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Easier? What happened to HARDER?

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Yes, pushing out your sphincter works because as you let it go it has to return to its original state "sucking in" the intruding object, but the down side is that it may cause prolapse... I would rather you work on breathing exercises until it becomes natural, and just breath in as you are inserting the dildo in. For me though, dpw's recommendation of finding a hot man attached to a hard dick works wonders ;))

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I know it may seem strange but when you're lubed push your sphincter out, that actually relaxes the muscles and allows easier entry. However, as a gay guy, I would recommend a cock with a good looking man attached to it. Lol

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I am a gay bottom and love the feeling of a hard cock in me, rubbing and creasing my prostate… so believe me when I tell you that the key to anal sex is to relax and use lots of lube to allow the cock or dildo to slide in. Start small like with fingers and gradually increase length and girth.

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Ah but different countries have different laws. No such thing as lewd behaviour in the UK, We have gross indecency. A few years ago police were using young attractive policemen as agent provocateurs to entice gay men in known cruising areas this was ruled illegal. Since then judges have become more and more reluctant to find against people in cruising areas that are away from the public. In one case a judged ruled that a wooded area of a park at night that was famous for sexual encounters would only attract like minded people who would not be offended. It seems over here the police only act if a member of the public complain. Much more sensible don't you think!

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Unless you're in the middle of a public park in front of families why would you get arrested.

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I find it strange that you ask the guys when you think we are "visually, emotionally and sexually inferior". In your fantasies are you ever with your partner and a guy? If so would she be open to a mmf threesome? Maybe as a voyeur if she was not keen on being active. If you're alone in the fantasy with the guy then you can find a local cruising spot or glory hole. The main thing is to remember it's a fantasy, if it could damage your relationship let it remain just a fantasy. Reality is seldom as good.

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I have to agree with sprite. You are human and life is confusing sometimes but I always know that life is to be enjoyed. So go with it and enjoy it while you can.

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you're human and you're you. and that's a serious answer, btw.

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Really, how do you have sex and not have any dirty talk? To me it's a matter of how dirty one wants to get!!! After all ...SEX minus ALL dirty talk = Silence! NOT my idea of fun!!!

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I've noticed that guys are naturally drawn to a large pair of boobs, especially when there's a fair bit of cleavage on display.

Then again, when I'm wearing a tight t-shirt with no bra, that tends to draw their eyes too.

You just have to learn how to make best use of what you have lol.

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"My wife had her first squirting orgasm last night. Should we tell our friends??"

yes. in years past, it was considered customary to send out a formal announcement, usually on nice parchment paper. i believe nowadays, however, it is acceptable to simply tweet about it.

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Squirting isn't always a good thing lol. Very messy ;)

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as you well know, MDM...it's glass that rules this world.

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I have to admit that I never had a sex toy, they didn't really interest me, then I joined Lush. It took a while but after reading so many posts from women who swear by them and in some cases have a large collection to choose from, I bought one, it's silicone, it doesn't get used very often, it's still in its probatory period

Glass sounds very interesting though so I will experiment with one of those in the future.