Quote by olsa
Butt plugs for training, training for what?
Training for a lot more insertions and anal play. I started this topic quite a while ago though and have come a long way since then
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martb40
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I've been trying a lot lately to orgasm just by riding a dildo or by using a p spot vibrator but I just can't seem to get there. I know I'm getting close because I leak precum and that feeling of build up is there but I just can't reach the peak and I have to finish with the usual stroking of my cock. I've tried all sorts and sizes of dildos and still, though it's pleasurable, it isn't enough. Has anyone any suggestions as to what I can do to cum hands free so to speak???
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Quote by syzygy
glass, in three different sizes, fro ass training
I'm looking at a set right now with seven pieces, though I'm not sure how useful some of the pieces are for stretching.
The first size seems to be very small and there I one very long piece that seems more like a glass dildo.
I'm sure that could be put to good use too but maybe not for training.
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Quote by darkroot50
The stainless steel jeweled plugs often come in sets of 3 sizes like these:
I've looked at these but I'm not sure the neck is wide enough for the stretch I'm after.
They look wonderful and are probably great for wearing once you get that butt a little looser lol.
Of course I could be completely wrong on all that.
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I am a guy who likes to experiment an that means using dildos. Sometimes, though, I find that I'm more than a bit sore afterwards, even with plenty of lube and other times I can't even get my dildo of choice home, which is frustrating. I have tried patience but that only goes so far and I've tried forcing it a bit and that is oweeee and leads to cuts. I would like to stretch myself gradually, if that's possible, to allow for more intense pleasure and less nasty after effects. Maybe you could help me out with some info please. It's getting to a point where it's almost not worth it to persist anymore. That being said I am looking for recommendations for step up butt plugs for guys.
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I have played around with anal for a while, using a variety of toys, including my wife's dildos. I love the feeling of penetration and I wanted to experiment with having my wife fuck me with a strap-on. I haven't broached the subject with her yet as I feel a bit weird asking for this particular pleasure. Any advice on how I should approach the subject and if she's willing to try(I believe she will be) how do we proceed. Any advice about the best strap-on to use would be appreciated.
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My wife and I would love to share her pussy with another guy, both of us inside her pussy at the same time. Now I know it would be a tight fit but we could make it work with the right guy. We would love to have us all fucking each other, she loves the kinky aspect of making both of us cum and the added thrill of seeing my cock rubbing up against another guys and helping him cum. I have to admit, I love the idea too. Any Thoughts? Practical experience? We would love to hear from you.k2v5apxvkqmhB9Pa
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To begin, I really love the feeling of being filled and it always intensifies my orgasm when I have a thick dildo in my ass. It's like nothing else I have ever experienced. But I have 2 small problems. I can't use a silicone based lube with my favourite July dildo because, as you know, silicone melts jelly. Not good!!! So I need advice on a really good quality water based lube that will keep me lubed up for the long haul.
That brings me to my second issue. Though I need to have a thick dildo to massage my p spot to best effect my poor asshole doesn't recover for hours afterwards and I'm left feeling very uncomfortable for some time. I have tried desensitizer creams and gels but haven't found one that works really well so far.
Please, if you can recommend any good products I will be eternally grateful ?
That brings me to my second issue. Though I need to have a thick dildo to massage my p spot to best effect my poor asshole doesn't recover for hours afterwards and I'm left feeling very uncomfortable for some time. I have tried desensitizer creams and gels but haven't found one that works really well so far.
Please, if you can recommend any good products I will be eternally grateful ?
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Quote by KellyC317
I was hoping to see a response to this, as these days, at our ages, my husband could really use it!
Since posting this question I have done some experimenting and have found that a glass dildo works well to start. It goes in easy and puts the right amount of pressure on the prostate to make it pleasurable. The best thing though is a jelly dido. It is a bit wider than most glass dildo's but it feels great and makes your orgasm much stronger. You can use a strap-on or get one with a suction cup so he can fucking it himself while you watch or play with him. I do suggest, however, that you invest in an anal desensitizer. It helps a lot for the beginner.
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Thank you so much for your input. Any and all info is welcome. We both like my cock and a dildo in her pussy too and would maybe like to experiment with a third. A dildo is fine to give us an idea of size but that doesn't give us the excitement of the kink factor. Sharing is caring and all that. :-)
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Quote by chatnstroke
I've played with a number of different toys - all have been fun
Vibrating butt plugs are good - and you can move around which is cool.
Cock shaped dildo with a suction cup is great for riding and hits the prostate nicely - I had one that vibrated which added to it nicely.
Also had a Rude Boy which has a nice curve to it with ridges and different vibrations - that really did a nice job.
But my favorite one is the Vibro Play (below) - it's a bit less exotic than the others but I think it is the best for when I am edging - once you slip it in you can sit comfortably while surfing porn or chatting online - it has a bullet vibe inside and the vibrations really massage the prostate - turn it on and off over the course of an extended edging session... the resulting orgasm is super intense. Bit of advice if you like long edging fun... have spare batteries :)
Thanks. That's the kind of thing I'm looking for. Something to enhance my orgasms. All suggestions are welcome