really would hate to see the forums broken down into a bunch of homogeneous little groups. That doesn't sound fun to me. I love the diversity and chaos of everyone posting anywhere, and I think we all learn more that way.
I definitely see where you're coming from, Milik, but I would really miss the mishmash of it all. I enjoy keeping the lines a little blurry.
I think that's just from all the booze. Give me your keys, CG!
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Quote by Milik_The_Red
This is quite right. It has been my experience that many men will either ignore any mention of homosexuality or qualify their own straightness before responding. This has made me feel uncomfortable and hesitant to post on that part of my nature. As I stated, I'm not surprised that no one but a gay man has noticed it. Why should they? I also didn't anticipate that there would be such strong objection to it. Well, I was certainly wrong on that count.
As you've seen me around, and I've been posting for several years, you know I don't start fires to watch them burn. I brought this up only because I felt it worthy, and because I felt lush would get it if any place would. Finding out how wrong I was has shaken me quite severaly. Maybe that is my own emotional baggage. God knows I have enough, and he equally knows I certainly don't need any more.
A straight man may ignore homosexual postings because he's just not into it and not because he's homophobic. I don't post in the BDSM threads because it's just not really my thing. There are several other topics and sections I don't post in for the same reason. I'm not opposed to those topics, I just don't have anything of substance to add to the discussion.
You should never feel hesitant to post anything, Milik. You're well regarded here and if someone called you out simply because you're bisexual, many people would come to your defense. Including myself. But I doubt anyone here on Lush would object to any posting that's coming from a gay/bisexual POV. Not here. I don't think there's strong opposition, it was even mentioned above by someone thanking you for bringing it up for discussion.
I've seen you around, you're a level headed dude and I respect your opinions. It is a worthy idea, but not everyone will agree that it's needed. And they're entitled to think so. While at the same time, not being homophobic about the possibility. We all have baggage, mine is enough to fill a stadium. Don't be shaken, your idea may happen. There are lots of other people, forum frequenters, that may agree with you. Nic may think it's a wonderful idea. You may have lots of others who chime in support. People disagree sometimes, I do on this. It isn't an indictment of you as a person.
Sorry for prattling on for so long.
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Quote by Milik_The_Red
Lol, well I tip my hat to you John. You have an amazing ability to tip an argument on its side. I started with a innocent attempt to add something I felt would be of value, and you managed to completely derail the thread.
Yes, I admit that I felt it needed because I felt disenfranchised and I assumed that others in my situation felt the same. I also felt that lush of all places would understand this. I was wrong. If you and the other posters are a true sampling, and it seems you are, then I have misjudged this badly.
You say you are not reacting with hostility, but it certainly felt that way to me. The laugh and the famous Ronald Reagan quote ending in caps certainly felt like derision, but you say it wasn't so fine, I accept that.
You object to the term gay community. Well that's what it's called. Sorry, but even if I chose not to use it, you will still have to hear it from time to time.
So congatulations, you win. The thread will likely never get seen. Your lock on the status quo is safe from me. I apologize for daring to think I had something constructive to offer.
This has been an eye opening experience. I can't say I'm happy, but perhaps I shouldn't be as surprised as I am
Milik, I've seen your postings in the forum for some time now. You're always well informed and fair. I can't speak for everyone in this thread, so i'll speak for me. I'm not totally opposed to the idea nor do I have the authority to decide for or against it. I just think it would be unnecessary.
Does posting gay/bisexual stuff in the existing forums make you uncomfortable? Do you find you don't get enough replies? And if so, is it because maybe the gay/bisexual men on Lush aren't comfortable in the existing sections? That isn't sarcasm, but genuine questions?
I find Lush to be very accepting of all things sexual (excluding , animals, and children) so you should be able to discuss anything as freely in existing forum sections as you would in a Gay/Lesbian/Bisexually designated thread. Hence my feelings of it be unnecessary. If it happens it won't change my Lushing experience nor will it of anyone else's. So again, I'm not "opposed" to it like some sort of political platform.
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I find that the Ask the Guys/Gals sections are enough to handle straight and gay/lesbian questions/comments. Of the dozens of "do you like blowjobs" question, the answer can just as easily come from a gay man as a straight one. Also, I think comparing the BDSM section to a Gay section is an apples to oranges debate. Gay people can engage in BDSM too.
There are plenty questions that are Gay specific questions in the forums, no reason more can't be added. Within the already existing sections.
There are plenty questions that are Gay specific questions in the forums, no reason more can't be added. Within the already existing sections.
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Hands down, I'll take the 2 woman hand job! Two women, four tits, four hands... MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
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Quote by Tammy_Nguyen_77
I have been a member of this site for about two weeks and the one thing that has stood out for me is the number of requests to chat I get. I will usually chat with anyone who asks, but it usuallly goes:
Me: Hi how are you.
Them: great but I'd be a lot better with your legs wrapped around me lol
Me thinking to myself: (I'd be a lot better off with my husband's fingers wrapped around your throat before he snaps your neck!!! because some guy just sent me a message asking if I'd like to suck his cock AS I'M TYPING THIS!!!)
I don't report people to moderators when this happens, or block them from contacting me. I'm also not really as angry as I may sound about it. Several people have sent me apology messages when I tell them I'm not into that. I just try to politely let them know that I'm not offended, I'm just not interested in that. My personal opinion is that I enjoy,and am aroused, by people being sexually aroused by my stories. I do not enjoy people being aroused by me. While I am flattered that so many people find me attractive, I feel that any one-on-one sexual roleplay with anyone other than my husband is a form of cheating. Since I'm new here I am interested in other women's opinion on this. Am I out of line being uncomfortable with such activity on a site like this?
This bold sentences seem to contradictory? You aren't offended, but it's cheating to cyber. Most monogamous people would consider cheating to be offensive? And you're uncomfortable with such activity on a "site like this". I'm not having a go at you over this, just pointing out that it's possible people are reading what you wrote differently than you meant it.
Quote by Tammy_Nguyen_77
Enough Already!
If you want me to be a bitch, fine I'll be one!
For everyone who says if you don't want attention don't put up sexy pics, or don't post sexy things. You know what,you are not going to win this argument. I have what you want. I can post naked pics, I can Tweet that I'm naked right now, horny and want to fuck, I can invite you to a cyber session, and guess what when you message me all I have to do is not click on the box. I don't have to go invisible, I don't have to stay off the site, all I have to do is ignore you. You can call me a bitch, slut, or whore if you want, but all you can do is come here and pout, or go over in the corner and spank your little monkey BY YOURSELF!!
Don't take your frustrations on girls that tease you here and won't put out on me. All I asked you chicken chokers was if you thought cybersex was cheating on your spouse. I didn't say I felt harassed, I didn't say I think anyone shouldn't do it and I didn't tease anyone here.
A few people may agree that I'm the one in the wrong on this forum, but I ALWAYS WIN. I can post anything I want, make it as sexy as I want, and if I say no to cyber, for whatever reason, that's the end of it. You can't kick me off this site, you can't report me to anyone. ALL YOU CAN DO IS GET MAD.
Yes, you are free to do all of those things. No one can stop you, nor should they. However, the people that view your naked pics, Tweets, horny wants to fuck, and cyber invitations are free to assume you're down for some cyber sex or roleplay. YOu can ignore messages and boxes all you want, that's not going to stop them from coming from the next guy that comes across your profile. And trust me, there are lots of other people here with whom your rejected wannabe cyber lovers can spank their "little" monkey with. How do you know they have little monkeys?
Your attitude does seem to be a bit condescending, at best. Man hating at worst. You can't say on one hand "don't take your frustrations out on girls that tease you.. blah blah blah... I didn't tease anyone...." while using terms like "little chickens, chicken chokers, and talk about your husband "snapping their necks" and then turn around a take out your frustrations on the same people. You're doing what you're telling them not to do, and you're doing it publicly instead of directly to them in private. That would be hypocrisy on your part.
If you don't want to cyber, don't. If you think it's cheating on your husband, fine. If you don't want to block or reply to potential cyber suitors, fine. But none of things are going to stop guys (who don't know your rules) from trying to get into your cyber pants.
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There are several threads on this topic, all with the same answers. So I tried to come up with a different way of asking it. I'm satisfied with my cock. It's purely average but it gets the job done. For me at least. lol
Ok, ladies. If you could become a man, and sculpt your new male body anyway you see fit. Knowing what you know about yourself and women in general, what size cock would you give yourself?
Ok, ladies. If you could become a man, and sculpt your new male body anyway you see fit. Knowing what you know about yourself and women in general, what size cock would you give yourself?
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As far as I can tell, Oscar Pistorius has always been a fame whore. First he sues to be able to race in the "normal" Olympics, saying his blades weren't an advantage (which they weren't). Then O.P. loses in the Para-Olympics and complains that he lost to someone whose who had an unfair advantage because his blades were too long (which they weren't). He's a self centered hypocrite.
Typical athlete that thinks he's above the law.
Typical athlete that thinks he's above the law.
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Quote by LovingHusband708
My wife has decided she no longer wants to French kiss me. She claims she "doesn't know why" but has determined she does not enjoy it any more. Of course, I LOVE it and find it to be a huge turn-on. In the past few years, I've noticed a big decline. Now, nothing. Any suggestions are much appreciated. I'm only 52 and figure I've got at least 25 years of dry kisses ahead of me. Don't like that idea one bit.
I'm of a different mindset. I don't think it has anything to do with oral hygiene. You've been married for 25 years, with that amount of time under your belt you're wife is probably comfortable enough to tell you, "yo, hubby. you need to brush yo teeth!"
She doesn't want to French kiss, is she still ok with other kisses. Quick pecks to say good night and hello? She hasn't cut sex out altogether yet right? So when you're having sex, do you kiss at all? Mouths/lips pressed together but no tongue? Or is there no kissing of any kind?
I'm not in the camp that thinks your wife not wanted to French kiss is necessarily because of something you've done wrong, or bad breath. This is something much deeper than that. If she's lost her enjoyment of French kissing, why? French kissing in general or french kissing with you.
Hard truth, if the woman I loved decided she didn't want to makeout anymore I'd assume the worst. Either...
1. She's no longer in love with me, therefore kissing me grosses her out.
2. She's having an affair and is in love with another man. Kissing you feels like she's cheating on him, odd as that may be.
3. Her sex drive is diminishing and this is the tip of the iceberg and it won't be long until all sexual contact is "no longer what she wants since she gets no enjoyment out of it". edit... which she is entitled to feel, it's her body. how you deal with that as an individual and as a couple is what will matter.
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Trinket is a master contortionist and can lick her own pussy.
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I've been watching Elementary for a few weeks now. It's a pretty good show and the chemistry between Miller and Liu works, and should get better as the series progresses. Also fun to see Lucy Liu step out of her typical Maneater/tough girl type roles she played on Ally McBeal, Kill Bill, and Charlies Angels. Her softer side comes out well as Watson.
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Yeah, I realize that but it still seems silly. I've never played soccer but from what I've seen, the players do spend some time in close proximity. Pushing against each other, touching each other, there is contact. Not to mention sitting next to your teammates on the bench. I'm sure they touch each other. After 90 minutes of playing soccer, the high fives aren't adding any danger. I realize there was/is a flu epidemic, if it's that bad then why play at all?
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NYC Soccer ban
Austrualia, no candle blowies at schools/daycares
Maybe we should start bubble wrapping our kids. Or we can all buy some robots that can live our lives for us while we control them via remote from our homes.
Austrualia, no candle blowies at schools/daycares
Maybe we should start bubble wrapping our kids. Or we can all buy some robots that can live our lives for us while we control them via remote from our homes.
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Quote by Nikki703
You trying to kill LM?
If I gotta go... might as well be while fucking and sucking you three!