Arrival I’m Matt (male) and was 16 when it first happened; my cousin Jess (female) was 17. My grandmother had a cottage in upstate NY, and the family went there to have a vacation. My parents and my little sister were there with me, of course, and my aunt and uncle (Dad's side) and their daughter (my cousin) were there as well. My other cousin was at some kind of sports camp, lacrosse, I think, but it did not matter. Gran...